analyse this closely people...............
http://talkback.stomp.com.sg/forums/showthread.php?t=35309
I found out that my present BF visits Health centres!
Had been working non stop for the past 6 months, so took a long leave to give myself a break! My present bf have his own business in the f&b industry, he doesn't need to spend the whole day at his cafe, as he have some staff to look after the cafe for him, so logically, there'll be alot of time we can spend with each other! But no, whenever I ask him out in the afternoon, he'll tell me stuffs like he already have some other arrangements with his friends, so he can only meet me in the evening, there are also certain days whereby he can't meet me at all!
There was one day where we are supposed to meet 6pm for dinner and catch a 7.30pm movie. But he was very late! I've waited like from 6pm - 7.15pm, 1hr&15mins for him and I've called him like more than 30times, but no ans! When he arrived, he acted as if there's nothing wrong! I asked him why is he late, he told me because he was with his friends and somethings held up! Then I asked why didn't he either picked up my call or at least call me to let m know, so that I could have go and have dinner myself, he said because he was busy and had forgotten! I was not convinced, but I did not say it out! We went for our movie and met up with his friends (whom they were together in the afternoon) at a pub for some drinks! He was drunk and so I drove his car and spend the night at his house! At his house, when I've made sure that he was sound asleep, I took his hp and checked his inbox, of course nothing unusual, but when I browsed through his phone list, I realised that there are alot of unfamiliar names like Big Bro, Bro Twinkle, Bro Sammy, etc. I took down all the unfamiliar name’s contact no.
The next morning, he drove me back home and then he went to his cafe! I went down to my house coffeeshop and called all the nos with public phone, I was shocked, as it's all girls who've picked up the calls!
I was very angry, upset and feeling very miserable! I went to look for him at his cafe, wanted to have a talk with him about it! But when I reached, I just kept quiet and acted normal! He told me that he need to meet some supplier for some discussion and told me to wait for him at his cafe, he'll take me to lunch when he come back and so I waited for him in his off! The table was quite messy, so I kind of did some packing and filing for him! I realize that he had a drawer locked, I couldn’t find the right key to open it in his off key box. He forgot to take his key pouch with him, so I tried all the keys in his pouch and finally, I found the right one and managed to open the drawer! There’s a cash box and some files with some documents and I found a small card folder, so I took it out to see! There are a lot of name cards, Spas and some kind of clubs name cards! Dragon Health Spa, Spa De Casanova, Executive Spa, Spring Spa, Godfather, etc! I took down some of the Spa’s contacts and put everything back! When he came back, we went for lunch, did some shopping. He told me that he need to meet his friends for some discussion, so off he go to meet his friends.
I called all the contacts and again I was shocked! All the person who picked up my call, was very unfriendly when I pretend to ask for the price and all of them told me that they only serve male customer, they do not serve female customer! I felt very miserable, so I called him, again he did not ans my call, he only return my call in the evening and that was like 4hours later, he told me that he can’t meet me, as he have some other arrangements with his friends! I asked my uncle (whom is very close to me) whether he know these spas and he told me that these are not spas, they are called Health Centres, the girls there, mostly from oversea like Malaysia, Thailand, China, etc. They not only provide massage, they also provide ‘Special Services’! I asked my uncle how he know, he told me that his friend brought him to one of the Health Centre once!
After knowing so much from my uncle, then I’ve decided to follow my bf to find out the truth, so I borrowed my uncle’s car, as I do not want my bf to have any chance to caught me doing that! I’ve followed him for about 4days, yesterday was the last day, he’ve been going to this place call AIKO Health Centre at Tanglin, with his group of friends almost everyday in the afternoon! I’ve even caught him going out with a quite pretty, slim and tall figured lady, they went shopping and I’ve even caught them going hotel for 2 nights! I’ve captured a few pics of them walking in the hotel with my hp!
I’ve even found out that the lady he went out with was working at AIKO, because there was once, I walk-in AIKO and pretend to ask for price and interested to have a massage session and I saw that lady walking to the reception area to take some key, from the way she talk I can tell that she is a Malaysian!
I’m very disappointed, I don’t know what to do! I have not confront my bf about it yet!
What should I do?
Why do guys want to go to this kind of places?
Why and How can guys do this to betray and hurt their gf?
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It's not really same, the previous guy was my friend, but our relationship is very close, he's very honest with me, we will talk and help each other whenever we have problem! We had talked things out about the previous incident, he asked me out 1 day and told me that he senses that something is wrong with me, so I told him how I felt! We are still very close friend now, but of course not as close as before, ever since I'm with my present bf!
As usual my present bf told me that he had some other arrangements with his friends and he's only able to meet me in the evening! But he called me around 6.30pm that he can't meet me today, as something held up!
I'm preparing to try my luck to wait for him at the usual hotel he'll go with that slut now!
Wish me luck guys
http://talkback.stomp.com.sg/forums/showthread.php?t=35309
I found out that my present BF visits Health centres!
Had been working non stop for the past 6 months, so took a long leave to give myself a break! My present bf have his own business in the f&b industry, he doesn't need to spend the whole day at his cafe, as he have some staff to look after the cafe for him, so logically, there'll be alot of time we can spend with each other! But no, whenever I ask him out in the afternoon, he'll tell me stuffs like he already have some other arrangements with his friends, so he can only meet me in the evening, there are also certain days whereby he can't meet me at all!
There was one day where we are supposed to meet 6pm for dinner and catch a 7.30pm movie. But he was very late! I've waited like from 6pm - 7.15pm, 1hr&15mins for him and I've called him like more than 30times, but no ans! When he arrived, he acted as if there's nothing wrong! I asked him why is he late, he told me because he was with his friends and somethings held up! Then I asked why didn't he either picked up my call or at least call me to let m know, so that I could have go and have dinner myself, he said because he was busy and had forgotten! I was not convinced, but I did not say it out! We went for our movie and met up with his friends (whom they were together in the afternoon) at a pub for some drinks! He was drunk and so I drove his car and spend the night at his house! At his house, when I've made sure that he was sound asleep, I took his hp and checked his inbox, of course nothing unusual, but when I browsed through his phone list, I realised that there are alot of unfamiliar names like Big Bro, Bro Twinkle, Bro Sammy, etc. I took down all the unfamiliar name’s contact no.
The next morning, he drove me back home and then he went to his cafe! I went down to my house coffeeshop and called all the nos with public phone, I was shocked, as it's all girls who've picked up the calls!
I was very angry, upset and feeling very miserable! I went to look for him at his cafe, wanted to have a talk with him about it! But when I reached, I just kept quiet and acted normal! He told me that he need to meet some supplier for some discussion and told me to wait for him at his cafe, he'll take me to lunch when he come back and so I waited for him in his off! The table was quite messy, so I kind of did some packing and filing for him! I realize that he had a drawer locked, I couldn’t find the right key to open it in his off key box. He forgot to take his key pouch with him, so I tried all the keys in his pouch and finally, I found the right one and managed to open the drawer! There’s a cash box and some files with some documents and I found a small card folder, so I took it out to see! There are a lot of name cards, Spas and some kind of clubs name cards! Dragon Health Spa, Spa De Casanova, Executive Spa, Spring Spa, Godfather, etc! I took down some of the Spa’s contacts and put everything back! When he came back, we went for lunch, did some shopping. He told me that he need to meet his friends for some discussion, so off he go to meet his friends.
I called all the contacts and again I was shocked! All the person who picked up my call, was very unfriendly when I pretend to ask for the price and all of them told me that they only serve male customer, they do not serve female customer! I felt very miserable, so I called him, again he did not ans my call, he only return my call in the evening and that was like 4hours later, he told me that he can’t meet me, as he have some other arrangements with his friends! I asked my uncle (whom is very close to me) whether he know these spas and he told me that these are not spas, they are called Health Centres, the girls there, mostly from oversea like Malaysia, Thailand, China, etc. They not only provide massage, they also provide ‘Special Services’! I asked my uncle how he know, he told me that his friend brought him to one of the Health Centre once!
After knowing so much from my uncle, then I’ve decided to follow my bf to find out the truth, so I borrowed my uncle’s car, as I do not want my bf to have any chance to caught me doing that! I’ve followed him for about 4days, yesterday was the last day, he’ve been going to this place call AIKO Health Centre at Tanglin, with his group of friends almost everyday in the afternoon! I’ve even caught him going out with a quite pretty, slim and tall figured lady, they went shopping and I’ve even caught them going hotel for 2 nights! I’ve captured a few pics of them walking in the hotel with my hp!
I’ve even found out that the lady he went out with was working at AIKO, because there was once, I walk-in AIKO and pretend to ask for price and interested to have a massage session and I saw that lady walking to the reception area to take some key, from the way she talk I can tell that she is a Malaysian!
I’m very disappointed, I don’t know what to do! I have not confront my bf about it yet!
What should I do?
Why do guys want to go to this kind of places?
Why and How can guys do this to betray and hurt their gf?
____________________________________________________________________
It's not really same, the previous guy was my friend, but our relationship is very close, he's very honest with me, we will talk and help each other whenever we have problem! We had talked things out about the previous incident, he asked me out 1 day and told me that he senses that something is wrong with me, so I told him how I felt! We are still very close friend now, but of course not as close as before, ever since I'm with my present bf!
As usual my present bf told me that he had some other arrangements with his friends and he's only able to meet me in the evening! But he called me around 6.30pm that he can't meet me today, as something held up!
I'm preparing to try my luck to wait for him at the usual hotel he'll go with that slut now!
Wish me luck guys
