Parents will be parents.. they volunteer to sponsor to precisely do that: get you to avoid being in debt.
One gracious way is to accept, but pay back in full, money and filial piety-wise. Above all, spend less money and spend prudently.
I believe once you are graduated and start to work...you should be responsible for all your expenses.
The money should reserved for their retirement.
Young couples should spend within their limit and not overstretch their loans.
Without this kind of responsibility, they will run into debts sooner or later.
and
when time comes, they ask parents to bail them out.
:(:(
me used me own $$
dont want to involve any siblings or parents..be it my side or her side...
almost $25k finished...well spent...living happily...
sometimes also feel sad at
)
ya bro..use own $$ we feel it...
broke halfway also we feel it...
no owe there no owe here...
even tho me a typical sinkie
other sinkie when theirs failed ,be it small or big amount
spent on weddings :p (especially to those just built only 3-4 years
yup...they are back to singles...
and still summiting maintenance $$ to their ex....
Wow, I thought I was the only man in Singapore who did not gave my wife a "HOTEL STYLE/CHURCH STYLE" wedding. I was really poor then and everything was made simple. But she never did complain all these while. I was lucky that she endured the hard times together with me. We are much better off now. Both of us hold good jobs now, no debts, no children.
