Bro, it is definitely normal to feel that way. It's a big move, and there will be lots of considerations, the biggest challenge will always be the physiological/emotional concerns. Financially, i think it should be of no major concern for most of us, like u have already analyzed it yourself.*
My journey of decision-making was a roller coaster ride too. When I started in this forum (u can check back my first post), I chose nusa idaman but I was reluctantly making the purchase because of the naysayers around me, especially the resistance from my mum. Then I missed the boat, as most of the end lots that were above $500k were gone. Then I rethink and refocus on the reasons why they objected. As many typical Singaporeans, many concerns were absolutely unnecessary and inaccurate (bro wuqi always make a point on this and laugh it off when the perspective these naysayers have is so different from reality). I don't think I need to say more on this. So I focused back to my objectives, which were 1) to have a place i truly can called home and have quality life 2) to stretch my dollar longer 3)to build my future. So, as much as I respect my parents, I sort off ignore their moans as most of their concerns were no longer valid or as drastic as they thought. What we are talking here is "belief". I believe by making this move, I can slowly convince them one day. Everyone gets old, and I'm glad that they are still relatively healthy. But sooner or later, medical and the cost will be a concern, and I believe at that stage, I can work them around and I can help them overcome their fear by making JB their priority for medical services. Many still don't see the big potential of iskandar, and nobody said that it is for certain that iskandar will develop to its full potential/promise. So it depends on how confident u r towards this mega project. And I also told myself, even if everything will not be as rosy as we imagine now, am I happy and satisfied with the existing infrastructure, services etc, and my answer was YES!
I don't know what your age is, but I think my situation might be much simpler than yours because I have no kids and I have no big commitments in sg. I love my parents, and it's unfortunately that I haven't managed to break their barriers. But I have confidence that one day, they will move in and stay with me. I believe what I'm doing is right for me, and my parents, as well as my future family
So, I think u shall identify what your obstacles are. If its because of safety, it's valid but things have improved so much so I wouldn't say this is deal breaker. If its education, I can't advise because I never factored this into consideration. If its money, and worry that you are literally throwing money away because everyone says that buying in JB is stupid and dumb, then I let bro wuqi lecture u on this. He is the living proof of everything we do now. If its travel/transport, then u need to sort out. If its family and kids, rent a place and see if things work out, before u commit. U can't just ignore their feelings on this.*
Think logically, rationally and overcome the barriers. I also lost my focus once but making a rushed decision for ST. Luckily the fellow friends here helped me got back on track. Perhaps u can share your concerns here and let the bros and sis help u out to analyze.
Don't know what I have not covered or if I make u more confused haha
I can't write fantastic article and I hope the points are presented clearly to u bah ...
Btw, Sutera is a nice place and I always frequent there. But if u need to commute daily, please think twice and assess the traffic situation. It could be quite bad at the bestari area at certain peak hours.
Good luck to you as hope to see u around!
