Re: The strange phenomenon of mixed marriages in the Malay community, and repercussio
Why must everything blame on the religion? Quote me verses fm the Quran tat command Muslims to laze around and tcss? On the contrary the Quran and beloved Prophet had this to say:
Quran:
"Read" In the name of your Lord: (Surah Alaq)
Say: Are those equal, those who know and those who do not know? It is those who are
endured with uderstanding that remember (Allah's knowledge) (Zumar-9)
WTF are you talking about? If you want people to encourage people to study hard and work hard, say so directly without beating around the bush. Tell your Allah for me.
The Hadith: Sayings of the Prophet saw
"Seeking knowledge is an obligation upon every Muslim" (Saheeh)
In many islamic countries, students do not attend real schools. They attend madrassahs where they memorize quran, kill girls who seek education and execute people who disagree with Islam. These are mainstream islamic practices in those societies, encouraged by experts in Islamic jurisprudence and religious practices.
Wat cherry pick? I already told u. U just pay a visit to Darul Arqam. Make enquiry tere. Dont alway rely on heresay or fm social media like sbf.
Learning about Islam from a mosque or Darul Arqam is just plain silly. The clerics there are just going to feed you BS that is favourable to Islam. They don't like being challenged and whenever they are, they will ask you if you are an expert in Islam or if you understand Arabic in order to deflect the question. It's just their way of saying you should accept everything they teach and not question them.
At least when you seek to know more about Islam from neutral forums like SBF, you get forummers who welcome opposing views. You are also free to fact-check and disagree, something that the muslim world utterly dislikes when it comes to islam.
That is why this phenomenon is so strange to me. Malays when they marry other races, require that race to convert to Islam.
The Malay race here defines itself predominantly with Islam. The Malay race have no unique Malay festivity that isn't related to Islam. Everything important about the Malay race and culture is tied to Islam. Malay history before Islam in the 13th century AD and earlier has been erased and deliberately forgotten, save for a few broken pottery shards and scraps.
I know many white spouses of malay women who have converted, and have even taken muslim names. but in reality, many are sham conversions. Once they return home to the country of the spouse, the spouse just ignores the conversion and eats pork or whatever he likes. With this conversion as an impediment to potential marriage partners, malays still go out to look for other races to marry.
Most malays are aware of that and they don't care. They usually care that the offspring is muslim. First generation fake convert is okay, 2nd generation slightly more religion. 3rd generation would be diehard for the religion. It's a long-term investment.
I mean Chinese girls don't have this issue with conversion, so you would think it would be issue to for them to marry other race, and there would be more mixed marriages then malays, but the opposite is true.
Most m&ds despise the chinks for having little issue with conversion, even for those who converted to islam. It just convinces them that the chinks are of lower intellect and lower morals as they have no regard for god and the afterlife and are only concerned about money.
