Sg Men in 50s

[tobelightlight]

If you lent them money, only lend what u can afford to lose (not get back).

When they have the money, some will go for tours, buy car, buy shares, instead of repaying the loan.

Never ever lend money. If a friend ask for money, reject it. If they ask again, remove them from your life. My rule is no money lending if you want to socialize with me.

I do not need friend so i am not hard up for friend, i am totally happy and fine by myself. I talk and social with pple is to be nice and polite to them or to help them in some minor inconveniences, not that i need to have them as a friend.

The Sigma Male style.

 

[Dr Christopher Cheok C S]

I hurt myself today
To see if I still feel

I focus on the pain
The only thing that's real

 

[tobelightlight]

As for myself, my pay is now back to 15 years ago. Can you believe it? every month is like negative cashflow.

Expenses are higher now - still got to fund the kids and parents.

no wonder you named yourself as bye bye penis.

 

[tobelightlight]

When I was in my 50s, I started to seriously weed out those lousy friends. I didn't give them the time of day, so they started to trickle away. Left only with the good ones.

By this age, we should also know how fucked up and cruel people can be, so I was more guarded but also more compassionate. Towards the disadvantaged, the bullied, and especially towards animals. I have been this way since.

If you have a family that you are proud of, and are good to you, congrats. Spend more time with them, to add meaning and fulfillment to your life. If you don't, a few buddies (including GFs, FBs) are worth their weight in gold.

I never had urine problems due to an enlarged prostate. Firstly, I always have a lady companion to drain out the swamp from my balls. Also, I take Saw Palmetto daily (pls google to find out more).

dunno why i feel that you kind of talk cock. not real one. half real half talk cock.

 

[VanDick]

The best is stay away from marriage. Not saying it gets rid of all your problems. You still have to deal with old-age related health issues later on.

But at least you won't have to worry about financing a family (Kids, wife, mortgage, living expenses), putting up with your bitchy wife and the irritating in-laws, and probably getting stuck in a sexless marriage. That is one hell of a depressing load lifted off your shoulders.

 

[Scrooball (clone)]

I find this thread amusing. You think men in 50s got it bad?

Wait till u see men in their 20s. Went uni, went army, come out and look stupid. HDB flats are sky high expensive, jobs pay barely $3-4k if u are in a shit industry or if you can even get a job with so many cheap foreigners flooding the country.

 

[Willamshakespear]

When I was in my 50s, I started to seriously weed out those lousy friends. I didn't give them the time of day, so they started to trickle away. Left only with the good ones.

By this age, we should also know how fucked up and cruel people can be, so I was more guarded but also more compassionate. Towards the disadvantaged, the bullied, and especially towards animals. I have been this way since.

If you have a family that you are proud of, and are good to you, congrats. Spend more time with them, to add meaning and fulfillment to your life. If you don't, a few buddies (including GFs, FBs) are worth their weight in gold.

I never had urine problems due to an enlarged prostate. Firstly, I always have a lady companion to drain out the swamp from my balls. Also, I take Saw Palmetto daily (pls google to find out more).

Thanks for your input & sharing, Mr Glockman, a respected member in this often free flow of information, good or bad, but at the least EACH do have to be intelligent & perspective enough, thru self diligence, to discern what is right & wrong.

Criticisms, right or wrong, are only inevitable in our World. Thus take no offence, as some take time to grow up, than to just evidently grow old & bitter....

All the best to you. Stay happy & positive always.

Most of us here would had never been through the rigors of life that you had lived & experienced, the mistakes/failures but successes that you had after realization, as no mortal is perfect, more so those whom only grew old ignorantly but had never grew up, sadly, & may our progress & evolution in a peaceful World brings MORE advances in society, science, tech & economy to help EACH have a better life & future for all, thru support & encouragement, to see another beautiful sunrise on planet Earth & loved ones far longer than ASS U MEd...

 

[Ah Max]

My group of guy friends are very troubled lately. A lot of stuff to share but don't know how to start.

This thread is my tribute to Singapore men in their 50s, juggling their multiple and conflicting roles in life, struggling to find sanity in our lives.

if we vote in 10 moar opposition memberz in ze next ge in2 parleement, will it help?

 

[ykhuser]

Never ever lend money. If a friend ask for money, reject it. If they ask again, remove them from your life. My rule is no money lending if you want to socialize with me.

I do not need friend so i am not hard up for friend, i am totally happy and fine by myself. I talk and social with pple is to be nice and polite to them or to help them in some minor inconveniences, not that i need to have them as a friend.

The Sigma Male style.

no friends?so only pcc alone.no friends,drink opi alone?no friend,go hoilday alone with tour group?

 

[sbfuncle]

Single men in their 30s and early 40s should be having the best of their time.
They have the money to go enjoy while still not being old enough to deal with health issues, both themselves and their parents. Also they are still attractive, both in appearance and financially.

Single men after 50 will start to see all that coming. Married man after 50 will be worse.

 

[tobelightlight]

no friends?so only pcc alone.no friends,drink opi alone?no friend,go hoilday alone with tour group?

I said i dun need friends but not no friends. I have real authentic friends that i keep close to. But additional friends, dun really need it. I am emotionally self-sufficient. Even if i lost all of my real friends, that is ok too.

 

[ykhuser]

I said i dun need friends but not no friends. I have real authentic friends that i keep close to. But additional friends, dun really need it. I am emotionally self-sufficient. Even if i lost all of my real friends, that is ok too.

oh.I apologized for my misread.

 

[NanoSpeed]

oh.I apologized for my misread.

He drinks Andy Lau's 忘情水.

 

[tobelightlight]

The best is stay away from marriage. Not saying it gets rid of all your problems. You still have to deal with old-age related health issues later on.

But at least you won't have to worry about financing a family (Kids, wife, mortgage, living expenses), putting up with your bitchy wife and the irritating in-laws, and probably getting stuck in a sexless marriage. That is one hell of a depressing load lifted off your shoulders.

real life example here.

 

[Robert Half]

What I see in the men in 50s …

(1) Many of them are broke & homeless cos they are divorced

(2) Living an unsustainable lifestyle by staying in private condo with wife & kids eating the most expensive foods for almost every meal

(3) Jobless cos nobody wanted to hire them

 

[NanoSpeed]

What I see in the men in 50s …

(1) Many of them are broke & homeless cos they are divorced

(2) Living an unsustainable lifestyle by staying in private condo with wife & kids eating the most expensive foods for almost every meal

(3) Jobless cos nobody wanted to hire them

No. 2 is funny.

 

[Robert Half]

No. 2 is funny.

Mainly because their wife cannot stay in the lowly public housing & almost every meal eat restaurants

Furthermore expensive overseas holidays & renovations furnishings that are not needed at all

Money come & go easily

 

[NanoSpeed]

Mainly because their wife cannot stay in the lowly public housing & almost every meal eat restaurants

Furthermore expensive overseas holidays & renovations furnishings that are not needed at all

Money come & go easily

I shared your observations except that I didn't realize it was unsustainable lifestyle.

 

[tobelightlight]

Mainly because their wife cannot stay in the lowly public housing & almost every meal eat restaurants

Furthermore expensive overseas holidays & renovations furnishings that are not needed at all

Money come & go easily

i ever heard before that the wife of such husband actually need Evian water to make ice cubes at home.

 

[Robert Half]

I shared your observations except that I didn't realize it was unsustainable lifestyle.

For example wife & kids spend $100 a meal on restaurants a day .. for 1 month, it’s will be $3000

Let say the man earn $10K can also go broke soon if he lose his job