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How to be strong?

besotted

Alfrescian
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I find that I am a coward

When my colleagues shout at me and blame me for things I didn't do I dare not shout back even though I am innocent

When a person next to me in coffeeshop smokes in a no-smoking area, I dare not tell him to stop

When somebody cuts me off on the PIE, I dare not horn

I keep all the hurt and I am feeling very bad about myself

How I can become strong and fight back?

Any bros can coach me how to be strong
 

Maximilian Chua-Heng

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Loyal
I find that I am a coward

When my colleagues shout at me and blame me for things I didn't do I dare not shout back even though I am innocent

When a person next to me in coffeeshop smokes in a no-smoking area, I dare not tell him to stop

When somebody cuts me off on the PIE, I dare not horn

I keep all the hurt and I am feeling very bad about myself

How I can become strong and fight back?

Any bros can coach me how to be strong


Of the 3 incidents u mentioned, I would react directly only in Incident 1.

Frankly, the other 2 incidents are no big deal.

Angry thoughts just come and go lah.

Fighting back is not a sign of strength. A sign of strength is when you can manage your thoughts, all kinds of thoughts, eg the thought of wanting to be strong.

Thoughts are just thoughts lah, they are not as real as you think it is.
 

eeoror88

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Of the 3 incidents u mentioned, I would react directly only in Incident 1.

Frankly, the other 2 incidents are no big deal.

Angry thoughts just come and go lah.

Fighting back is not a sign of strength. A sign of strength is when you can manage your thoughts, all kinds of thoughts, eg the thought of wanting to be strong.

Thoughts are just thoughts lah, they are not as real as you think it is.

Chey .... write until so much also don't know wtf you mumbling ...:confused::confused:
 

Neh_Neh_Pok

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Loyal
I find that I am a coward

When my colleagues shout at me and blame me for things I didn't do I dare not shout back even though I am innocent

When a person next to me in coffeeshop smokes in a no-smoking area, I dare not tell him to stop

When somebody cuts me off on the PIE, I dare not horn

I keep all the hurt and I am feeling very bad about myself

How I can become strong and fight back?

Any bros can coach me how to be strong

As long as you're not a chrikukustians, you'll be strong :biggrin:

Anyway, I think you're those shy and fear-of-speech type of person. You should learn to speak up more, but you must know when and where to do that, don't be like Chee SJ can already :biggrin:
 

Agoraphobic

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No, you are NOT a coward, you just don't want to add to the crap in this world.

If you or your love ones are threatened, I am sure you will jump right in there to protect them.

Be glad that you are able to control your anger and temper. Just don't take it our on weaker ones.

Cheers!

I find that I am a coward

When my colleagues shout at me and blame me for things I didn't do I dare not shout back even though I am innocent

When a person next to me in coffeeshop smokes in a no-smoking area, I dare not tell him to stop

When somebody cuts me off on the PIE, I dare not horn

I keep all the hurt and I am feeling very bad about myself

How I can become strong and fight back?

Any bros can coach me how to be strong
 

tonychat

Alfrescian (InfP)
Generous Asset
I find that I am a coward

When my colleagues shout at me and blame me for things I didn't do I dare not shout back even though I am innocent

When a person next to me in coffeeshop smokes in a no-smoking area, I dare not tell him to stop

When somebody cuts me off on the PIE, I dare not horn

I keep all the hurt and I am feeling very bad about myself

How I can become strong and fight back?

Any bros can coach me how to be strong

THe first step is to stay away from sinkies.

Second step, move to a new country to mixed around with unsinkifed individual and remove your sinkie stain in your body at the same time.

3rd step, learn how to be an unsinkified individual, then you will be brave after the 3rd step is done.
 

DOM the Clown

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Of the 3 incidents u mentioned, I would react directly only in Incident 1.

Frankly, the other 2 incidents are no big deal.

Angry thoughts just come and go lah.

Fighting back is not a sign of strength. A sign of strength is when you can manage your thoughts, all kinds of thoughts, eg the thought of wanting to be strong.

Thoughts are just thoughts lah, they are not as real as you think it is.

Bro Max,
Well said! ..............by the way, have you found your strength to tok off your LJ since Obama became President? :biggrin:

hiak! hiak! hiak!
DOM
 

zack123

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Loyal
I find that I am a coward

When my colleagues shout at me and blame me for things I didn't do I dare not shout back even though I am innocent

When a person next to me in coffeeshop smokes in a no-smoking area, I dare not tell him to stop

When somebody cuts me off on the PIE, I dare not horn

I keep all the hurt and I am feeling very bad about myself

How I can become strong and fight back?

Any bros can coach me how to be strong

I think the best way is to cut off your dick so that you can be a strong woman....
 

kakowi

Alfrescian
Loyal
When my colleagues shout at me and blame me for things I didn't do I dare not shout back even though I am innocent

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How I can become strong and fight back?


First of all, you can be strong and yet not fight back.

The example you gave where you are wrongly accused, just open your mouth and ask "why you say that?". It may well be they are mistaken and when they explain, it gives you a chance to clarify.

Otherwise, you shout, i shout means only the colleagues hear...and gossip.

The other examples - just let it go. You meet these kind of people every day from the very young to the very old. Not worth the hassle.
 
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