In the midst of qtr end and helping a neighbour with his house sale. Wife felt i was kind of taken for granted as i was asked to makes sure his transaction happens by this date, etc and the buyer also needs certain things to be done.
BUT, i couldn't resist logging in to tell you this.
Decisions come and go, the ones that are made are the ones that will remain to haunt or reward you.
When she is in a better mood, do inform her that this is FREEHOLD, not a 99 year leasehold place so whether you do your renovation 5 years, 10 years from now doesn't matter. Its still going to be yours to do. Would you stop buying a car just because the car accessories are expensive? No, unless its high maintenance in terms of running costs, else if you set your mind to it, you should press on, it may not be now but it should be a long term goal and again it doesn't need to be here.
Kulai still has good deals over there. I wish you well. It is important to keep your dreams alive.