First, you have not proven you are a virgin.
Second, even if you are a virgin, you cannot be a pure virgin because you had let your ex husband touch here and there before, searching for your vagina.
Last but not least, there's also a possibility that you have let other men touch you here and there before given your propensity to tell lies. (Eg. Men whistling at you for no good reason, strange knockings on your windows and ceiling, etc etc).