I was rejected. It's over :(

[bigcockman]

That just shows you’re not truly interested in her. It’s ok then.

I am interested in her. But she already said No. I don't think I should disturb her any longer. Maybe she's already attached or married. I don't know.

All I know is she said No to me. So I should respect her decision even though I still have a soft spot for her and want to get to know her.

 

[Datingafter35]

That just shows you’re not truly interested in her. It’s ok then.

I was told by two gurus. Don't chase. Attract if she is not showing any interest. She is not playing hard to get. She just isn't.

If you think your life is going to collapse without her. Try fucking a chicken. Then fuck another chicken. You'll realise. An empty nuts later most women ain't that worth it on first glance unless she has a great personality.

 

[Datingafter35]

I don't think I should try again. The feeling of the whole trainload of commuters secretly laughing at me is very embarrassing.

I also don't know why I did that this morning. Now I think back, I don't know whether to laugh or cry at myself.

Congrats you just did what 99% of people would not do. Speaking in front of strangers.

 

[bigcockman]

Congrats you just did what 99% of people would not do. Speaking in front of strangers.

I don't know why I do it. It just happened. Maybe because today is the first time I stood directly in front of her in the MRT.

So maybe in the spur of the moment, I just decided to say Hi and speak to her. I did not plan this attempt at all.

 

[Charlie99]

I spotted the beautiful MRT girl just now again on the way to work.

I was standing in front of her MRT seat.

As encouraged by senior Sammyboyers like Dr @nayr69sg , I mustered my courage. I moved forward closer to her, introduced myself, and asked her if I could buy her coffee and breakfast.

She took a glance at me, said Hi and declined instantly.

It was so embarrassing. I could see other commuters grinning. They are probably laughing silently at my stupidity.

I couldn't handle the situation and quickly alighted a station before my office MRT station. Then I took the next train.

I think I am not handsome enough for her.

Rejected and now disconsolate.

:(

Please try again.
The next time, please consider handing your business card, with your cell phone number, to her, and ask her to give you a call.

 

[bigcockman]

Please try again.
The next time, please consider handing your business card, with your cell phone number, to her, and ask her to give you a call.

I am only a lowly manager title. Seriously, I don't want to embarrass myself by giving her my business card.

 

[Charlie99]

I am only a lowly manager title. Seriously, I don't want to embarrass myself by giving her my business card.

Manager or not, it is only a job title and salary.
You have to try again.
Keep trying on other targets.
Promotion at work, and pursuing desirable ladies are equally important, unless you are gay.

 

[a_korusawa]

I am interested in her. But she already said No. I don't think I should disturb her any longer. Maybe she's already attached or married. I don't know.

All I know is she said No to me. So I should respect her decision even though I still have a soft spot for her and want to get to know her.

have fun & good luck!

 

[bigcockman]

Manager or not, it is only a job title and salary.
You have to try again.
Keep trying on other targets.
Promotion at work, and pursuing desirable ladies are equally important, unless you are gay.

For me now, I think career should come first.

When I am promoted to Director level, then at least the girl that I am interested in will have more confidence in me.

 

[Charlie99]

"Failures are stepping stones to success."
In June 1990, at a Ukrainian dance hall, I asked several girls to dance, but all of them turned me down (whatever the reason, I am tired, Not now, I am with my friends, . .)
Later, a tall blonde from a table behind me, came to ask me to dance. She said that she saw me asked several girls to dance.
At the end of the evening, I asked her whether or not she will be there the next evening. I asked her for the phone number.

 

[Charlie99]

For me now, I think career should come first.

When I am promoted to Director level, then at least the girl that I am interested in will have more confidence in me.

That may mean either she is prudent or materialistic.
How old are you?

 

[bigcockman]

That may mean either she is prudent or materialistic.
How old are you?

I am in my 30s. I think all girls want to have a partner that they are confident in.

There may be exceptions, but If I put myself in an educated, pleasant and beautiful girl's shoes, I would also want someone I am certain enough that he wouldn't bring me hardship. So I don't blame her at all.

 

[Charlie99]

I am in my 30s. I think all girls want to have a partner that they are confident in.

There may be exceptions, but If I put myself in an educated, pleasant and beautiful girl's shoes, I would also want someone I am certain enough that he wouldn't bring me hardship. So I don't blame her at all.

It is common sense, that no individual would wish to marry a partner who is not reasonably intelligent, motivated, ambitious, not abusive, above average looks, not burdened with bad genes, body odor, etc.
Therefore, a man in his 30's if not hear 40, reasonably good looking, without bad habits, making an average income, motivated to set up a family and home, should be desirable.
Above all else, self confidence, motivation, respect, and treat others as how he wants to be treated, without genetic inherited diseases, are very important.
How you carry yourself is also vital.

 

[Charlie99]

I would also suggest that you ask Sam Leong to change your username or nickname
It may also reflect you, and how you portray yourself
Consider one that is unique, and not boastful or self deprecating.
For example: SG fit lion, Young Manager, AbleAndReasonable

 

[bigcockman]

I would also suggest that you ask Sam Leong to change your username or nickname
It may also reflect you, and how you portray yourself
Consider one that is unique, and not boastful or self deprecating.
For example: SG fit lion, Young Manager, AbleAndReasonable

It's fine with me. When I read Dr @nayr69sg suggestion to change my user name, the first thing that came to my mind was to change to bigcockupman.

I was thinking it aptly describes my life and career right now. Maybe because ever since my dad left, I no longer have someone to speak to and discuss about life, career and everything.

 

[Charlie99]

May I suggest that you go to Facebook, and subscribe to Think Positive Power, Life is a Dance, Positive Quotes or Vibes, etc.
It may help you.

 

[nayr69sg]

It's fine with me. When I read Dr @nayr69sg suggestion to change my user name, the first thing that came to my mind was to change to bigcockupman.

I was thinking it aptly describes my life and career right now. Maybe because ever since my dad left, I no longer have someone to speak to and discuss about life, career and everything.

You never mention your mother. Is she still with you?

 

[bigcockman]

You never mention your mother. Is she still with you?

She is still around. My younger brother lives with her in her landed home.

I did talk about my mother and younger brother. Maybe you did not read my posts then. There was a thread I talk about some strange happenings in her home. But now it seems that those supposed spirit or spirits which had disturbed them are no longer around in her house.

 

[nayr69sg]

She is still around. My younger brother lives with her in her landed home.

I did talk about my mother and younger brother. Maybe you did not read my posts then. There was a thread I talk about some strange happenings in her home. But now it seems that those supposed spirit or spirits which had disturbed them are no longer around in her house.

Talk to your mother and brother then?

You come from rich family. Maybe look into investing your inheritance in stocks.

Forget about work and promotions. Dealing with other people and depending on other people is a pain in life.

 

[bigcockman]

Talk to your mother and brother then?

You come from rich family. Maybe look into investing your inheritance in stocks.

Forget about work and promotions. Dealing with other people and depending on other people is a pain in life.

I am closer to my dad since young. So I seldom talk to my mother when I encounter problems.

Sometimes, I wish my father will appear in my dream so that we can go cycling and swimming together where we talk about everything like those days when he was still around.