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I am heartbroken

No lah, this "ex" I am referring to was my first love. Not that siao char bor who drove me out of the house during Chinese New Year.

okay, got to go, catch up later.

send 1 last sexy message to your fav girl before you leave...
 
ya, come to think of it, she kind of like me when we were 15. But I was with my ex then. But she is not that bad a person,moreover, both girls are good freinds.
The best part is that I told my ex that I am interested in my FB sweetheart.

She was 15. Dumb enough and inexperienced. Furthermore, it's difficult for a 15 year old to obtain a restraining order against you.
 
you forgot this song puppy love

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Krafty, don't mistake affection precipitated by loneliness for love. If you're lonely, you can "fall in love" with anyone, even virtual character in cyberspace.

You're sad not because you've fallen out of love. You're sad because you couldn't fall in love; you're sad because you couldn't fall out of loneliness and into love.

Your lesson is not to find another girl; your lesson is to overcome loneliness, not to find a girl to offer a distraction from loneliness.
 
the woman that I was talking about earlier has found someone. I was told by another friend of hers. Sigh... I am very disappointed. Wrote to her,she didn't even reply and got her friend to tell me that. The friend was also someone that I know when i was 15.

I am heartbroken! For 2 weeks, I have been thinking of her and yet turn out this way. Sigh...:(:(:(

Word of wisdom for you. Stop pestering her to let you sniff her stained panty and fart to get your daily highs!!:(
 
Krafty, don't mistake affection precipitated by loneliness for love. If you're lonely, you can "fall in love" with anyone, even virtual character in cyberspace.

You're sad not because you've fallen out of love. You're sad because you couldn't fall in love; you're sad because you couldn't fall out of loneliness and into love.

Your lesson is not to find another girl; your lesson is to overcome loneliness, not to find a girl to offer a distraction from loneliness.

I can summarize this in fewer words....

STOP BEING A LOSER!
 
Quite true!:-)

inorder to beat loneliness and btw, I am someone very afraid of being lonely.
I have to find the someone around me, ideally a darling who can understand me... ;)

I am going to fire my last bullet tonite to see if there is any hope of beating the Accenture guy.:mad:

Krafty, don't mistake affection precipitated by loneliness for love. If you're lonely, you can "fall in love" with anyone, even virtual character in cyberspace.

You're sad not because you've fallen out of love. You're sad because you couldn't fall in love; you're sad because you couldn't fall out of loneliness and into love.

Your lesson is not to find another girl; your lesson is to overcome loneliness, not to find a girl to offer a distraction from loneliness.
 
Quite true!:-)

inorder to beat loneliness and btw, I am someone very afraid of being lonely.
I have to find the someone around me, ideally a darling who can understand me... ;)

I am going to fire my last bullet tonite to see if there is any hope of beating the Accenture guy.:mad:

fuck lah:eek:

u r going to lose whatever little dignity u have left in her eyes:eek:
 
fuck lah:eek:

u r going to lose whatever little dignity u have left in her eyes:eek:

U mean he still has any? I think he just wanna be upgraded from 'irritating' to 'stalker' status.
 
Quite true!:-)

inorder to beat loneliness and btw, I am someone very afraid of being lonely.
I have to find the someone around me, ideally a darling who can understand me... ;)

Every human being is afraid of being lonely. The difference between you and the rest is you're prepared to admit.

A darling will only offer you a form of distraction away from the harsh realities of life, just like a baby in the dull and bored marriage. The only way to stop being afraid of loneliness is to face loneliness. When you've overcome loneliness, you're in a better frame of mind of challenge that Accenture guy.

Isaiah 30:15 says: "..in quietness and trust is your strength." The Chinese translation offers greater insight: "你們得力在乎平靜安穩”。

There is a difference between aloneness and loneliness, aka 孤單與寂寞。When you summon enough courage to face aloneness, you will gain strength. But if you run away from aloneness, it will metamorphasize into loneliness. The moment you allow aloneness to grow into loneliness, you add a new ingredient into the pot - emptiness. And you will constantly have to feed that emptiness, which is why you're always looking for another girl's attention. The emptiness can never be filled; all you're doing is giving yourself a jab of anesthesia to distract yourself from the absorbing blackhole of everlasting emptiness.

A lot of great men have come through aloneness.
 
not really lah... for her, it's worthy!:)

Bro..

How long have you been out of love?

I think you are totally rusty when it comes to courting a woman

It's quite clear that she is not into you..

Why waste your time over her?

U don't have time or money on your side..

Be real! :mad:
 
Every human being is afraid of being lonely. The difference between you and the rest is you're prepared to admit.

how is one able to overcome loneliness then?


Man is a social animal and since it's in their dna they will attempt to seek company even those that are alone.
 
how is one able to overcome loneliness then?


Man is a social animal and since it's in their dna they will attempt to seek company even those that are alone.

It's the motive that is the crux of the matter.

There are people in this world who seek company not because they're motivated by loneliness. How can you claim to be sincere when you approach someone because you want her to fill the void in you ?

If Buddha or Jesus ever speaks to you, it's definitely not because they're feeling lonely. To overcome loneliness, you must not allow aloneless to develop into loneliness. Face it like a man.

A relationship built on the foundation of loneliness is a relationship based on loneliness. It's worse than commercial relationship because in a commercial relationship, at least the parties are forthright and they know they are in a business.

On the other hand, a relationship founded on loneliness often hides behind the cloak of love. It's the worst blasphemy you can commit against love.
 
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HAHAHA Worthless taxi driver scum, 癞蛤蟆想吃天鹅肉, of course everything worth it lah, when lowlifes like u got nothing to lose!!!!!!!!!!

not really lah... for her, it's worthy!:)
 
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