wow..thats a tough question that i never think of . you really caught me there .
Actually it's kind of a trick question (or perhaps you knew it too), with the all else being status quo.
I don't know about you, but it would be next to impossible for me, maybe for most guys too, that by accepting her, would also need to accept the 2 children that she has, not from previous marriages, but out of wedlock, not once but twice.
That I believe is the crux of it, as for the tatoos, those are just another excuse for the guys to use, to hit and run.