I'm divorced without kids.
Oh I see. Haiz. Why so many people get married only to divorce? I find it a sad trend.
On one hand, we have a widow who kills herself after her hubby dies. One the other, we have people so ready to divorce after taking their marriage vows.
I will feel intimidated by this kind of career woman. When I meet women like her, I will feel so small and deep sense of insecurity will hit me. WHY? I am still trying to figure out.
Contradictorily, This is the kind of woman that I yearn for...She's quite a babe!
Krafty, how powerful is your Chinese ?
What you're experiencing is very common, especially amongst the female population. In Chinese, it's the discrepancy between 素養 and 理想.
Just as many women will not hesitate to brag about their 理想. They brag because they mistake 理想 for 素養. They identify their ego with their 理想, but when push comes to shove, 素養 will take over and 素養 will make the choice. This explains why many women often fall for bad guys when on the other hand they often talk about the kind of good guys they crave.
Krafty, how powerful is your Chinese ?
What you're experiencing is very common, especially amongst the female population. In Chinese, it's the discrepancy between 素養 and 理想.
Just as many women will not hesitate to brag about their 理想. They brag because they mistake 理想 for 素養. They identify their ego with their 理想, but when push comes to shove, 素養 will take over and 素養 will make the choice. This explains why many women often fall for bad guys when on the other hand they often talk about the kind of good guys they crave.
No wonder! What attracts me in a woman is the "yaujia"ness, as woman aged, ard 30s to early 40s, they develop a kind of sexual appeal that attract me a lot. I admit i am chee hong and like to look at woman and appreciate the facial and body shape. Fair and white skin women attracts me the most.:p
If you notice those women working in HR or banks,they have this sharp intuition and bitchy,bitchy kind of appeal. These are the kind of women I will appreciate.
I'm impressed.
:o
見笑了. 原文是這麼說:
郎才女貌是一種「理想」,而配對成功多半是靠「素養」.你也許經常高談闊論自己的理想,希望別人因為聽到你的理想而對你的素養做出等量齊觀的評估.但真正面對抉擇的時候,你的素養往往會背叛你的理想讓你不得不無地自容.就算你的素養和你的理想落差太大,那又怎樣呢?落差太大表示你正在過一個很不誠實的人生.
Krafty, how powerful is your Chinese ?
What you're experiencing is very common, especially amongst the female population. In Chinese, it's the discrepancy between 素養 and 理想.
Just as many women will not hesitate to brag about their 理想. They brag because they mistake 理想 for 素養. They identify their ego with their 理想, but when push comes to shove, 素養 will take over and 素養 will make the choice. This explains why many women often fall for bad guys when on the other hand they often talk about the kind of good guys they crave.
Isn't that what happens to most guys too? :p
Who wants to marry a good girl who can cook and take good care of kids? Men just like the hot, sexy and easily available types.
Most men just want a trophy wife who is good looking and can them shine in front of friends and relatives.
What is "yaujia-ness"? And why do men like women who are fair? Isn't tanned more beautiful?
If you notice those women working in HR or banks,they have this sharp intuition and bitchy,bitchy kind of appeal. These are the kind of women I will appreciate.
Wish you could take this one away from me :(
And why do men like women who are fair? Isn't tanned more beautiful?