I am in two minds if your are indeed a Malay as as you are destroying the race by your approach. First the old man indicates that the Malays won't assimilate and you come in and do the same. What gives?
If you want to examine your conscience and be honest, your doubts about being me being a Malay is simply because you do not think that Malays are able to think, let alone think strategically and think in terms of our strategic long term interest or are able to write in decent English. To you and your fellow Chinese, a Malay is an easy going, uneducated simpleton living day to day and breeding kids without any thoughts for the future.
Many, many years ago, I was asked to stay back after school to re-write my very first essay. This was because the racist Chinese teacher thought that I had asked someone (presumably a clever Chinese) to write as she could not believe that a Malay whose destiny, she believed, lay in being a peon or driver to a Chinese could actually write and think critically. A few racists insults came flying my way from her mouth.
We have done everything that we can to the point of feeling utter humiliation in having to grovel before the Chinese to seek acceptance and in order to prove our worth, loyalty, etc. What do we get back? We get a kick in our mouths. Need to speak Mandarin at the workplace? Okay we will try to assimilate and learn to speak Mandarin. And of course, our people still don't get the job because they are then asked whether they can write in Chinese, etc.
The Chinese have been inflicting, over a few decades, a severe psychological damage on the collective psyche of my people. They have done so by constantly belittling and humiliating us as useless, lazy, good for nothings, etc when in truth, we simply do not share and are not interested in the rapacious, materialistic values and acquisitive culture of the Chinese.
We have decided that enough is enough. There is a point where we stop rolling over and start hitting back. We have adopted a tit-for tat response.
Start your SAP schools and we will start our madrasahs. Speak you Mandarin and we will speak our Malay. Rekindle your ties with the Malaysian Chinese and we will rekindle our ties with the Malaysian Malays. Seek support and kinship with your one billion global Chinese kin and we will seek support and kinship with our one billion global Muslim ummah. Treat our land as though you are owners and can turn it into a Mandarin speaking province of China and we will respond by reasserting our claims over our land and telling you to pack up and leave. The tit-for tat list will go on.
I have already explained why it is not in our strategic interest to vote for another Chinese party. Unless you can show me a Chinese party who will defend our strategic interest, we will be happy to consider it. You and I know that there are none and that we will be worse off if we have to deal with more Chinese parties under various clans or political groupings. You and I know that the duplicitous Chinese "activists" and political opportunists have jumped onto our bandwagon trying to show their "care" and "concern" for our community with the hope of winning our votes and nothing else. That is also the reason why you had to coach that SAP-NSP guy about what to say about the Malays when he revealed his true colours.