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Vanessa Tay - Maybe it's the fact that I haven't dated many non-Singaporean guys, so my experience in dating just isn't diverse enough. But I'm basically bored of the selection we have here. If you ask me, all my dates have been from hell, but it's really just a matter of how hellish they are. Better still, I actually forced myself to put up with their nonsense and dated them... talk about a waste of my life. Then again, if I hadn't dated those guys, I would never have known what it was exactly that I wanted in a man.
One of the worst dating experience I've had was from back in secondary school. That guy actually gave me facial wipes to mark our first month dating. Amazingly, I didn't feel anything for him, so I had no clue why I was even bothering to date him. I guess I was just being a regular dumb teenager and doing things for the sake of doing it. I mean, what else did I have to care about apart from doing well in school? Nothing! This guy would call me up at 4am everyday to chat until we had to go to school at 6am... I have no idea how I managed to keep up with it for so long, since his conversations mainly revolve around Star Trek (or was it Star Wars) and how his supposedly psychotic mother would grill up the windows so he couldn't escape (I don't know how much of that was true) and that he always wanted to speak up against his parents but he could never muster the courage to do so.
I'm a bad kid. I always speak up against EVERYONE, even my parents. I drive everyone up the wall, so I can't stand people who whine to me about wanting to do the same thing but can't because they can't find the courage to do it. IT'S A LOAD OF BULL, I tell you. I mean, if you wanna say something, JUST SHOOT! Or forever hold your silence and live to be shrouded in your misery. Sheesh.
Another date from hell was with an ex-boyfriend. He was so caught up with his ex that it started to affect me. When I brought him to meet my girlfriend, she observed that the reason why he was with me was because I was everything his ex wasn't, and it wasn't because he was that strongly attracted to me after all.
He did all the most turn-off-ish things like puffing out his stomach really fast when he was hugging me, and knocking the winds out of me. He wasn't fat, but it was ANNOYING. He acted drunk thinking it was totally cute and I hate to laugh along just to act like I thought it was funny, when I actually thought he was mentally VERY WEIRD indeed. Then he told me all about how his ex played him out and eloped with a man who was a lot older. I mainly felt sorry for him at first, and I suspect that might be why I even got together with him. But after a while, I pretty much understood why his ex left him. I hated his ex at first for doing all those nonsense to him, but after awhile, I started to feel a bit sorry for her instead. I guess some people just don't realise that there is a limit to certain things and that you really can't be a certain way all the time. It's not good for them in the long run.
Oh, yes, he was also VERY RUDE and VERY DISRESPECTFUL to his parents. I used to side with him (I will always side with my boyfriend), but after I left him, I took a step back and observed... and I realised that he is really quite rotten. Today, I still feel sorry for siding with him against his parents. I never said anything rude directly because I believe in showing elders basic respect and courtesy, but I just feel a bit bad for not helping them talk sense to their childish offspring.
So, what do both of these guys have in common? They were both HORNY AND FRISKY AND JUST WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH ME. I didn't have sex with the first one, no worry. I was too young to do it at that time. But it's really true: All guys are the same. Except gay guys... because they're not interested in banging me. They're more interested in banging the guy next to me.
I think I should use this chance to post a warning to all Singaporean guys out there - PLEASE DON'T DATE ME. I think all of you are just horny and all of you are from hell... and don't ever think you can try to melt the ice and make a difference because I really DO think that you guys all only have one objective in mind.
I've met too many guys who are like that and it's hard for me to think of anyone of you any differently. Our beliefs are derived from our experiences, so I'm just saying what I have deduced from my experiences...
All right, I'll be fair. 90% of guys are horrible, but once I've said this, I'll get tons of guys who will insist they belong to that 10% who aren't horny pervs. So... don't get started please.
Vanessa Tay - Maybe it's the fact that I haven't dated many non-Singaporean guys, so my experience in dating just isn't diverse enough. But I'm basically bored of the selection we have here. If you ask me, all my dates have been from hell, but it's really just a matter of how hellish they are. Better still, I actually forced myself to put up with their nonsense and dated them... talk about a waste of my life. Then again, if I hadn't dated those guys, I would never have known what it was exactly that I wanted in a man.
One of the worst dating experience I've had was from back in secondary school. That guy actually gave me facial wipes to mark our first month dating. Amazingly, I didn't feel anything for him, so I had no clue why I was even bothering to date him. I guess I was just being a regular dumb teenager and doing things for the sake of doing it. I mean, what else did I have to care about apart from doing well in school? Nothing! This guy would call me up at 4am everyday to chat until we had to go to school at 6am... I have no idea how I managed to keep up with it for so long, since his conversations mainly revolve around Star Trek (or was it Star Wars) and how his supposedly psychotic mother would grill up the windows so he couldn't escape (I don't know how much of that was true) and that he always wanted to speak up against his parents but he could never muster the courage to do so.
I'm a bad kid. I always speak up against EVERYONE, even my parents. I drive everyone up the wall, so I can't stand people who whine to me about wanting to do the same thing but can't because they can't find the courage to do it. IT'S A LOAD OF BULL, I tell you. I mean, if you wanna say something, JUST SHOOT! Or forever hold your silence and live to be shrouded in your misery. Sheesh.
Another date from hell was with an ex-boyfriend. He was so caught up with his ex that it started to affect me. When I brought him to meet my girlfriend, she observed that the reason why he was with me was because I was everything his ex wasn't, and it wasn't because he was that strongly attracted to me after all.
He did all the most turn-off-ish things like puffing out his stomach really fast when he was hugging me, and knocking the winds out of me. He wasn't fat, but it was ANNOYING. He acted drunk thinking it was totally cute and I hate to laugh along just to act like I thought it was funny, when I actually thought he was mentally VERY WEIRD indeed. Then he told me all about how his ex played him out and eloped with a man who was a lot older. I mainly felt sorry for him at first, and I suspect that might be why I even got together with him. But after a while, I pretty much understood why his ex left him. I hated his ex at first for doing all those nonsense to him, but after awhile, I started to feel a bit sorry for her instead. I guess some people just don't realise that there is a limit to certain things and that you really can't be a certain way all the time. It's not good for them in the long run.
Oh, yes, he was also VERY RUDE and VERY DISRESPECTFUL to his parents. I used to side with him (I will always side with my boyfriend), but after I left him, I took a step back and observed... and I realised that he is really quite rotten. Today, I still feel sorry for siding with him against his parents. I never said anything rude directly because I believe in showing elders basic respect and courtesy, but I just feel a bit bad for not helping them talk sense to their childish offspring.
So, what do both of these guys have in common? They were both HORNY AND FRISKY AND JUST WANTED TO HAVE SEX WITH ME. I didn't have sex with the first one, no worry. I was too young to do it at that time. But it's really true: All guys are the same. Except gay guys... because they're not interested in banging me. They're more interested in banging the guy next to me.
I think I should use this chance to post a warning to all Singaporean guys out there - PLEASE DON'T DATE ME. I think all of you are just horny and all of you are from hell... and don't ever think you can try to melt the ice and make a difference because I really DO think that you guys all only have one objective in mind.
I've met too many guys who are like that and it's hard for me to think of anyone of you any differently. Our beliefs are derived from our experiences, so I'm just saying what I have deduced from my experiences...
All right, I'll be fair. 90% of guys are horrible, but once I've said this, I'll get tons of guys who will insist they belong to that 10% who aren't horny pervs. So... don't get started please.