To be frank, I have got laid more often after I started being less honest,i always tell lies to girls and usually that results me in me bedding them
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To be frank, I have got laid more often after I started being less honest,i always tell lies to girls and usually that results me in me bedding them
Agree, but this is only applicable if it is a legal situation or if you care about the people or situation involved in your lies.Just remember that one lie leads to another. It's like a cobweb, there's no turning back. Like it or not, it will end as a snare or a trap. One started it, one live with it. Infact everbody lies, the question is more or less and how good one is at it. No justification, essential or otherwise changes the fact that it's a falsehood to deceive. And the deceits go both ways. It's the moral in one's conscience that decide, if there ever was a policy on honesty.:p I can live with a lie but never with the evils that come along with it.:p
If you can't beat em', join em'. Right?How to be honest when you are surrounded by crooks? Starting from the Top. Monks, Pastors, Bankers, Insurances agents, we are surrounded by crooks.
Let's say you meet someone on the street whom you haven't seen in 5 years. He hasn't bothered to keep in touch, neither have you.
He stops you and wants to talk.
Would you stop to talk to him? What would you say? Would you dare to just ignore him and walk away?
But you are not lying.I rather not lie. For most times, I have kept faithfully to this belief.
Even if i do lie, it is usually to protect the other person's well-being. Not that that is a right choice or a justification for my behaviour.
There are times when i lie deliberately. For example, I do not fancy spending an evening in your company. I will just tell you I am busy.
But you are not lying.
You are busy not wanting to be in my company.![]()
Let's say you meet someone on the street whom you haven't seen in 5 years. He hasn't bothered to keep in touch, neither have you.
He stops you and wants to talk.
Would you stop to talk to him? What would you say? Would you dare to just ignore him and walk away?
heheh... if i have the time to catch up, why not? if i'm in a rush, i'll arrange for a future meet-up, since he has something to tell me, yeah, would definitely hang around for a minute or two to exchange contacts, folks change hp # like changing underwear these days... i've kept the same number since i first got mine![]()
I've kept the same number too so that says a lot about friends who don't call doesn't it?
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i don't blame folks who doesn't make the effort to catch up, for i can understand the pressure this place is putting on them :p
i wouldn't say i'm well off enough to be able to sit idle and watch the world go by, i have my tasks to handle and i'm sure my friends need their time too. you're right to say that it is the intention of keeping the friendship, but we need to understand any relationship is based on 2-way communication. either party gets too busy, and for a long time, of course the friendship will wane. correct?
yeah, a long talk is always nice, bestest if it's over coffee or wine or food, but how many of my friends can afford the time?![]()
Actually true friendship never wanes no matter how long it has been since two people last caught up.
If two people are too busy, emailing snippets day to day is a good start. The ball has to start rolling somehow.
Time waits for no man, who knows when our friends would pass on?
Agree, but this is only applicable if it is a legal situation or if you care about the people or situation involved in your lies.
If you don't give a damn, do you even bother to worry that the lies are woven into a watertight story?![]()
These girls are not lying, they have to walk in order to shop.LOL. Yeah guys always bluff girls that they are busy (with other girls huh?). Like how girls say they wanna go for a walk but they actually want to go shopping!!
I don't mean to go around telling lies in order to get benefits for yourself.In any regards, lying affects integrity. Though there' no need to live like a saint, never is there a need to live by corrupted vitues either. More often than not there's no need for the truth, just be honest, dont lie.:p
I don't mean meeting good friends.i don't blame folks who doesn't make the effort to catch up, for i can understand the pressure this place is putting on them :p
i wouldn't say i'm well off enough to be able to sit idle and watch the world go by, i have my tasks to handle and i'm sure my friends need their time too. you're right to say that it is the intention of keeping the friendship, but we need to understand any relationship is based on 2-way communication. either party gets too busy, and for a long time, of course the friendship will wane. correct?
yeah, a long talk is always nice, bestest if it's over coffee or wine or food, but how many of my friends can afford the time?![]()
I don't mean meeting good friends.
I am referring to chance meetings with people whom you have not even heard from for years and who just want to kpo or boast about certain things.
To hell with them, I say.
I don't mean to go around telling lies in order to get benefits for yourself.
I simply mean not bothering to tell the truth to people who are fuckers.
I don't mean meeting good friends.
I am referring to chance meetings with people whom you have not even heard from for years and who just want to kpo or boast about certain things.
To hell with them, I say.![]()