u dig up such n o thread juz 2 e-e-or-or abt sex n alcohol? ...
I found the thread when searching for puppies and cats under search button lah.
I just think guys are really stupid and don't understand women's hearts.
Read the first few posts then you will know. The guy is totally clueless that his wife loves him... no wonder he screwed up with her.
For example, he doesn't get it that if a china woman takes the kid with her, she loves the guy very much because it's not easy to bring a kid around when trying to make a living.
Anyway, whether the wife is using the kid to get money from the guy, only the guy would know right? It's been five months. If she had wanted to do so, I'm sure she would have done so by now.
Which GOOD WOMAN rejects a life of comfort because of her principles? She left because she loved a guy who cheated her feelings?
Come on, we know so many women from stories who stay by their cheating hubbies due to to financial reasons? Or want to divorce their retrenched investment banker husbands for money?
One thing about women, the moment you make a mistake, better make amends. The longer you leave it, the more unsalvageable the relationship becomes.
Say your wife finds out about your affair. She doesn't say a thing hoping you will leave the other woman. She hopes, because she loves you. (Of course cynical guys will say it's for the dough etc, but time will tell ok)
You don't leave the bitch.
Then she confronts you about it. You still don't leave the bitch.
What can she conclude? You don't want to break up with the other woman. So she leaves. With the son.
And all she wants is the son and not money or whatever.
You don't chase after her --> She can safely conclude that:
1. You don't care about her & the baby
2. You chose the other woman --> logically, otherwise you would have run after her right? If you are not with her, you are with some other woman.
You can't be alone because even when you were happily married, you had at least one other woman outside.
After five months, if you come back to her, should she assume you were drunk every night pining for her?
Not likely. She's more likely to conclude that the other woman dumped him and he has been spending time with her before that.
Now if she really loved the hubby, what would her most likely reaction be?
Dump him lor. He was an ass for having an affair, and he was faithless for another FIVE MONTHS!