Bro WUQI u the the MAN!!! Salute to u! I first time see a person who will go all out to help others! Really hard to find. Not to make use of u of course, but nowadays where can we find anyone like u??
Some ppl I see r all self centred and only cares for themselves that's why sg really no more love and compassion for one another. I mean some ppl. even the garment also heartless to their fellow true breed Sgans, my family is the best example.....
My mother birthday tml but only my 2 sisters want to celebrate for her, I was wondering where is their husband? What r they doing? Why they not coming? As ask by crystal... 3 brothers in law got car, why can't use 1 to fetch them? At least I can drive to fetch them and my family. I tried to hint my sisters that I can't get hold of my friend as he was in MY as I used to borrow his car only recently as I am buying a property in MY and on top of that I am paying him $50 for few hours like 4 to 5 hours and a confirmed of full tank although he didn't tell me to do that, I very automatic and pay him $50 at the first time of using his car till now no matter it's 4 or 5 hours .
Why someone who is not related to me but can help me whereas my family members treat their cars like baby?? Not that I want to force them to loan me, it should be automatic for them to offer since we r relate right?
I feel sad but have to tell them the arrangement have to be called off. It's all the time and situation which is at fault! I should have bought a property long ago in MY and not wasting my time in SG.. I have A new house in Phil which is brand new which I haven't stay, it's too time consuming to fly to and fro.. I regret buying there.
Life is so unpredictable, Actually got a car, bought only $30k OPC brand new still got 6 years COE, if I know I can buy property in MY I would even sell... End up renting to a Malay guy who said he will get loan to pay off after few months but in the end kana play out! Modified so much then kana TP spot check, went inspection and exhaust have to change full set, kana fined, bank loan delayed payment, car kana talek next day pay loan to get back car, then affected credit records, apply loan after selling house , all kana rejected!! Damn that fellow!!! Now my kids stopped schooling, waiting to move to JB and dun know about the future! Sometimes life really SUCKS! My wife says I getting more grey hair and I can't believe myself!
Ppl ask me r u happy u born in Singapore?? I told them NO!! I hate Singapore!! I only like the SG dollars only.
The garment force us to go army, after that we r forgotten in no time, COE only can be found here! Thanks to those filthy rich who has many cars at home and houses getting expensive thanks to those foreigners coming to buy more and more! Which makes the price go higher and higher..
I tell u all Singapore is no longer our country! Only the rich can survive! The garment only interested in those foreigners and never give a damn to those really in need. All they know is to suck all our hard earn money and make us work like a dog! Like a bird in the cage!! Like a dog, he wants us to sit, we have to sit... Totally no freedom! Look at those opposition leaders u will know, how pap can make one life really ruin and broken!!
Really heartless!! I rather stay in other country which not belong to me and die there rather dying here! They will dig all those who already buried and RIP and they will build more high rise to satisfy their monopoly and good name sake!
Lastly I would say to all, bro WUQI is a true bro all of u can follow ! Helpful and no matter u r new or old timers him will give information or help in no time and without anything to ask back from u! Hard to find in once called our homeland which now doesn't belong to us true blue local bred Singaporeans!!!!
Thanks, actually a lot of kind hearted people helped me along the way too. Friend who loaned me 5k barely 1 year after i was out of NS to help pay someones else debts. That month was a sad month as my savings were gone too as well as money saved to learn driving. Though she doubted me after someone badmouthed me, she still believed in me. I insisted on paying her back before the month (that was promised) was up and paid a little extra on top. Remained grateful to that lady ever since.
There was also a bro who quitted a well paying job and despite my securing my (soon to be vacated) post for him, he followed me straightaway and quitted. He told my sister one day, that i taught him everything i knew about IT, which was why when i left, he left too. He never told me and my sister didn't either until a few years back. Lost touch with him until when he got married. He is such a humble and good man.
Went in to Sentosa to attend his wedding dinner and made sure he got an ang pao appropriate for his sacrifice and friendship. He is such a good man, i will continue to look out for jobs for him as he just ended his nasi lemak business and back into IT.
Must admit though i wasn't so polite to some wedding guests there back then, especially one i knew who was so bad i had to use defensive mechanism(read BECAME EXTREMELY ALOOF, aka HAOLIAN) to stop his questions on stocks, etc. Sinful but sometimes one must do so to protect oneself.
I am so sorry to hear about what happened, i am confident things will turn up better for you. When you are at the bottom, the only way to go, is up.
What goes up, must come down, what goes down will rebound. I was proud to be born Singaporean all my life until after the 90s when things started to go downhill. Thats why i am thinking of buying a plot for my family when it comes to burial so that my parents will never be disturbed.
I have renovated my ancestors tombs at Bukit Brown a couple of years back and although not affected by the exhumation, is saddened to see the tombs of others disturbed like that. More determined to buy a burial plot here and if family gives green light, will move my ancestors graves eventually over. My ancestor also quite poor thing, no body took care and in the end the grave was lost in the jungle, got NEA and contractors to clear for close to 1 hour before they finally found the grave and that of many others. Was so glad to see the grave as it was lost in the jungle and all these years, our family only prayed by the roadside as they had no idea where the graves were.
As for the others, no one takes care of them, you really feel sorry to see the state that they are in. Especially my ancestors one had a huge split in the middle so i decided to renovate it with the blessings of my dad. Funny, back when they were clearing and renovating, went there so often and almost daily to help clean up and supervise. Got lucky and never got bitten (touch wood) by any insects there although one time i took off my shoes, found dead scorpion and a huge dead spider amongst the dried grass on my boots. After my mum voiced her opposition (thought to be unlucky after all to visit graves almost daily for weeks) i decided to only go every Qing Ming.
I am really no hero, more like a zero as i continue to strive to make sense of this big, bad and at times confusing world. Those who sacrificed and are still on duty for the sake of the country, still manning their positions and holding the line are the true heros.
I just try to help out whenever i can, sometimes i may get carried away but as long as i am able to, i will do my best.