Bad News - Increasing Divorced Rate in SG

[Kinana]

I was answering question posed in Post#92

so what is the solution to high divorce rates? say it boy. Why scared?

 

[TracyTan866]

Still never answer the question. Yes there many reason why dont want to have child.
But why why why want to married? No point.

for love?

because their religious beliefs forbid co-habitation before marriage?

etc...

 

[TracyTan866]

so what is the solution to high divorce rates? say it boy. Why scared?

less stress in the marriage?

love more?

quit any addiction?

dont stray?

dont be overly ambitious at the expense of marriage?

dont listen to govt propaganda but do what's best for their marriage?

stay truthful?

communicate better?

spend more time together

be gentler to each other?

better understanding of eah other?

give more, take less?

sacrificial love?

look at each other's good points rather than pick on each other's bad points?

leave parents home and stay in own home?

stay loyal to each other?

dont be financially overstretched?

work less, enjoy each other more?

satisfy each other fully and totally

 

[Kinana]

less stress in the marriage?

love more?

quit any addiction?

dont stray?

dont be overly ambitious at the expense of marriage?

dont listen to govt propaganda but do what's best for their marriage?

stay truthful?

communicate better?

spend more time together

be gentler to each other?

better understanding of eah other?

give more, take less?

sacrificial love?

look at each other's good points rather than pick on each other's bad points?

leave parents home and stay in own home?

stay loyal to each other?

dont be financially overstretched?

work less, enjoy each other more?

satisfy each other fully and totally

Wow! That sounds like a Godly life sir. You got the revelation sir. Good.

 

[Cestbon]

for love?

because their religious beliefs forbid co-habitation before marriage?

etc...

Dont tell me they never have sex b4 married. Even so very small % maybe 1% only those married without child dont have sex before married. If respect religious then should not had sex b4 ROM.
It just a reason.
I still dont understand why married but dont want child??? Really I have ask many. All give many reason buy not solid one.
Unless they said health problem. I do understand. Some of them really have problem they want to have child go thru many health screening spend money and time but just very unlucky.
If health no problem. Dont want to have child then dont married!

Dont married if dont want to have child!

 

[fukyuman]

Fault lies nearly always with women. Even Shakespeare opined it centuries ago.

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IAGO
Come on, come on. You women are all the same. You’re as pretty as pictures when you’re out in public, but in your own houses you’re as noisy as jangling bells. In your own kitchens you act like wildcats. You make yourselves sound like saints when you’re complaining about something, but you act like devils when someone offends you. You don’t take your jobs as housewives seriously, and you’re shameless hussies in bed.

DESDEMONA
Very clever! But what if the woman is smart but ugly?

IAGO
Even if she’s ugly, she’ll be smart enough to find a guy to sleep with her.

No pretty woman is stupid, because her stupidity will make her more attractive to men.

No matter how ugly or stupid the woman is, she plays the same dirty tricks that the smart and pretty ones do.

 

[no_faith]

no concrete solution to increasing divorce rates.
couples dated each other more than 10 years can divorce within 3 years.
couples dated less than 10 years can divorce the next day.
couples already 50-60+ years of marriage also can divorce.

love and humans are the same. they are unpredictable and changes anytime. Expect the unexpected.

Divorce rate increasing due to the education which already mentioned. in the past, where not much education received, we seldom see divorces.
in the past, divorces seem to be a shame shame issue. so no one dares to mention divorce.

I witnessed 3 divorces.
In case of divorces, usually leads the woman to heaven and leads the man to hell.

 

[TracyTan866]

Wow! That sounds like a Godly life sir. You got the revelation sir. Good.

common sense, boy!

u r free to disagree with me and come out with your own common sense

 

[Kinana]

TracyTan866 got the solution, can't you read?

 

[TracyTan866]

Dont tell me they never have sex b4 married. Even so very small % maybe 1% only those married without child dont have sex before married. If respect religious then should not had sex b4 ROM.
It just a reason.
I still dont understand why married but dont want child??? Really I have ask many. All give many reason buy not solid one.
Unless they said health problem. I do understand. Some of them really have problem they want to have child go thru many health screening spend money and time but just very unlucky.
If health no problem. Dont want to have child then dont married!

Dont married if dont want to have child!

they dont need you to understand them. they marry for themselves whether u understand them or not

 

[Kinana]

common sense, boy!

u r free to disagree with me and come out with your own common sense

I fully agree with you sir, it maps what the Bible teaches.

 

[TracyTan866]

no concrete solution to increasing divorce rates.
couples dated each other more than 10 years can divorce within 3 years.
couples dated less than 10 years can divorce the next day.
couples already 50-60+ years of marriage also can divorce.

love and humans are the same. they are unpredictable and changes anytime. Expect the unexpected.

Divorce rate increasing due to the education which already mentioned. in the past, where not much education received, we seldom see divorces.
in the past, divorces seem to be a shame shame issue. so no one dares to mention divorce.

I witnessed 3 divorces.
In case of divorces, usually leads the woman to heaven and leads the man to hell.

unpredictability causes divorce?

 

[Cestbon]

they dont need you to understand them. they marry for themselves whether u understand them or not

I think u one of them married dont want child.
Do I hit the bull eye?
Dont be angry.

 

[TracyTan866]

I fully agree with you sir, it maps what the Bible teaches.

dont anyhow say that it's from the Bible!

which part of the Bible says what I said?

 

[Kinana]

dont anyhow say that it's from the Bible!

which part of the Bible says what I said?

Ephesians 5 sir. Read.

 

[TracyTan866]

I think u one of them married dont want child.
Do I hit the bull eye?
Dont be angry.

I want to have many children

 

[TracyTan866]

Fault lies nearly always with women. Even Shakespeare opined it centuries ago.

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so to you, women cause divorces?

 

[BuriramUnitedFC]

no such thing as true love?

 

[BuiKia]

Maybe this would help...

http://www.chinasmack.com/2011/stor...ge-law-protects-mens-assets-angers-women.html

 

[TracyTan866]

Ephesians 5 sir. Read.

Ephesians 5 says that dont be too stressed, dont be finacially overstretched, dont listen to govt propaganda, satisfy each other fully and totally, etc?

where got?

dont anyhow say they are from the Bible!