Moral of story is don't get involved in office romance. Look for your mate outside of your work places. Office is where you work. Find your romance outside of your work areas. Good luck.[Confession : I have two accounts here. I haven't been here for a while, so I couldn't remember the first account password. I have resorted to use this sort of new and unapproved account, which seems to work with the password in my recollection]
I am sort of troubled.
It's been a while I have dated. Maybe I am out of touch(?) or too shy/sensitive(?), or maybe, I am just wary of men(?)
I like this guy. He's my colleague. A few years younger than me but he's always there when I need advice/assistance in my work.
And so we finally dated last night. After dinner at East Coast Park hawker centre, we walked to a vacant breakwater and chatted about life, work, family, friends, etc.
I guessed sitting in close proximity to each other probably made us sort of “excited”. And so we kissed. I liked it and I think he probably wanted it. It was sort of very passionate kiss, which I haven't had for a very long long time.
He then touched and felt for my breast in the midst of our passionate kiss. He didn't ask me if he could and probably thought I was fine with his slick "manoeuvre".
It wasn't that I wasn't enjoying his gentle but firm caress of my breasts. It was actually enjoyable since I last had them caressed by my ex.
However, I suddenly felt maybe(?) we are proceeding a bit too fast on our first date. So I gently moved his hand away to my waist where I was comfortable being touched and held.
At that moment, he sort of ended our passionate kiss and it was rather awkward for both of us.
I wanted to tell him I wasn't rejecting him. However I didn't want to get into a discussion that might make this relationship a non starter.
Today, he's sort of avoiding me in the office. I asked him for lunch and he said he needed to rush out some important stuff for his line manager.
Is this relationship over as a consequence of my sort of refusal to allow him to caress my breasts?
Why men can't handle a little "setback"?
Or maybe, he's just not mature enough for me(?)
Any thoughts?
Most chinese indulge in office bonks. No romance. Its like a reflex reaction.maybe dna. Who knows!Moral of story is don't get involved in office romance. Look for your mate outside of your work places. Office is where you work. Find your romance outside of your work areas. Good luck.
Really? How do you know?Most chinese indulge in office bonks. No romance. Its like a reflex reaction.maybe dna. Who knows!
Its a 5000 year old tradition.Really? How do you know?
Why use edmw refugee.. That is a cursed place full of cowards, low intelligent and slefish faggorts worse than TanAhTiuI am sorry. I should have mentioned my other account in my post #1.
My other account is @edmwrefugee.
Just did a search and I recall stating that in my long ago post. Sorry.
https://www.sammyboy.com/threads/i-am-screaming-out-loud-in-my-heart.323938/#post-3633995
Bang, Indon also has 12000yr old cultural site deIts a 5000 year old tradition.
Normally a MAT will just fuck his daughter or mother without even asking. They know it will be futile to resist.Hear ye, hear ye. The incestuous mudd hath spoken.
Eh..Hear ye, hear ye. The incestuous mudd hath spoken.
Tell him and then tell us what happened next[Confession : I have two accounts here. I haven't been here for a while, so I couldn't remember the first account password. I have resorted to use this sort of new and unapproved account, which seems to work with the password in my recollection]
I am sort of troubled.
It's been a while I have dated. Maybe I am out of touch(?) or too shy/sensitive(?), or maybe, I am just wary of men(?)
I like this guy. He's my colleague. A few years younger than me but he's always there when I need advice/assistance in my work.
And so we finally dated last night. After dinner at East Coast Park hawker centre, we walked to a vacant breakwater and chatted about life, work, family, friends, etc.
I guessed sitting in close proximity to each other probably made us sort of “excited”. And so we kissed. I liked it and I think he probably wanted it. It was sort of very passionate kiss, which I haven't had for a very long long time.
He then touched and felt for my breast in the midst of our passionate kiss. He didn't ask me if he could and probably thought I was fine with his slick "manoeuvre".
It wasn't that I wasn't enjoying his gentle but firm caress of my breasts. It was actually enjoyable since I last had them caressed by my ex.
However, I suddenly felt maybe(?) we are proceeding a bit too fast on our first date. So I gently moved his hand away to my waist where I was comfortable being touched and held.
At that moment, he sort of ended our passionate kiss and it was rather awkward for both of us.
I wanted to tell him I wasn't rejecting him. However I didn't want to get into a discussion that might make this relationship a non starter.
Today, he's sort of avoiding me in the office. I asked him for lunch and he said he needed to rush out some important stuff for his line manager.
Is this relationship over as a consequence of my sort of refusal to allow him to caress my breasts?
Why men can't handle a little "setback"?
Or maybe, he's just not mature enough for me(?)
Any thoughts?
No need to apologize. Perhaps you should ask the sisters here for advice. We guys here are simply too horny to give you a satisfactory reply.I am sorry. I should have mentioned my other account in my post #1.
My other account is @edmwrefugee.
Just did a search and I recall stating that in my long ago post. Sorry.
https://www.sammyboy.com/threads/i-am-screaming-out-loud-in-my-heart.323938/#post-3633995
Eh... pui kia mai gong lanjiao weiWhy use edmw refugee.. That is a cursed place full of cowards, low intelligent and slefish faggorts worse than TanAhTiu
We need to understand the horny aide of the love equation as wellNo need to apologize. Perhaps you should ask the sisters here for advice. We guys here are simply too horny to give you a satisfactory reply.
Most chinese indulge in office bonks. No romance. Its like a reflex reaction.maybe dna. Who knows!