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I don't think it because of a matter of convenience why the Chinese are taking English names. Have you tried calling them by their Chinese names before and seen the reaction? I have and most often that Chinese guy or gal is pissed. Most of them upon meeting would introduce themselves as Kelvin Teo or Justin Wong or Cheryl Tan. When I asked them what their Chinese name was, would they mind if I addressed them by their given Chinese name; all of them would be visibly agitated. Some tell me outright not to make fun of them.
Why is that?
I think that's a privacy concern, not a matter of lack of pride. Someone introduced to you as John Tan for example, asking for his Chinese name is akin to asking for his full name, sounding interrogative and intrusively, which of course leads to defensive behaviour, mistaken as agitation.