Yes, I know your situation as you've mentioned in the past. The whole point is not to say you are wrong, stupid or show why you've made a bad mistake.
The fact is that, not many people feel or think like you with regards to moving over to JB. Whatever makes you happy or works with you, stick with it! But your "thinking" profile is not typical of a Singaporean family.
I have friends and colleagues in your situation. 2,3 kids, combined salary below $8k. Some have wives who stay home and don't earn anything. Most live in 4 to 5 room HDB flats. After every weekend, they sometimes talked about how they had a good time visiting places on interest in Singapore, the foods they ate, the good time they spent with their relatives, etc. Some have cars, some don't. That doesn't make much difference in their quality of life. They still can send their kids to school and some affordable classes/tuition in Singapore. They don't lead a "peasant" lifestyle like you mentioned. No one bitched about how a plate of chicken rice in SG can get them 2 plates of hot fun in JB.
I don't see how their family income or profiles are largely different from yours. So your case is not exceptional. But they can still get by happily over in SG.
So that's why I say it's a matter of expectations. But the main point still remains -- It's not attractive for the general Singaporean family to move over to Iskandar just so that they can live cheaply in a big house. I'm trying to correct some misconceptions or blatant assumptions that property agents say about how Singaporeans will be attracted to live in Iskandar next time to get out of the high cost of living here.
It's not so simple such that Singapore = expensive so => let's all go to Iskandar. There are so many other factors to consider and it's not easy to change human psychology, whether they are justified or not. As of today, the consensus is that nobody wants to move over now or in the future, despite whatever bitching many do regarding Singapore being expensive, overcrowded, stressful, etc.
To extend the argument further, there will be a big problem with rental of properties in oversupply for the next few years with the lack of demand to keep up with it. Some even say there will be pockets of ghost towns here and there. I don't want to predict anything on this lest I get slammed. So let's wait and see.
If you are buying for your own stay and not so bothered whether the value of your property will rise or fall, well ok. It's the blind investors who rushed in thinking they will want to rent their units out that is the problem. If they still choose not to believe the warning signs, then it's dangerous to their finances. Unless they are rich enough to "throw money" without feeling the pinch.
The fact is that, not many people feel or think like you with regards to moving over to JB. Whatever makes you happy or works with you, stick with it! But your "thinking" profile is not typical of a Singaporean family.
I have friends and colleagues in your situation. 2,3 kids, combined salary below $8k. Some have wives who stay home and don't earn anything. Most live in 4 to 5 room HDB flats. After every weekend, they sometimes talked about how they had a good time visiting places on interest in Singapore, the foods they ate, the good time they spent with their relatives, etc. Some have cars, some don't. That doesn't make much difference in their quality of life. They still can send their kids to school and some affordable classes/tuition in Singapore. They don't lead a "peasant" lifestyle like you mentioned. No one bitched about how a plate of chicken rice in SG can get them 2 plates of hot fun in JB.
I don't see how their family income or profiles are largely different from yours. So your case is not exceptional. But they can still get by happily over in SG.
So that's why I say it's a matter of expectations. But the main point still remains -- It's not attractive for the general Singaporean family to move over to Iskandar just so that they can live cheaply in a big house. I'm trying to correct some misconceptions or blatant assumptions that property agents say about how Singaporeans will be attracted to live in Iskandar next time to get out of the high cost of living here.
It's not so simple such that Singapore = expensive so => let's all go to Iskandar. There are so many other factors to consider and it's not easy to change human psychology, whether they are justified or not. As of today, the consensus is that nobody wants to move over now or in the future, despite whatever bitching many do regarding Singapore being expensive, overcrowded, stressful, etc.
To extend the argument further, there will be a big problem with rental of properties in oversupply for the next few years with the lack of demand to keep up with it. Some even say there will be pockets of ghost towns here and there. I don't want to predict anything on this lest I get slammed. So let's wait and see.
If you are buying for your own stay and not so bothered whether the value of your property will rise or fall, well ok. It's the blind investors who rushed in thinking they will want to rent their units out that is the problem. If they still choose not to believe the warning signs, then it's dangerous to their finances. Unless they are rich enough to "throw money" without feeling the pinch.
It was unthinkable for me to move over to JB if you ask me this question three years ago. As a place to visit and shop and eat is ok as we like to do that a few times a month, but to stay? That is insanely crazy, what with all the traffic jams and "backward" lifestyle to contend with. And also suicidal to brave the daily commute to work during peak hours. Staying put was staying safe and staying comfortable..but it was also status quo.
So when baby came along in 2013 the first thought was "let's get a bigger HDB". The search for a bigger house with more rooms was depressing, considering the price of flats and the COV sellers are asking for. We can't wait for BTO which is not much bigger than our 4 room flat anyway, and existing bigger flats are $700K excluding COV. As you can see, there's not much option available in Singapore, for people like me with with not much money. JB was suggested to us as a viable option. So with baby in tow we decided to go out of our comfort zone and looked around for a bigger house for a much smaller price. And before long we found ourselves moved over, all in 5 months. Fast forward a couple of years, baby has grown in a non SG environment while her siblings had grown up in HDB neighbourhood, I have also gone through more than two years of daily work commute, on bike some more! Financially still very tight because of loans taken for the JB house but overall we feel that quality of life much better than before. The favourable currency rates definitely stretched the dollar. A $4 plate of chicken rice for one person can buy two plates of hor fun in JB.
Definitely there is a trade off when we move over from SG, but in my own experience so far, it has been more positive than negative. It may not be the same for everyone, depending on each person's situation and preferences.
The thing is that we changed our minds, what was once the unthinkable became the norm for us. So perhaps it is never say never. But it probably would take a leap of faith to step out of our kiasi SG trait. We had a lot of fears at the start too...but now we are more at ease. Maybe a few years down the road we become blended in, and start conversing in Malay...LOL!