Hdb is much better than 99yr condo. Most 99 condo now are built next to HDB, they. just change to fancy name like, de'condo la east on de' Riverfront......something french or italian
that’s why you’re depressed. your sis gives up on canada and returns to sg, wasting your generosity, hospitality, and persuasion to convince her of a better life for her and her family.
sinkie women are conditioned to live in their “m” comfort zones: momma, maids, mrt, malls, makan, manicure, massage, monotony, meaningless media. once they are out there in a vast land of opportunities, wilderness and unknowns, the lack of survival instincts can be a shock. it’s like letting loose a domesticated pet to the feral environment to fend for itself. it will keep coming home scratching the door.Yeah all wasted. Money time and effort.
Before they came I told them just get any entry level job. So that you are not living off savings. I will help provide housing. Husband lucky got white collar job in his field before coming. But sister kept saying she need to find job she wants and likes. Otherwise what is the point of migrating?
Ask them to buy a good reliable cheaper car first. They say why? I said keep costs low first. When you both find jobs and are doing well then buy nicer car. They say if you can live the dream why not live the dream? Why not go for your dream car?
When I talk about "got job take first got money take first" they tell me about Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Self actualization. They cannot see themselves doing entry level jobs. And then when finally got some job also don't like. Say the work is tough a lot of work pay is low after taxes even lower. Food is lousy. Weather is cold. All complaints. Nothing good.
Sigh. Different generation. Different thinking.
I have learned my lesson. Many Singaporeans are not suited to migrating. So no point helping. Even if they are family.
sinkie women are conditioned to live in their “m” comfort zones: momma, maids, mrt, malls, makan, manicure, massage, monotony, meaningless media. once they are out there in a vast land of opportunities, wilderness and unknowns, the lack of survival instincts can be a shock. it’s like letting loose a domesticated pet to the feral environment to fend for itself. it will keep coming home scratching the door.
oh yeah, forgot about your wife. your wife is a trailblazer, faithful follower, great cook, realist, rough and tough lady all rolled into one.Not all sinkie women. But it wasnt just my sister. Her husband also same.
I think it is that generation Z and millennials thing.
oh yeah, forgot about your wife. your wife is a trailblazer, faithful follower, great cook, realist, rough and tough lady all rolled into one.
sounds like the wife of my sinkie acquaintance. they live and work in sillycon valley. he kpkb about pap but misses sg for the “comfortable” urban life full of makan and conveniences. so his wife brings sg home to him. bakes bread 1st thing at dawn, makes kaya from scratch, brew kopi, boil eggs before he wakes up for work. when he’s ready for breakfast, kopi, kaya toast, soft boiled eggs are ready at the table. her meals are so authentic and good that she can open her own kopitiam and compete with ya-kun or toast(ed) box. she prepares everything from scratch. her kaya and sambal sauce are better than mine. i’m very picky about those two, and i do a good job on my own with the two, but i crave for her kaya and sambal. she has the perfect touch with makan. i’m so jealous.Yeah my wife is the true real wonder woman. Husband depressed and useless she also carry the fort.
sounds like the wife of my sinkie acquaintance. they live and work in sillycon valley. he kpkb about pap but misses sg for the “comfortable” urban life full of makan and conveniences. so his wife brings sg home to him. bakes bread 1st thing at dawn, makes kaya from scratch, brew kopi, boil eggs before he wakes up for work. when he’s ready for breakfast, kopi, kaya toast, soft boiled eggs are ready at the table. her meals are so authentic and good that she can open her own kopitiam and compete with ya-kun or toast(ed) box. she prepares everything from scratch. her kaya and sambal sauce are better than mine. i’m very picky about those two, and i do a good job on my own with the two, but i crave for her kaya and sambal. she has the perfect touch with makan. i’m so jealous.
Sir, u are a Fucking MoronHdb is much better than 99yr condo. Most 99 condo now are built next to HDB, they. just change to fancy name like, de'condo la east on de' Riverfront......something french or italian
yalor. sg is highly urbanized, convenient, and fun for both sexes, including gays, lesbians and other shades of grey in the lgbtq community. it's the perfect place for the phavorite pastime of plenty of perverts - from upskirt to downblouse, from uptoilet to downshower, from staircase sex to carpark coitus, sexual relief hub.I dont crave SG food. Wife just wanted to make them.
Actually I simple person. Just want to be at peace. I am not a foodie. I also am not into cars. I also don't play computer games.
All those years back I said I was migrating not for myself but for the kids. Hope they have a more enjoyable life with more experiences. I think we are giving them the opportunities.
Not just about studying and tuition and getting good marks in exam.
But SG lifestyle is what it is. Many many Singaporeans do enjoy it very much.
why don't u just court her and marry her. U sound like u are in lovesounds like the wife of my sinkie acquaintance. they live and work in sillycon valley. he kpkb about pap but misses sg for the “comfortable” urban life full of makan and conveniences. so his wife brings sg home to him. bakes bread 1st thing at dawn, makes kaya from scratch, brew kopi, boil eggs before he wakes up for work. when he’s ready for breakfast, kopi, kaya toast, soft boiled eggs are ready at the table. her meals are so authentic and good that she can open her own kopitiam and compete with ya-kun or toast(ed) box. she prepares everything from scratch. her kaya and sambal sauce are better than mine. i’m very picky about those two, and i do a good job on my own with the two, but i crave for her kaya and sambal. she has the perfect touch with makan. i’m so jealous.
she's chio too, but not young anymore. there's a red line between someone's wife and a friend's or acquaintance's wife. i just admire some sinkie women. not many but they are sextremely resourceful, intelligent, and kind. if only sg parleement has such women.why don't u just court her and marry her. U sound like u are in love
Her husband sounds like a typical sinkie loser. Make the wife get up every morning to make sinkie breakfast for him. LOL. Has he not heard of McDonald's bfast? She will be better off with u lah. Or else, introduce her to the joys of a AMDK so she can leave the loser husbandshe's chio too, but not young anymore. there's a red line between someone's wife and a friend's or acquaintance's wife. i just admire some sinkie women. not many but they are sextremely resourceful, intelligent, and kind. if only sg parleement has such women.
Yeah all wasted. Money time and effort.
Before they came I told them just get any entry level job. So that you are not living off savings. I will help provide housing. Husband lucky got white collar job in his field before coming. But sister kept saying she need to find job she wants and likes. Otherwise what is the point of migrating?
Ask them to buy a good reliable cheaper car first. They say why? I said keep costs low first. When you both find jobs and are doing well then buy nicer car. They say if you can live the dream why not live the dream? Why not go for your dream car?
When I talk about "got job take first got money take first" they tell me about Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Self actualization. They cannot see themselves doing entry level jobs. And then when finally got some job also don't like. Say the work is tough a lot of work pay is low after taxes even lower. Food is lousy. Weather is cold. All complaints. Nothing good.
Sigh. Different generation. Different thinking.
I have learned my lesson. Many Singaporeans are not suited to migrating. So no point helping. Even if they are family.
From my observation, those Sinkies presently between 25 and 45 years old cannot take hardships. Most would just want easy money only. Ironically, these years are the most productive years to earn the most for themselves, but sadly they just squandered their years away like that.Not all sinkie women. But it wasnt just my sister. Her husband also same.
I think it is that generation Z and millennials thing.
Where u made the mistake was in not understanding the sinkie kiasu mentality. most likely u still have it. before doing anything, U should have told your sister and her husband to 1) sell their flats and properties in singapore before they come over 2) renounce their sinkie shitizenship as soon as they can get a canadian one. that way it forces them to burn all their bridges in singapore, so they cannot run back and are forced to make it in canada. If they not willing to do that, don't bother .
I am not in that age group.From my observation, those Sinkies presently between 25 and 45 years old cannot take hardships. Most would just want easy money only. Ironically, these years are the most productive years to earn the most for themselves, but sadly they just squandered their years away like that.
Sure or not? If I can get resident status in Canada, I will surely treasure it. My nephew and his family of 5 are all in Canada since some 6 years ago and they seem to be doing well there.I am also going to move back to SG.
Sg is the best.
Sure or not? If I can get resident status in Canada, I will surely treasure it. My nephew and his family of 5 are all in Canada since some 6 years ago and they seem to be doing well there.