China men are known as ma-bao (mum's treasures).
They might be the sole male heir in the extended family, got a good life, study well and their parents would not let them be stressed at work, or they cannot handle stress. When faced with problems, they will take it out on parents or wives. They have little awareness or know how to care for people around them. For example, even they are in 40s, they will gobble up the food on table first, without leaving some dishes for their parents, wives or kids.
China women told me that they wanted to marry a man (in China) but ended up marrying "a son".
Perhaps they were trying to hint me something.