some tips from Australia:
An additional point to note here is how I feel that many of the negative traits can also apply to women in general.
Work in massage parlors, bars or nightclubs
Go out and stay out till very late at night
Often reject calls from you and do not reply to IMs or emails
Lie about reasons they need money and try to ask you for financial aid
Have a huge circle of friends who are working in massage parlors, bars and nightclubs (bad girls)
Good thai girls and bar Thai girls are quite often easy to spot, once you know what to look for, despite her telling you she’s a ‘good girl’, you might not always believe her.
However, do try to remember that these are only guidelines and meeting one of the above criteria is not enough to guarantee that she is an untrustworthy girl. Nonetheless, if she meets several or more of the above points, then take it as a very severe warning-sign and try to stay on the alert.
The most important thing is to trust what your instincts tell you.
Decent thai girls might still lie. But they are more likely to lie to save your feelings from being hurt, or to save you from embarrasement, than they are to entagle you in a web of deceipt about sponsors and money.
Generally, meeting a decent traditional Thai girl is pretty much the same as meeting and dating a decent girl anywhere else in the world. And apart from the language barrier, it is similar in many aspects to dating in your own country. (Although
Thai culture and Thai ‘thinking’ might be quite different to ours, at times. Cultural differences are a problem that can be ironed out with some adaptation and compromise. Adaptability and a willingness to accept and learn are vital in succeeding in a relationship with a Thai girlfriend.)
In conclusion
If you don’t know what your Thai girlfriend is doing on a day to day basis, or if she’s telling you something that doesn’t add up, trust your juegement, especfially if you’re not usually a suspicious or jealous person. Many of your frustrations will stem from good reasons, more often than not, though you might not always like what your intuition is telling you.