If the sinkie men are streetwise & have the determination to live differently …
(1) HDB 4-rooms or 5-rooms flats .. no private property please
(2) Self sufficiency lifestyle - Foods from FairPrice supermarkets & good honest hawker stalls as restaurants provide no good value meals
(3) Bring wife & kids to Museum that are free entrance instead of needing to spend silly money to fly to other countries for holidays
If you able communicate with wife & do the above 3 things .. you are likely to live a longer happily life