Thanks everyone for their inputs, lets hope and see how things goes. One of my friends bros who he told about this much earlier never really saw the light.
I told him to stop trying as to each his own and we cannot do much if people are unwilling to even come in to see or chicken out of coming at the last minute. (Not even talking about buying anything)
Sometimes, like i always told him, you should only help those who deserves or wants to be helped. The rest, you have to tell your conscience that you have tried.
Everyone moves on their own time. I told him to just wish his friends well and just be happy for him whatever his choice is. No matter what others think of your motives, just be at peace and be happy with yourself.
There are still people out there who are motivated by more than just hard dollars and cents(sense).
These are things you cannot take with you when you are gone, an open hand is one that reaches the sky and reaches out to friends, the withdrawn closed fist is nothing but a sign of fear and hate.
In the end, only kindness matters. If you can't or won't help you fellow man, at least don't hurt them.
If you have nothing good to say about anything, then your silence is itself already a boon granted.
Wuqi, your words very 'cheem', but logical...