I am heartbroken

[Queen Seok Duk]

Queen Seok Duk

Are you a psychologist?

:o

No. I'm 范蠡。

 

[krafty]

you all cannot get yourselves any girls, then come here and try to act as some good advisors,who shld fuck off?

That is the best piece of advice so far. Some people need to be scolded before they will fuck off.

 

[chinkandoo]

No, you should make good use of the friend. You must not appear dejected, and must not give any hint to the friend that you're crestfallen.

When a woman rejects a man, she always pauses for a response to justify her decision. A crestfallen man who is totally devastated by the rejection is the kind of confirmation that she needs - a confirmation that justifies her rejection.

To woo a woman, you must arouse her soul. Women work in the reverse way. Men are suckers to women stroking their ego. Women are suckers when their pride is challenged.

Date the friend and tell her that you're not really attracted to her. Use the word 'attracted'. Women cannot accept the fact that they are not attractive. She will want to prove you wrong, and prove she is attractive. While you're using the friend to relay message, be exceptionally nice to the friend, like as if you're courting her but short of any hints. Be gallant and gentlemanly. The friend, if she is touched by your manners, will psycho the girl to give it another thought.

With a woman who already has a boyfriend, you must not kum kum cheng. She has a 'goalkeeper', and it's not easy for you to shoot and score. Her heart is not empty because she has a goalkeeper. You must make one of her defenders (her friend) your accomplice. Then you will have better chances of scoring.

Is ths called leeverst psychology??

 

[Queen Seok Duk]

I am just trying to wake him up!

Good women look for successful men. Krafty should strive to be one.

But if you think again, behind every successful man is a virtuous woman. Maybe he is looking for that virtuous woman to help him succeed.

 

[Queen Seok Duk]

Is ths called leeverst psychology??

Sorry, could you please explain that word ?

 

[chinkandoo]

But if you think again, behind every successful man is a virtuous woman. Maybe he is looking for that virtuous woman to help him succeed.

Actually behind every successful man is a big boob fly sucking blonde.

 

[Queen Seok Duk]

Actually behind every successful man is a big boob fly sucking blonde.

One sleeping beauty by the surname Kwa will prove your observation sala.

 

[Queen Seok Duk]

Good women look for successful men.

By the way, a lot of great men were not deemed successful when they were alive.

Mozart - poor man
Van Gogh - lagi poor
Beethoven - kanna V.D.
Tschaikovsky - not man, but gay
Confucius - rejected by 魯王，not successful
Zhu Geliang - lost the kingdom to 曹丕

 

[Jah_rastafar_I]

It's the motive that is the crux of the matter.

I see your point. In other words we make frens or have love relationships just simply for the sake of making friends or loving the person yet it's not realistic don't you think?

Theoratically what you say makes a lot of sense and is correct. Yet in reality how many of us actually marry or make frens based on what you have written?

A poor village gal for eg marries a man from a 1st world country for benefits like financial security not cos of love. It happens everywhere like russia gals marrying american men for eg.

Ppl join hobby groups or dating sites to make new frens or to find love for eg. They are lonely cos they join these groups or lack a love life this is pretty obvious since a man with many frens wouldn't join such a group.


When i go overseas or migrate overseas for eg to oz. I make new frens with sinkees over there. Why? To overcome my loneliness since i am a new comer in that country.

You see everyone does it so perhaps you could elaborate on how could a person find love or make frens like how you put it without making use of others.

 

[Ramseth]

Zhu Geliang - lost the kingdom to 曹丕

Unfair assessment of Zhuge Liang. In his lifetime, he helped created a kingdom out of nothing, except a few nomadic warlords with little manpower and no landbase at all. He didn't lose the kingdom during his lifetime. At his death, the kingdom he built was still there and strong enough to accord him grand ceremonious imperial funeral for prime minister and emperor guardian that even Wei and Wu recognised as legit and honored. The kingdom he helped so much to build was lost after his death, none of his fault.

Inaccurate assessment of Cao Pi too. He didn't conquered the Shu kingdom. It was much later that Shu was conquered by Deng Ai under Sima Zhao, who had already usurped the Wei kingdom (Cao Pi passed away already). Sima Zhao also passed away suddenly and his son Sima Yan completed the conquest of the Wu kingdom to reunite China putting an end the Three Kingdoms era.

 

[Queen Seok Duk]

Unfair assessment of Zhuge Liang.

Ramseth, that last statement was meant to lure you out of your silence.

The truth is Zhu Geliang didn't think he was successful when he was sick on his bed. He didn't succeed in what he set out to do in the beginning. What we think of him is not important.

 

[Queen Seok Duk]

I see your point. In other words we make frens or have love relationships just simply for the sake of making friends or loving the person yet it's not realistic don't you think?

You see everyone does it so perhaps you could elaborate on how could a person find love or make frens like how you put it without making use of others.

It depends on what is inside you. I cannot use myself as an example because nobody knows me. Just Buddha and Jesus as examples, and pretend they're ordinary human beings.

The only way to make sure whatever you do is not motivated by loneliness is not to fall into loneliness in the first place. When you've already fallen into the muddy pool of loneliness, whatever you do is tainted by loneliness.

So if you're already inside the muddy pool of loneliness, it's illogical to ask how can I not be motivated by loneliness when I make friends ? Whatever a drug addict does it's for the sake of buying the next dose of drugs. So your question has to be dissected - get out of loneliness first. Once you've gotten out of loneliness, you don't even have to ask me how to make friends without being motivated by loneliness. Why ? The question does not exist at all because you are 'free' from loneliness.

That begs the question. How to get out of loneliness ? I believe I explained that in the previous post.

 

[krafty]

But no matter what I do, I still find myself lonely. In love and courtship, I enjoy the process but once settle down(from my previous relationship), I still feel loneliness. I seek to communicate with my ex-wife but it doesn't work. I tried seeking religious faith but only help a little in my loneliness. What exactly is wrong with me?

besides that, nowadays, when i feel lonely,i will come surf sammyboy. And if there is nothing interesting in sammyboy, mischievous thoughts will come into my mind.
I find it very difficult to battle loneliness. when i was younger, I have the companionship of my buddies and girlfriend. Now, all doesn't exist. When I see my friends with their families, I will get very envious. Please advise what I shld do?

It depends on what is inside you. I cannot use myself as an example because nobody knows me. Just Buddha and Jesus as examples, and pretend they're ordinary human beings.

The only way to make sure whatever you do is not motivated by loneliness is not to fall into loneliness in the first place. When you've already fallen into the muddy pool of loneliness, whatever you do is tainted by loneliness.

So if you're already inside the muddy pool of loneliness, it's illogical to ask how can I not be motivated by loneliness when I make friends ? Whatever a drug addict does it's for the sake of buying the next dose of drugs. So your question has to be dissected - get out of loneliness first. Once you've gotten out of loneliness, you don't even have to ask me how to make friends without being motivated by loneliness. Why ? The question does not exist at all because you are 'free' from loneliness.

That begs the question. How to get out of loneliness ? I believe I explained that in the previous post.

 

[DASHUANGXI]

you taxi driver how to get SG women? even we also dun want you!!! how much you can earn a month? look yourself in the mirror!!!

 

[Queen Seok Duk]

But no matter what I do, I still find myself lonely.

What have you done ?

 

[krafty]

The list of things I do to battle loneliness:

~swimming
~jogging
~tok cock in sammyboy
~go to church
~pray when I feel lonely
~drive my taxi and tease my passengers
~movies
~have lunch with ex-colleagues
~meet up for drink with friends
~research on property trend
~talk to neighbours in beer garden and market
~research on UK horses

Inside me, there is still sense of loneliness and loss.:(:(

Queenie,pls advise, what else I can do! thanks and appreciated.

What have you done ?

 

[QXD]

Here's one "permanant" hobby for you, confirm won't be bored one:

You can FUCKING DIE!!!

The list of things I do to battle loneliness:

~swimming
~jogging
~tok cock in sammyboy
~go to church
~pray when I feel lonely
~drive my taxi and tease my passengers
~movies
~have lunch with ex-colleagues
~meet up for drink with friends
~research on property trend
~talk to neighbours in beer garden and market
~research on UK horses

Inside me, there is still sense of loneliness and loss.:(:(

Queenie,pls advise, what else I can do! thanks and appreciated.

 

[Alamaking]

The list of things I do to battle loneliness:

~swimming
~jogging
~tok cock in sammyboy
~go to church
~pray when I feel lonely
~drive my taxi and tease my passengers
~movies
~have lunch with ex-colleagues
~meet up for drink with friends
~research on property trend
~talk to neighbours in beer garden and market
~research on UK horses

Inside me, there is still sense of loneliness and loss.:(:(

Queenie,pls advise, what else I can do! thanks and appreciated.

LOL krafty, your really fan jian leh, wrote all these to make people gan you, hahahaha so funny

 

[Alamaking]

Unfair assessment of Zhuge Liang. In his lifetime, he helped created a kingdom out of nothing, except a few nomadic warlords with little manpower and no landbase at all. He didn't lose the kingdom during his lifetime. At his death, the kingdom he built was still there and strong enough to accord him grand ceremonious imperial funeral for prime minister and emperor guardian that even Wei and Wu recognised as legit and honored. The kingdom he helped so much to build was lost after his death, none of his fault.

Inaccurate assessment of Cao Pi too. He didn't conquered the Shu kingdom. It was much later that Shu was conquered by Deng Ai under Sima Zhao, who had already usurped the Wei kingdom (Cao Pi passed away already). Sima Zhao also passed away suddenly and his son Sima Yan completed the conquest of the Wu kingdom to reunite China putting an end the Three Kingdoms era.

Wah, Romance of Three Kingdom Part II? Where is that fucking Subok? LOL

 

[Ramseth]

Wah, Romance of Three Kingdom Part II? Where is that fucking Subok? LOL

He probably knows nuts about three kingdoms. He's busy with screws at GMS.