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You are right, our heritage, our real mother tongue has been wiped out in two generation. Thanks for the info for the different sized bowls. Is there anywhere I can find out more information about this. I'm really curious about learning my heritage now.
I think there are, if you search the internet. I learnt this from the people that I grew up around me, learning their UNIQUEness as differing dialects, & as one being CHINESE, in a single spoken dialect, that is Mandarin.
Do you know that the Cantonese is very particluar of using their own chopsticks, spoon & bowl while eating together, in the past, each individuals have their own cutlery in the house; and uses only them.
By the Hainanese are much more communal, they all dip their chopsticks, spoons in whatever one the table...one of their unique tradition, which I came across was at wedding.
When you arrive at the recpetion, a table with red cloth is set at the entrance, with a person collecting the red packets. The person will ask..'bride or groom"...then open up the red packet & announce the Contents, a book keeper next to the person will record the amount & relation.
Not only using cutlery, we have a wealth of heritage amongst us...that we have destroyed...under the mad, crazy policy of Mother Tongue ( Manadrain as for the Chinese)..which incidentally isn't ours in the first place.
Don't get me wrong, learning a language or languages is nothing wrong, but the way it had been handled before, until now...they just can not get it right...so, we should change people who can set this on the right path..for the sake of the children..why make them suffer, the way we have suffered.
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