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Chitchat m&d Girl Upset That Straits Time Stereotype m&d Parents As Poor And Can't Stand Their Own Loser Kids As Compared To Dedicated Chink Parents!

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This is what my daughter wrote to the writer and the senior editor pertaining to the attached article written by #158 press in the world....

Dear Ms Yeo and Ms Lee,

I am Nurin Nazurah. I am writing to you to raise a major concern regarding your recent article entitled “How home-based learning shows up inequality in Singapore - a look at three homes” posted on April 18 2020.

While the main premise of your article was supposedly about digital divide and the exacerbation of inequality brought about by the HBL and coronavirus situation, what profoundly stood out to me was the blatant racial stereotyping present at every juncture of your article. I feel like I need not outline to you what harms racial stereotyping brings to minority communities, but with this article being published in good faith, I gather that you have internalised such stereotypes and do not realize what messages you are sending out to your readers – who I assume, are majority Chinese.

Firstly, your article’s images depict 3 different households and how they are affected by the COVID-19 situation. This picture depicting the Malay family is captioned “Making do with devices on loan with patchy WiFi”. Along with it is a family in a run-down rental flat, cramped in one living space while the children are trying to do their schoolwork. In stark contrast, the Chinese family is depicted to be in a clean, well furnished house, with their photo captioned as “Taking the chance to impart life skills and values to their children”.

From the get-go, the stark contrast in your choice of photos and captions already perpetuate the narrative that the Malay race are of low income, live in rental flats, and struggle to provide a conducive learning environment for their children while the Chinese family, presumably of high income by the likes of their crisp and clean home, are wealthy, have resources and are able to provide a good educational environment for their children.

You are complicit in perpetuating and reinforcing long-held racial stereotypes in Singapore that Malays are usually poor and struggle to make ends meet while Chinese families are usually better off and more adept at providing good quality education and resources for their children. Malays, Indians, and Chinese have always been categorised into these labels and more often than not, it is always the Malays and Indians who are given such disparaging and degrading labels, making people think that they are inferior to the Chinese race.

Your article does exactly that, in a public newspaper no less, and I assert that while your article seems a harmless piece on inequality in Singapore, you have just reinforced disparaging and harmful stereotypes towards racial minorities who already suffer from discrimination due to these long held stereotypes that are not even true in the first place.

To make my point clearer, your choice of narrative also further betrays this stereotypical mindset. Ms Chu, who runs a consultancy company, is described to be a dedicated parent, going out of her way to draw ‘detailed schedules’ for her children to ensure they have a balance of play and study time. She is depicted to be in a productive partnership with her husband, a dentist, who also pulls his weight in helping his children with schoolwork, tasked with helping them in mathematics. In contrast, Mr Hashim is currently jobless, while his wife’s highest education level is N Levels, showing a stark difference in the educational qualifications and capabilities of the Chinese parents relative to the Malays.

Furthermore, Mr Hashim is being depicted as a lot less dedicated and devoted to spending time with his children.
Quoting you: “Mr Hashim, who has been cooking more, is not used to being around his four children 24/7. He recently asked his wife how she could tahan (Malay for tolerate) being with the children all day long.”

This further reinforces the stereotype that Chinese parents, on top of juggling their prestigious full time jobs, are still able to be devoted parents and be involved in their children’s lives, while Malay parents, working menial, low wage jobs like Mr Hashim, are less devoted to their children and have less parental attachment towards them, to the point of not being to “tolerate” being with the children all day long.

On top of perpetuating the stereotypes regarding the types of jobs that each race category holds, you are also depicting Chinese parents to be superior to Malay parents with your choice of words and portrayal of these people, making it clear the internalised stereotypes you have regarding the familial interactions and parenting methods of each race, which is stated so blatantly in your article.

You could have chosen any family to portray the inequalities present in Singapore - Chinese families in rental flats, wealthy Malay or Indian families etc – but your choice of depiction reflects the racial segregation and stereotypes that have long hurt and caused discrimination towards racial minorities in Singapore.

These harmful stereotypes have in fact, perpetuated inequalities in both the treatment and job prospects of these minorities. According to an IPS Survey in 2018, 52% of Malay respondents and 47% of Indian respondents stated that they faced racial discrimination when applying for a job, highlighting a dire reality that both of you, being Chinese and of the privileged race, may not be able to comprehend.

Thus for lack of better words, your article regarding inequality (which I must say, is lacking a larger argument about inequality itself besides pointing out the existence of inequality) is complicit in perpetuating further racial inequality.

While this might not have been your intention, I find it imperative to point this out to you because this article is damaging and hurtful to racial minorities like myself, who do not fall into these categorisations and stereotypes, and do not appreciate being reduced into such a belittling and inaccurate labelling of our race.

Thank you for your attention and I hope that you will respond to this.
Regards,
Nurin



 
What's wrong with revealing the reality of a situation?
 
Perhaps the shitty times should have interviewed a middle class m&d family, a low income m&d family and a rich m&d family so that it cant be racist since all m&ds.
 
This is what my daughter wrote to the writer and the senior editor pertaining to the attached article written by #158 press in the world....

Dear Ms Yeo and Ms Lee,

I am Nurin Nazurah. I am writing to you to raise a major concern regarding your recent article entitled “How home-based learning shows up inequality in Singapore - a look at three homes” posted on April 18 2020.

While the main premise of your article was supposedly about digital divide and the exacerbation of inequality brought about by the HBL and coronavirus situation, what profoundly stood out to me was the blatant racial stereotyping present at every juncture of your article. I feel like I need not outline to you what harms racial stereotyping brings to minority communities, but with this article being published in good faith, I gather that you have internalised such stereotypes and do not realize what messages you are sending out to your readers – who I assume, are majority Chinese.

Firstly, your article’s images depict 3 different households and how they are affected by the COVID-19 situation. This picture depicting the Malay family is captioned “Making do with devices on loan with patchy WiFi”. Along with it is a family in a run-down rental flat, cramped in one living space while the children are trying to do their schoolwork. In stark contrast, the Chinese family is depicted to be in a clean, well furnished house, with their photo captioned as “Taking the chance to impart life skills and values to their children”.

From the get-go, the stark contrast in your choice of photos and captions already perpetuate the narrative that the Malay race are of low income, live in rental flats, and struggle to provide a conducive learning environment for their children while the Chinese family, presumably of high income by the likes of their crisp and clean home, are wealthy, have resources and are able to provide a good educational environment for their children.

You are complicit in perpetuating and reinforcing long-held racial stereotypes in Singapore that Malays are usually poor and struggle to make ends meet while Chinese families are usually better off and more adept at providing good quality education and resources for their children. Malays, Indians, and Chinese have always been categorised into these labels and more often than not, it is always the Malays and Indians who are given such disparaging and degrading labels, making people think that they are inferior to the Chinese race.

Your article does exactly that, in a public newspaper no less, and I assert that while your article seems a harmless piece on inequality in Singapore, you have just reinforced disparaging and harmful stereotypes towards racial minorities who already suffer from discrimination due to these long held stereotypes that are not even true in the first place.

To make my point clearer, your choice of narrative also further betrays this stereotypical mindset. Ms Chu, who runs a consultancy company, is described to be a dedicated parent, going out of her way to draw ‘detailed schedules’ for her children to ensure they have a balance of play and study time. She is depicted to be in a productive partnership with her husband, a dentist, who also pulls his weight in helping his children with schoolwork, tasked with helping them in mathematics. In contrast, Mr Hashim is currently jobless, while his wife’s highest education level is N Levels, showing a stark difference in the educational qualifications and capabilities of the Chinese parents relative to the Malays.

Furthermore, Mr Hashim is being depicted as a lot less dedicated and devoted to spending time with his children.
Quoting you: “Mr Hashim, who has been cooking more, is not used to being around his four children 24/7. He recently asked his wife how she could tahan (Malay for tolerate) being with the children all day long.”

This further reinforces the stereotype that Chinese parents, on top of juggling their prestigious full time jobs, are still able to be devoted parents and be involved in their children’s lives, while Malay parents, working menial, low wage jobs like Mr Hashim, are less devoted to their children and have less parental attachment towards them, to the point of not being to “tolerate” being with the children all day long.

On top of perpetuating the stereotypes regarding the types of jobs that each race category holds, you are also depicting Chinese parents to be superior to Malay parents with your choice of words and portrayal of these people, making it clear the internalised stereotypes you have regarding the familial interactions and parenting methods of each race, which is stated so blatantly in your article.

You could have chosen any family to portray the inequalities present in Singapore - Chinese families in rental flats, wealthy Malay or Indian families etc – but your choice of depiction reflects the racial segregation and stereotypes that have long hurt and caused discrimination towards racial minorities in Singapore.

These harmful stereotypes have in fact, perpetuated inequalities in both the treatment and job prospects of these minorities. According to an IPS Survey in 2018, 52% of Malay respondents and 47% of Indian respondents stated that they faced racial discrimination when applying for a job, highlighting a dire reality that both of you, being Chinese and of the privileged race, may not be able to comprehend.

Thus for lack of better words, your article regarding inequality (which I must say, is lacking a larger argument about inequality itself besides pointing out the existence of inequality) is complicit in perpetuating further racial inequality.

While this might not have been your intention, I find it imperative to point this out to you because this article is damaging and hurtful to racial minorities like myself, who do not fall into these categorisations and stereotypes, and do not appreciate being reduced into such a belittling and inaccurate labelling of our race.

Thank you for your attention and I hope that you will respond to this.
Regards,
Nurin




Low income m&d family. With 4 kids. No need guess race n religion
 
Nurin should not get so worked up. The only way to fix this is for her and her family to accept reality, and to take steps to elevate their social status.
 
The hard truth is that a disproportionate number of the poor and unhealthy in Singapore are the minority races. While there are various reasons for being stuck in a poverty cycle, there are only a few reasons for being unhealthy, such as overeating, a diet rich in sweet foods and sugar and insufficient physical activity like walking.

In my grassroots work, a disproportionate number of the people with chronic illnesses like obesity, kidney problems, stroke, heart disease, are m&ds and kelings. This has a direct impact on their family finances.
 
KNN Ms yeo and ms lee can reply KNN write so much and even with good english no use for proofs KNN just ask yourself a few questions eg Do you or your parents
1. pillion or ride motosikal KNN
2. Go to courts for hp KNN
3. Rike drums and guitar KNN
4. How many siblings do you have KNN
5. Have the urge for relatives gatherings at any cost KNN
6. How many mcs you took at work KNN also will you or your abang take urgent leave or mcs when your step great parents in law is hospitalised or passed on KNN
7. How big is your house and loans taken how much KNN
8. Did your parents borrowed money for your education KNN
9. Keep thinking and dreaming and calculating of owning a mpv or van KNN
10. Travelled to Mudlaysia during weekend/ph for gatherings and shopping renting a mpv KNN
11. How many parents you have had KNN
12. Rike KFC and coke KNN
 
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Nurin writes very well; bashing as well....9/10
Able to write well or highly educated or holding a VP position in banking is of no use when one fail badly with financial planning with president halimau obscene celery an exception KNN my uncle personally know a few vps that also living with mountains of debts KNN

13. Given sgd1mil how would you manage it KNN
 
The hard truth is that a disproportionate number of the poor and unhealthy in Singapore are the minority races. While there are various reasons for being stuck in a poverty cycle, there are only a few reasons for being unhealthy, such as overeating, a diet rich in sweet foods and sugar and insufficient physical activity like walking.

In my grassroots work, a disproportionate number of the people with chronic illnesses like obesity, kidney problems, stroke, heart disease, are m&ds and kelings. This has a direct impact on their family finances.
U forget to add in. Low income with many kids. Thus perpetuating the poverty cycle
 
Perhaps the shitty times should have interviewed a middle class m&d family, a low income m&d family and a rich m&d family so that it cant be racist since all m&ds.
It will be of not much difference KNN the problem with them is the magnitude KNN it is similar to a gambler eg bet $100 for a 10 fold win to $1k profit and next bet 1k gone KNN low income high income only lies with their magnitude of spending KNN
 
Aiyah. Malay newspapers interview malays. Straits times interview all Chinese.

Nothing good to say about minority races dont say anything.
 
U forget to add in. Low income with many kids. Thus perpetuating the poverty cycle

The featured chink family has 4 kids, same number as kids as the featured m&d family. So the problem isn't necessarily with having more kids.

Over time, I also learned that having more kids isn't a factor for poverty. Kids become a problem if they are born with disabilities or serious mental disorders. Discounting those disabilities, there are numerous charitable organizations and PA grassroots fighting with each other for the right to feed your many children if you are poor. So, no issue if you have many kids. Just hook up with numerous charity groups and collect benefits from all of them, like Loser Sam in the news recently.
 
The featured chink family has 4 kids, same number as kids as the featured m&d family. So the problem isn't necessarily with having more kids.
Pls tell yr pappie masters to bring back the best singkieland policy ever. The stop at 2. So such things won happen
 
Got lah KNN my uncle is impressed by their kampung spirit I.e the real sgunited KNN if they have plenty of money they will lend it to their distant relative and can end up broke themselves at later stage gai KNN
Yes. So straits times should report good things when it comes to minority races.

It is about being smart lah.

Problem is sinkies are soooooo racist that they are totally blind and deaf to it. And the national newspaper also.

Many of the dr bashing that salma Khalik does is bordering on hate crimes.
 
Which is why Kan-ni-ma is happy being a scapegoat in Yistana, so that PAP can have every reason to throw stones at her race using her as shield. PAP propaganda is what it is. There are Malays who love it and there are malays who hated it. Who can judge what is racist, right? So the editor has to write what it is, even if the truth hurts. May be, the pro-PAP Malay family was VERY happy to be volunteered in the news. It happens everyday, from PAP newletter to public banner, depicting a Malay lifestyle for what it is. If a Cow won't want to drink, you can't bend its head, right? Come election, you will still see many Malays holding PAP banners and jaw gapping to give the government an unchallenged mandate again. They certainly are happy for what it is.
 
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