I hope you not mentioning me... hehe. i just find singaporeans more selfish than some ppl in malaysia, maybe because cars in singapore very ex and they treat their car like wife or baby..
hope ppl here dun get retrench or out of job and end up broke and have to go tru difficulities and end up have to borrow this and that but in the end kana criticized and screwed!!
We came into this world empty handed and we leave this world empty handed also, so if anyone desperately needed help hope many of you can help if not having a forum and just TCSS also no point if one cannot help some bros who really need a helping help!
You dun call a bro as BRO if u only use it as calling someone.
JUST MY 2 CENTS..
Confirm plus chop she wasn't. I have no issues loaning to friends (and i know most with the exception of one would have done the same for me)
I am 100% true Singapore but as a friend always said, i am a "fei dian xing xin jia bo ren", not sure if its really a compliment or not.
A short list of somethings i have done before:
Bought gaming consoles off friends even when i knew they were outdated, they were too proud to borrow but were clearly in need of money
Spent money for secondary school classmates for a chalet in East Coast, paid up most and in the end one friend even kept my wallet and lied that he didn't see it. (but in the end returned to me after several calls and threats to call the police)
Joined in a fight and got beaten up together with my sec 1 friend, fought together, got beaten up hehe.
Used my dads car to evacuate one from school who was being threatened by gangs, almost got beaten up.
Went to rescue someone who was caught for trespassing, he ran off instead and told my parents i trespassed, got beaten up.
Loaned friend money and passed him all the canned food etc when i was in sec school days. Shared with him my pocket money.
Sent a friend (Malaysian) from work regularly back to Nanyang Poly as his car was parked there. (Of course, after i changed department, this person doesn't even say hi when i walk pass him in the office)
Bought house from a friend when he was in need.
Covered for friends everytime they are in trouble
Gave lodging to a friend who was in the process of family issues
Brought friends to more than 10 places to view houses.
Middle of a stormy evening - Repair car tire for a friend and pumped it with air
Helped out a friend in SG who had car issues and drove in from Johore.
Found jobs for friends whenever they need help.
Loaned car to neighbour who went to KL and got ticket - He insisted on paying
Loaned another car to wife friend who hit against several curb
Loaned another car to a friend whenever he is in town
Loaned car to friend when his car was at the mechanic
Loaned flat to friend in SG when he was down for 1 week
Drove a friend to KL to settle somethings
Drove a friend to Muar to settle something
Drove a friend to clear up another friends condo in Malacca
Drove them in from SG to Gelang Patah jetty for them to go fishing
Offered to loan a terrace to a friend for the weekend (but in the end he didn't come)
Drove them from office to Pasir Ris to search for a dog (to buy)
Drove them from office to site and back to their individual homes all over Singapore in wee hours of the night
Drove them to Jalan Kayu from office for lunch and sent one back home when he wasn't well
Refused company CEO who, after a speech, was asking to sit next to Wuqi's but Wuqi
said Sorry but cannot as my friend is coming back. -This was a CEO Wuqi 1000% respect
and likes but he promised his friend he will hold the seat. Of course, this same friend (who asks
for a house for the weekend but didn't turn up) said to Wuqi, i can stay what, you didn't
have to hold for me.
Went ahead and paid up for them first, the deposit when buying property.
Borrowed my car to hunt for his second squeeze (he succeeded by the way)
Loaned my member cards, access cards on numerous occasions (only to those i really trust though)
Friends has also:
Looked after me when i was in hospital.
Bought gifts and cheered me up when i was immobile
Loaned me money and got me games cheaply when i was too poor to afford.
Bought houses and factories under my suggestion without EVER seeing the development or even knowing who the developer is
Loaned me his entire house when mine was undergoing renovation
Sent me to Malacca and loaned me his house in Malacca
Loaned me a condo when i was holidaying in Malacca
Went ahead and paid up for me first, the deposit when buying property.
Turned up by faith to wait for me at Gelang Patah, Bukit Indah bus top (via CW3)
Tried to find jobs for me, both externally and internally when i needed help.
Drove in on motorcyle for the first time to visit Malaysia via 2nd link
Offered to loan me money to study when i was still a struggling student
Loaned me money to help out a friend who subsequently did not return him the money (i paid)
Sent me back home after work from Tampines all the way to Yishun