Bad News - Increasing Divorced Rate in SG

[TracyTan866]

true.
most people married for the sake of marriage.
Due to peer pressure, parents pressure telling you have reach your marriage age.
You should get married and can apply for flat with your partner.

So married lor. problems arise, those peers and parents also cant help you much. hahahah

I agree that to get married for the sake of marriage is a recipe for divorce

 

[TracyTan866]

U right most marriage is from parent and peer pressure that was even thousand year ago.
Arrange marriage. Still the same.
Let people decide with their personal life. Married/ divorce/remain single.
What a big deal?

nowadays still got arranged marriage?

 

[TracyTan866]

hi there


1. bro, don't need to list to 100 hoh.
2. just one is uffice: women's charter!

Women's charter is the root cause of divorces? how come?

 

[TracyTan866]

i think he meant gf as in you. like "gf, my take...".

as in me???

 

[TracyTan866]

Singapore is getting more and more immoral. Religious leaders steal money, civil servants in corruption n sex scandals, high divorce rates, prostitution, opposition leaders and supporters blatant liars and spinners, prosmiscuity etc.

So what is the solution? Live a Godly life according to the Word of God and pray. Its that simple. We can change now. Its up to you.

living a godly life will solve immoral doings? didnt RenCi abbot live agodly life but he was found quilty and jailed.

 

[Agoraphobic]

Education causes women to divorce?

I won't say it is education itself that is the cause, but it opens up a whole range of possibilities of the gentler sex to stray from her household duties. With higher education, the woman has more opportunites to earn more - an be less dependant on her hubby (financially). If she is a career woman, she has to spend time socialising/networking with associates, business seminars, workshops, overseas assignments - again, time away from her spousal obligations. She gets to meet men with higher incomes, more drive, suave, social savvy, and if things click, may become attracted to these high-achievers.

Worst thing is - she might see leaving her husband is the means to achieve what will fulfill her career, so she can "move on."

Without an education, the above is unlikely to happen.

Cheers!

 

[TracyTan866]

I won't say it is education itself that is the cause, but it opens up a whole range of possibilities of the gentler sex to stray from her household duties. With higher education, the woman has more opportunites to earn more - an be less dependant on her hubby (financially). If she is a career woman, she has to spend time socialising/networking with associates, business seminars, workshops, overseas assignments - again, time away from her spousal obligations. She gets to meet men with higher incomes, more drive, suave, social savvy, and if things click, may become attracted to these high-achievers.



Cheers!

so are you saying women's successful career and independence causes divorce?

 

[TracyTan866]

Worst thing is - she might see leaving her husband is the means to achieve what will fulfill her career, so she can "move on."

Without an education, the above is unlikely to happen.

Cheers!

so women shd remain uneducated?

 

[boylover]

haha cat or dog in place of children ?

or cat /dog in place of satisfaction from partner after divorce :p

i have been divorced for almost 10 years, recently, i met my ex-wife for dinner and saw that she is unwell. think as a man, i decided to woo her back and ward off other women.

 

[salmon]

as in me???

ya. he's presuming u're female cos of your nick i think.

 

[TracyTan866]

ya. he's presuming u're female cos of your nick i think.

what has me got to do with SG's divorced rate?

 

[TracyTan866]

i have been divorced for almost 10 years, recently, i met my ex-wife for dinner and saw that she is unwell. think as a man, i decided to woo her back and ward off other women.

Glad that u decided to woo her back

if it is not too personal, can share what caused the divorce 10yrs ago?

 

[Agoraphobic]

I agree that to get married for the sake of marriage is a recipe for divorce

Marriage is an instituition for the legitimisation and protection of children. People who get married should do so with raising a familiy in mind - together. If they do not want to raise a familiy, just cohabitate and save themselves and their kin the legal problems and emotional trauma should it fail.

Cheers!

 

[boylover]

Glad that u decided to woo her back

if it is not too personal, can share what caused the divorce 10yrs ago?

it's very complicated, all i can say is that someone play bastard!

 

[salmon]

what has me got to do with SG's divorced rate?

tsk. read the history la. he addressed u as "gf" the way he would address the others as "bro". then i think u thought he meant that he and his gf had some sort of understanding abt their relationship and asked if such females are in plentiful supply or something liddat la.

 

[Agoraphobic]

so women shd remain uneducated?

Nope, I didn't say that. When a person is educated, that person should be able to understand things more deeply, not just produce a paper to get a better paid job. Used to be an educated person also meant "well-read", wiser. Nowadays, society tends to equate more education = earns more money.

Cheers!

 

[Kinana]

living a godly life will solve immoral doings? didnt RenCi abbot live agodly life but he was found quilty and jailed.

How can a godly life be stealing money?

 

[I_Hate_Pappies]

Probably, a certain percentage was due to the rush of getting a house?

 

[TracyTan866]

Marriage is an instituition for the legitimisation and protection of children. People who get married should do so with raising a familiy in mind - together. If they do not want to raise a familiy, just cohabitate and save themselves and their kin the legal problems and emotional trauma should it fail.

Cheers!

You are right. marriage is more than just for convenience and sex.

 

[TracyTan866]

it's very complicated, all i can say is that someone play bastard!

???someone played bastard is the cause of divorce?