I might be wrong, but I strongly suspect she was pampered a lot by her late father during her childhood and probably until he died when she was an adult (and maybe even during her marriage to her ex-husband), i.e. whenever she did not get whatever she wanted from anyone (whether from other family members or people outside her family or her own ex-husabnd), she would tell her father about it and her father would either try his very best to give her whatever she wanted or, if he was not able to give her whatever she wanted, he would try his best to console her, which caused her to become addicted to expecting other people (especially men) to be submissive to her! :(
So after her late father died some years ago, she was suddenly deprived of her one and only reliable SLAVE, i.e. her "mangina" father, which was probably the fundamental cause of the gradual deterioration of her mental/psychological/spiritual health during the past few years, especially after she migrated to JB roughly five years ago.
Ever since then, whenever she does not get whatever she wants (e.g. wanting her JB neighbours to behave themselves according to her own "high class/SES" standards), she has no other choice but to deal with her problems without her father's help; but even then, she still wants men to serve her by helping her solve her problems, which is why she has contacted the police in both Singapore and Malaysia (and which is also why she has dared us to call the "police or polis") quite a few times.
This addiction of hers (i.e. always expecting other people to give her whatever she wants) has caused her to feel like a "victim" whenever she does not get whatever she wants, which has naturally resulted in her:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Playing_the_Victim
("Victim playing (also known as playing the victim, victim card or self-victimization) is the fabrication of victimhood for a variety of reasons such as to justify abuse of others, to manipulate others, a coping strategy or attention seeking.")
Good write-up brother, I am glad that you are on the righeous side.