I might be wrong, but I
strongly suspect she was
pampered a lot by her late
father during her childhood and
probably until he died when she was an adult (and maybe even during her marriage to her ex-husband), i.e. whenever she did
not get
whatever she wanted from anyone (whether from other family members or people outside her family or her own ex-husabnd), she would tell her father about it
and her father would either try his very best to give her whatever she wanted or, if he was not able to give her whatever she wanted, he would try his best to console her, which caused her to become
addicted to
expecting other people (especially
men) to be
submissive to her! :(
So after her late father
died some years ago, she was
suddenly deprived of her
one and only reliable SLAVE, i.e. her "mangina" father, which was probably the
fundamental cause of the
gradual deterioration of her
mental/psychological/spiritual health during the past few years,
especially after she migrated to JB roughly five years ago.
Ever since then, whenever she does
not get whatever she wants (e.g. wanting her JB neighbours to behave themselves according to her own "high class/SES" standards), she has no other choice but to deal with her problems with
out her
father's help; but even then, she still wants
men to
serve her by helping her
solve her problems, which is why she has contacted the
police in
both Singapore and Malaysia (and which is also why she has dared us to call the "police or polis") quite a few times.
This
addiction of hers (i.e.
always expecting other people to give her
whatever she wants) has caused her to
feel like a "victim"
whenever she does
not get whatever she wants, which has
naturally resulted in her:
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Playing_the_Victim
("
Victim playing (also known as playing the victim, victim card or self-victimization) is the fabrication of victimhood for a variety of reasons such as to justify abuse of others, to manipulate others, a coping strategy or attention seeking.")