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Everyone has their own problems and constraints. For people like Frodo, when he is talking about Starex MPV, he is definitely talking about big families. Big families means more rooms as daughters and sons start to grow up as young ladies and young men. I cannot see how them still sharing rooms and toilets. As parents, we want the best for them and give them what we can afford even if it means we as parents sacrifice a little. (Somehow my kids don't share these thoughts).
Then again you have aged parents. The least you can do is to give them space. My late brother had a bed ridden mother in law who make a mess of herself every time her own room. His wife has to clean up everytime and it is not to manage in a cramped up HDB. Anyway she was called to Lord's side but that was after 6 years. In JB, if it is a landed, things are more spaced out and even movements can be easier. One day, we would be like that as well.
Then you have children education to take care. What school, which school and cost of schools.
For investors who are single, it is totally different scenario. No baggage, no worries at least until many years later. Priorities are different.
You can rent and unrent anytime you want. Absolute freedom. Different talk altogether.
Then people talk about cut losses. Abandon the investment and screw the S&P. It is not that simple. Those who got in will find it very difficult to extricate himself out. If anyone say abandon ship, I would say..show me how.
My piece is to respect whatever decisions each make. I have to right to say they are right or wrong, cos everyone make decisions according to his wants and needs. Outsiders don't.
Words of a weathered man who has seen much and experienced much! Very often while seated in the comfort of the new car we would remind our kids, who tend to take things for granted as though it is their entitlement, that they should count it a blessing to be able to live in a big house and travel in a big car, because back in Singapore it would never have been possible. We would tell them that the move to JB opened the door to these possibilities, not because we “eh sai” but because we “buay sai” in Singapore!
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