bro indig10, I admire your resolve to encourage others. I will share something I discovered while planning my move. It served me well and looking at other immigrants who have succeeded I think this applies to everyone.
Migrating is like planning to go out on a journey in the open ocean.
What do you do? How do you prepare?
Do you try to learn how to swim very well? In swimming pools? Learn all kinds of different types of strokes? Or swim one stroke so well you could be an Olympic level swimmer? World class?
Or do you contend that swimming in the open ocean is not the same as swimming in pools?
What is a definitely useful thing to have for such a journey? Flotation devices? A rubber dinghy? A small sailboat? A yacht? An oil tanker? The bigger it is the better isn't it?
So before you go for that journey, try to get as big a flotation device as possible because it will help keep you afloat longer. Meantime do try to learn to swim but don't bank too much on that as well.
What you are hoping for is to stay afloat long enough to join a crew of sailors willing to take you on board. After that, it's just climbing up the ranks among the crew.
Migration is not for everyone. It is not necessarily going to be better. But it will definitely be different. Think hard what price you are willing to pay and what you are not. That way you will know your limits. If you swim far enough and realize you are getting nowhere, turn back and swim to shore. You certainly don't want to drown. But whatever does not kill you only makes you stronger. That's how we all learn to be stronger people. By pushing ourselves.
Life is a journey, not a destination, may you find joy and peace on your journey through life.
Cheers everyone!
I agree 101% with the above, even though it is clear nayr69sg and I have different views about Canada.
I guess the question is: how far are you willing to sacrifice and how much time and money and effort are you willing to put in to make the plan work.
I think the answer to that question is different for everyone.
Looking at nayr69sg's posts, it is clear that he was very determined and was willing to go the extra mile to make his plan work. So, my hats off to him. I have heard many times from people I know in Canada that for regulated professions like doctors and lawyers and some engineers, the accreditation and licensing process there is ultra difficult for foreigners to the point of almost being undoable. So, for him to be able to pull it off (actually, I think he said he is still in the process of getting fully licensed, even after some years there, so that should tell you something about how hard it is) especially with a family, it really says lots about his determination. My hats off to him man. It is never easy, and for people in his profession, it is even tougher by miles and miles and miles.
But for other people and myself, I can say that we likely do not have the level of determination it takes.
So, question is how far is one willing to go to make a plan work.
And a more relevant follow up question is: if it takes too much effort and energy and costs too much to make one particular plan work, then what other plans should one look at? Are there other alternative plans that have better reward-versus-risk ratio?
Look at it another way, I guess one can say that if one throws enough money, effort and determination at a problem/project, the problem will ultimately be solved and the project will ultimately be successful. But that is begging the question, because a much more relevant question to ask is "IS IT WISE TO THROW SO MUCH EFFORT INTO THIS PARTICULAR PROJECT? ARE THERE OTHER ALTERNATIVE PROJECTS THAT OFFER A BETTER RETURN WITHOUT REQUIRING AS MUCH INVESTMENT AND EFFORT?"
My personal answer to the follow up question is that the reward-risk ratio for Canada is way way way way way way way way off. One should not look at just Canada. There are better options that do not require as much effort and time to pull off successfully.
US is a much better option.