Reminds me of when a bunch of Malaysian Chinese were planning a CNY gathering. As they wanted to invite their Malaysian Malay friends to the event we were all told no pork dishes.
So no bak kwa. No char siew.
Seemed ridiculous to me. It is a CNY event! But must cater to Muslim? Malaysians are used to this bend over and accommodate crap for their Malay masters.
After that I never go for any of these events.
I don't go to an event outside my culture which I am invited to and expect them to change what they usually have on their menu because of my preferences. I am not some VIP. And even if I was it is me who should respect their culture and practices since I am invited to their gathering.
Whoami what You wrote is very telling of how your culture regards the inter religious inter ethnic interactions. Host is supposed to cater for guests and bend backwards. Strange to me but acceptable to you Muslims.
No wonder there is conflict.
Similarly many many years back we were told off by a Muslim couple sitting many tables away that they were offended by us feeding our 1 year old daughter home cooked porridge at Swensens and demanded we stop or go outside the restaurant to feed her.
Just the sight of a 1 year old eating non halal food makes Malay offended. How awful. Religion of peace my ass!
So no bak kwa. No char siew.
Seemed ridiculous to me. It is a CNY event! But must cater to Muslim? Malaysians are used to this bend over and accommodate crap for their Malay masters.
After that I never go for any of these events.
I don't go to an event outside my culture which I am invited to and expect them to change what they usually have on their menu because of my preferences. I am not some VIP. And even if I was it is me who should respect their culture and practices since I am invited to their gathering.
Whoami what You wrote is very telling of how your culture regards the inter religious inter ethnic interactions. Host is supposed to cater for guests and bend backwards. Strange to me but acceptable to you Muslims.
No wonder there is conflict.
Similarly many many years back we were told off by a Muslim couple sitting many tables away that they were offended by us feeding our 1 year old daughter home cooked porridge at Swensens and demanded we stop or go outside the restaurant to feed her.
Just the sight of a 1 year old eating non halal food makes Malay offended. How awful. Religion of peace my ass!