My army pal spent his younger days in wine, women and song. As age caught on, he finally decided it was time to settle down. He went to a Vietnamese match making agency and chose an old, ugly village girl
I asked him, you have cheonged in hang flower joints, KTVs, and had countless sugar babes all your life. Why now choose to marry someone with no looks?
He said, those days are over. Now, his life has really begun. He wants to find a partner who has character. Looks or no looks, whether good in bed, those are childish considerations that have been put aside. He has had his fill. Now is the time for Phase 2 of his life.
Indeed, it is a unique way to look at things.