Bad News - Increasing Divorced Rate in SG

[Agoraphobic]

............................ can share what caused the divorce 10yrs ago?

See his nickname? That's a giveaway!

Cheers!

 

[TracyTan866]

Nope, I didn't say that. When a person is educated, that person should be able to understand things more deeply, not just produce a paper to get a better paid job. Used to be an educated person also meant "well-read", wiser. Nowadays, society tends to equate more education = earns more money.

Cheers!

but more education will help the couple understand that marriage is not frivolous and they have to know what they are going in for. shdnt more education lessen divorces rather than increase divorces.

i wld agree that more education wld cause more gals to remain single because they are more independent, more educated and dont want to marry for the sake of marrying

 

[TracyTan866]

How can a godly life be stealing money?

r u saying that RenCi Abbot didnt lead a godly life because he was convicted ? so what is godly life to you?

 

[TracyTan866]

Probably, a certain percentage was due to the rush of getting a house?

u mean got people rush to get married just for hdb flat although they are not ready?

 

[Cestbon]

Marriage is an instituition for the legitimisation and protection of children. People who get married should do so with raising a familiy in mind - together. If they do not want to raise a familiy, just cohabitate and save themselves and their kin the legal problems and emotional trauma should it fail.

Cheers!

100% if want to get marriage then should start a family have child.
If just to be friend or sex partner without child then stick to single. No point get married without child.
No different with dating only paper agreement if not child. Save it no point sign it without planing to have child.
With child there will be big different, need to money,time and responsible.

 

[TracyTan866]

See his nickname? That's a giveaway!

Cheers!

lol...u r sharp!!

for a moment I read his nickname as he was a boy when he first loved his wife

 

[Kinana]

r u saying that RenCi Abbot didnt lead a godly life because he was convicted ? so what is godly life to you?

How can he have lived a godly life and be stealing money? You mean the conviction was dubious?

 

[TracyTan866]

100% if want to get marriage then should start a family have child.
If just to be friend or sex partner without child then stick to single. No point get married without child.
No different with dating only paper agreement if not child. Save it no point sign it without planing to have child.
With child there will be big different, need to money,time and responsible.

many SG couples are happily married but dont want to have children because of the stress in SG and they dont want their off springs to suffer life in SG

 

[TracyTan866]

How can he have lived a godly life and be stealing money? You mean the conviction was dubious?

it's not for me to judge him...it's also not for me to say that he didnt lead a godly life. it's between him and his Creator

 

[TracyTan866]

How can he have lived a godly life and be stealing money? You mean the conviction was dubious?

jto me, ust because SG Court say a person is guilty doesnt mean that he is guilty.

to me, just because SG Court or SPF say a person is not guilty, doesnt mean he is not guilty.

u think SG justice is infallible?

 

[Kinana]

SG court is no nonsence. The monk was guilty.

Back to the high divorce rates. Do you have any solution to this problem? Blame the govt perhaps?

 

[Cestbon]

many SG couples are happily married but dont want to have children because of the stress in SG and they dont want their off springs to suffer life in SG

Why married without wanting to have child?
What the different married without child and be bf/gf living together? Only paper and data base in gov is married or single. Life still the same.

 

[TracyTan866]

SG court is no nonsence. The monk was guilty.

Back to the high divorce rates. Do you have any solution to this problem? Blame the govt perhaps?

the govt can help mitigate this high divorce rate

 

[TracyTan866]

SG court is no nonsence. The monk was guilty.

If the SG Court is no nonsense and cant be wrong, why is there a need for Court of Appeals?

 

[Kinana]

the govt can help mitigate this high divorce rate

Pass laws to make divorce illegal? What sir? What is your solution?

 

[TracyTan866]

Why married without wanting to have child?
What the different married without child and be bf/gf living together? Only paper and data base in gov is married or single. Life still the same.

many couples have their reasons for not wanting to have children

 

[no_faith]

but more education will help the couple understand that marriage is not frivolous and they have to know what they are going in for. shdnt more education lessen divorces rather than increase divorces.

i wld agree that more education wld cause more gals to remain single because they are more independent, more educated and dont want to marry for the sake of marrying

education is just theory. when you heed the theory and go into marriage, things are different from theory.
talk is cheap.

divorce stats are high, isnt it a happy scenario for the lawyers?

 

[Kinana]

many couples have their reasons for not wanting to have children

We are talking about divorce sir. What talking you? what is your solution?
why you so shifty and cautious on this forum sir? Say it la.

 

[Cestbon]

many couples have their reasons for not wanting to have children

Still never answer the question. Yes there many reason why dont want to have child.
But why why why want to married? No point.

 

[TracyTan866]

We are talking about divorce sir. What talking you? what is your solution?
why you so shifty and cautious on this forum sir? Say it la.

I was answering question posed in Post#92