I agreed bro xebay11. As a matter of fact, I suspect I am right in the same boat as bro Frodo, the fact we are getting the same residence in JB resounded that
self proclaimed peasant is the self awareness of oneself. Bro Frodo might not be the true peasant as in the meaning of peasant, however with his pay, he has to upkeep his entire family and that is admirable to me at least. However that also means his disposal income monthly after subtracting his household expenses will be minimum as compared to many out that (given he is the sole breadwinner). I feel him as I am drawing what a lot of Malaysians deem as "High Income" after the conversion of currency, yet I finding it hard to maintain the high level lifestyle in JB after a year. In fact, I am just surviving with my parents and my wife. The plus point i see is I have a lifetime car now as long as it is still running and the 4 doors are intact. At the same time, I am finally owner of a freehold property. This is never going to be achievable with my current pay grade in Singapore.
Many talk about investing in IM, I think similar to bro Frodo, I am also left Singapore because of lack of options as my old folks are nearing retirement age without insurance and saving, the way to ensure I still have the capacity to look after them and not letting them work till they drop by cleaning tables or collecting cardboard when they are in their 70s is to move to JB and rent out the HDB to generate passive income.
One good thing about shifting over to JB is I am able to look at Singapore in a different light. I became less grumpily and more positive. Many things in life is with a choice, options might be limited but you can still make a choice on how you want to lead your life. Crossing the border daily for work is definitely a lot more taxing however if there are so many who are doing it day in day out for years, why can't we do the same in order to provide better living condition for our family is what I keep telling myself to drive me on. Not easy but doable.