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Why go for Thai gals? Why not go for the best?
if your best referred to sinkie gals, then you are in the wrong thread.
Anyway, you idea of best does not mean it is the best for everyone.
Why go for Thai gals? Why not go for the best?
Why go for Thai gals? Why not go for the best?
dietcoke, you are lucky to get a wife which show the middle finger to her relatives who are opportunistic money grabbers.
how i detect money grabbing thai shit.
Thai girls whom you met , they will try to give you the picture of the need to work hard to support their family, father , mother, siblings..
on further prompting, they will be happy that the guy they be with can give them money to support HER parents..
The richer you are, the more brides money you are entitled to give to her parents during marriage.
Usually these types are from poor families..
those Thais girls who are not there to take advantage of you usually are from families who are financially stable, having decent jobs (PMET) among their siblings.
You will never heard them mentioned about needing money to support their family. but more on to company their parents so they will not feel lonely.
There was once i know a Thai lady who work as the CEO secretary earning 40k baht per month or more, the last time i heard from her, she is happily married.
She bring her mum to rooftop dinner for her birthday with her brother. If you can bring your mum to rooftop dinner, i dun think you have money problem. One dinner cost about 7k to 10k baht per person.
From my experience, it is much better to mix around with Thais who are financially stable than those poor Thai fucks who takes every opportunity to try to find out if you have money.
better as in being more relax with the person and enjoy their company, having good topics to talk about and doesn't hit the brakes and talk about needing money to do certain things.
everyone will want to go for the best. but i differ.
ok, lets say the bestest girl u met is...for example.. kate middleton (just for example only. u can swap with other names too). good right?
BUT, does it brings out the best of both of u? it may seems good. she got tons of money, famous etc. she doesn't mind u live off her wealth. BUT, u will lose ur hunger and strive for doing well in life. then, she will meet a better person and divorce u. u fall into mental breakdown. u do not possess social and working skills cos every night u go party with her money.
BUT.........
if u met a lady whom u think is perfect, u will strive and try to provide the best. she will also treasure u for ur whole life. isn't it better?
as what the saying goes, marriage is made of 2 halves. u are one half, ur partner is the other half.
in my view, thai girls are not on my top list of likes. but it just happens that my the other half is a thai...and the most impt thing is, it brings out the best in both of us.
You are very naive. Poor = money grabbing sh8it and rich is not. I wait to hear you back in this forum 10 years from now if it still exist. I will prepare a few packs of tissue for your tears and see you slap yourself for being so naive.
Sorry buddy, I hate to differ with your stereotyping.
1. Marrying someone = marrying his her whole family is pretty common in any asian culture including in Singapore
2. Most Thai girls outside Bangkok are pretty sensible and jai-dee-mak-mak and will take care of you and your finance and even protect you from hungry-wolves in her family. Bangkok girls like most developed cities have more demands like sinkie girls.
you even make an effort to reply to that sinkie dumbfuck who knows nothing much and bullshit around in the forum.
Chiangmai , Chiangrai , Bangkok , Issan , Maesai all sama sama , out of the 10 cases I witnessed 8 are like that ( ie. money-grabbing )
At the very least , I do not have a Thai ladyboy wife grabbing my ass every night
Wonder which Sinkie dumbfuck says he is in Krung Thep while he is holed up in his pigeon hole
If you think that is naive, then it is your problem.
The reality I encounter is this. These poor fucks wants out of poverty and want face too. I have totally no patience with these poor fucks.
I am more comfortable with financially stable Thais. They are driven for and by success and keep their high pay job and businesses going.
I find these poor fucks very irritating. Initially, they are nice to you. When there is a chance to ask you for help to buy stuffs, they delay paying you back after they got their stuffs. And they are friends which I considered decent. I was wondering why they got such habits. The well off Chinese Thais are different. They gave you a good treat after you helped them or get stuffs for them.
My style is I dun like any problems and situations which messed up that is from anything to do with money. It is fucking irritating.
Your attitude towards the Thais, your perception, your arrogance => This is what we call the Sinkie attitude. With that attitude you are likely to be stuck with your ladyboy partner for good. Anyway just to let you know, your understanding of the Thai people and culture is about zero.
I never claimed that i am in Thailand, all the while i am in aussieland.
oh yeah, since you know so much about thai.. then you go ahead with your enjoyment and wisdom with the Thai.. for hell i care what the shit you think.
Despite all the insults against you, let me enlighten you a little bit.
Most office workers, the OLs who are young and cute, they earn between 10k to 20k Baht a month. 60k Baht monthly salary are managerial level salaries.
Typically the average Thai is so poor that if anyone in the family hooks a foreigner, it is like throwing a lifeline to drowning people. Most people do not earn enough to live comfortably. It is like those days if you go to a China village, everyone will claim to be your relative. So shed your arrogant attitude. These people are so poor that they do not consider it a shame to ask for financial help.
Before you start calling them money grabbing shit, learn to understand most Thais subscribe to the concept of B.O.S.S yes Bros of Share Share. For instance if someone in the family is better off than the rest, he will help the rest financially... and yes the whole clan. It is like "pride to the family" if one member is able to help the rests, they value this more than keeping the money for their own material comfort. Therefore if you marry someone from the family, they extend this B.O.S.S concept to you and expect you to help the family as a matter of fact.
This is not to say that you have to avoid them like plague. You have to educate your Thai partner on the limitations of what one person can do, help them understand many Sinkies do not have that much disposable income to help her family. You can try to instill in her why everyone should be responsible for their own life but this might not get far. If you have set her expectation right, if she understands all these and still wants to be with you, then it is good for you.
The girl will still ask you to help her family occasionally, and if you love your partner then you should not be a miser... i guess if you cannot afford to spare a few thousand dollars a year then you should forget it. One caution is if your partner has a "working girl" background... she might go sell her body to help her family if you don't.
So your subdivision into "poor money grabbing shit" or "wealthy respectable ladies from good family" is very very naive... it does not exist. If you think there is a pretty Thai girl from a wealthy family, i can assure you she won't give a shit to some average Sinkie.
Class divide. The career types, better educated, well off (and independent) are similar to other asian communities up the social ladder. Those seen to be money grabbing, liars ('strawberries' in thai speak) are a reflection of the thai social demographics.
Another social observation: Many single mothers, with thai blokes either MIA or bums. So the foreigner meal ticket phenomenon...
yeah man, like as though i can't choose which social class i want to mix with.. That cock is so sinkie.
You can choose the social class u want to mix with but only those of your class will mix with you, ie LOW CLASS