Confirm plus chop she wasn't. I have no issues loaning to friends (and i know most with the exception of one would have done the same for me)
I am 100% true Singapore but as a friend always said, i am a "fei dian xing xin jia bo ren", not sure if its really a compliment or not.
A short list of somethings i have done before:
Bought gaming consoles off friends even when i knew they were outdated, they were too proud to borrow but were clearly in need of money
Spent money for secondary school classmates for a chalet in East Coast, paid up most and in the end one friend even kept my wallet and lied that he didn't see it. (but in the end returned to me after several calls and threats to call the police)
Joined in a fight and got beaten up together with my sec 1 friend, fought together, got beaten up hehe.
Used my dads car to evacuate one from school who was being threatened by gangs, almost got beaten up.
Went to rescue someone who was caught for trespassing, he ran off instead and told my parents i trespassed, got beaten up.
Loaned friend money and passed him all the canned food etc when i was in sec school days. Shared with him my pocket money.
Sent a friend (Malaysian) from work regularly back to Nanyang Poly as his car was parked there. (Of course, after i changed department, this person doesn't even say hi when i walk pass him in the office)
Bought house from a friend when he was in need.
Covered for friends everytime they are in trouble
Gave lodging to a friend who was in the process of family issues
Brought friends to more than 10 places to view houses.
Middle of a stormy evening - Repair car tire for a friend and pumped it with air
Helped out a friend in SG who had car issues and drove in from Johore.
Found jobs for friends whenever they need help.
Loaned car to neighbour who went to KL and got ticket - He insisted on paying
Loaned another car to wife friend who hit against several curb
Loaned another car to a friend whenever he is in town
Loaned car to friend when his car was at the mechanic
Loaned flat to friend in SG when he was down for 1 week
Drove a friend to KL to settle somethings
Drove a friend to Muar to settle something
Drove a friend to clear up another friends condo in Malacca
Drove them in from SG to Gelang Patah jetty for them to go fishing
Offered to loan a terrace to a friend for the weekend (but in the end he didn't come)
Drove them from office to Pasir Ris to search for a dog (to buy)
Drove them from office to site and back to their individual homes all over Singapore in wee hours of the night
Drove them to Jalan Kayu from office for lunch and sent one back home when he wasn't well
Refused company CEO who, after a speech, was asking to sit next to Wuqi's but Wuqi
said Sorry but cannot as my friend is coming back. -This was a CEO Wuqi 1000% respect
and likes but he promised his friend he will hold the seat. Of course, this same friend (who asks
for a house for the weekend but didn't turn up) said to Wuqi, i can stay what, you didn't
have to hold for me.
Went ahead and paid up for them first, the deposit when buying property.
Borrowed my car to hunt for his second squeeze (he succeeded by the way)
Loaned my member cards, access cards on numerous occasions (only to those i really trust though)
Friends has also:
Looked after me when i was in hospital.
Bought gifts and cheered me up when i was immobile
Loaned me money and got me games cheaply when i was too poor to afford.
Bought houses and factories under my suggestion without EVER seeing the development or even knowing who the developer is
Loaned me his entire house when mine was undergoing renovation
Sent me to Malacca and loaned me his house in Malacca
Loaned me a condo when i was holidaying in Malacca
Went ahead and paid up for me first, the deposit when buying property.
Turned up by faith to wait for me at Gelang Patah, Bukit Indah bus top (via CW3)
Tried to find jobs for me, both externally and internally when i needed help.
Drove in on motorcyle for the first time to visit Malaysia via 2nd link
Offered to loan me money to study when i was still a struggling student
Loaned me money to help out a friend who subsequently did not return him the money (i paid)
Sent me back home after work from Tampines all the way to Yishun
Bro WUQI u the the MAN!!! Salute to u! I first time see a person who will go all out to help others! Really hard to find. Not to make use of u of course, but nowadays where can we find anyone like u??
Some ppl I see r all self centred and only cares for themselves that's why sg really no more love and compassion for one another. I mean some ppl. even the garment also heartless to their fellow true breed Sgans, my family is the best example.....
My mother birthday tml but only my 2 sisters want to celebrate for her, I was wondering where is their husband? What r they doing? Why they not coming? As ask by crystal... 3 brothers in law got car, why can't use 1 to fetch them? At least I can drive to fetch them and my family. I tried to hint my sisters that I can't get hold of my friend as he was in MY as I used to borrow his car only recently as I am buying a property in MY and on top of that I am paying him $50 for few hours like 4 to 5 hours and a confirmed of full tank although he didn't tell me to do that, I very automatic and pay him $50 at the first time of using his car till now no matter it's 4 or 5 hours .
Why someone who is not related to me but can help me whereas my family members treat their cars like baby?? Not that I want to force them to loan me, it should be automatic for them to offer since we r relate right?
I feel sad but have to tell them the arrangement have to be called off. It's all the time and situation which is at fault! I should have bought a property long ago in MY and not wasting my time in SG.. I have A new house in Phil which is brand new which I haven't stay, it's too time consuming to fly to and fro.. I regret buying there.
Life is so unpredictable, Actually got a car, bought only $30k OPC brand new still got 6 years COE, if I know I can buy property in MY I would even sell... End up renting to a Malay guy who said he will get loan to pay off after few months but in the end kana play out! Modified so much then kana TP spot check, went inspection and exhaust have to change full set, kana fined, bank loan delayed payment, car kana talek next day pay loan to get back car, then affected credit records, apply loan after selling house , all kana rejected!! Damn that fellow!!! Now my kids stopped schooling, waiting to move to JB and dun know about the future! Sometimes life really SUCKS! My wife says I getting more grey hair and I can't believe myself!
Ppl ask me r u happy u born in Singapore?? I told them NO!! I hate Singapore!! I only like the SG dollars only.
The garment force us to go army, after that we r forgotten in no time, COE only can be found here! Thanks to those filthy rich who has many cars at home and houses getting expensive thanks to those foreigners coming to buy more and more! Which makes the price go higher and higher..
I tell u all Singapore is no longer our country! Only the rich can survive! The garment only interested in those foreigners and never give a damn to those really in need. All they know is to suck all our hard earn money and make us work like a dog! Like a bird in the cage!! Like a dog, he wants us to sit, we have to sit... Totally no freedom! Look at those opposition leaders u will know, how pap can make one life really ruin and broken!!
Really heartless!! I rather stay in other country which not belong to me and die there rather dying here! They will dig all those who already buried and RIP and they will build more high rise to satisfy their monopoly and good name sake!
Lastly I would say to all, bro WUQI is a true bro all of u can follow ! Helpful and no matter u r new or old timers him will give information or help in no time and without anything to ask back from u! Hard to find in once called our homeland which now doesn't belong to us true blue local bred Singaporeans!!!!