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Serious Swimming also considered NS!! Schooling mommy

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You don’t want to mess with the most important woman in Joseph Schooling’s life.
The Singapore swim star’s mother, May, is the self-professed “bad cop” and the stricter parent to Joseph compared to her husband Colin.
“If he says a foul word, I’ll slap him,” the outspoken lady said, dead serious.
May, who is in her 50s, put her tough, no-nonsense approach to good effect when she and Colin famously negotiated for their son’s long-term deferment from National Service (NS) in October this year.
It was a groundbreaking move that saw Joseph, currently studying and training at Bolles high school in the US, become the only Singaporean athlete to ever be permitted up to three years of undisturbed training.
The target for the 18-year-old is a historic Olympic medal for the country come 2016 in Brazil. With five individual national records and hugely-impressive butterfly timings that rank amongst the top in the world, Joseph is on track for greater heights – barring the obstacle that is NS, said May.
“So far, all our prominent swimmers have been girls,” argued the finance director at a trading company founded by herself and Colin. “Pat Chan, Junie Sng, Joscelin Yeo… where are the boys?”
Loyalty to country
Determined to not have their son’s progress possibly derailed by NS, the Schoolings opened talks in 2010 with the then-Ministry of Community Development, Youth and Sports as well as the Singapore National Olympic Council.
“They asked if he can serve six months (three months of basic and vocational training each) then go back to the States to train,” May revealed to Yahoo Singapore.

That would still affect his performance, according to her.
“I told them very clearly: I’m trying to teach my son to be loyal to this country,” said May. “But why should he be loyal to a country that doesn’t even support him when he wants to achieve swimming success for (it)?”
“[In a way] if you represent the country and make people stand for your flag, you’re doing ‘national service’,” she added.
May, however, stressed that they "never pushed for swimming to be a substitute for NS" -- in fact, her son should eventually serve NS like any Singaporean man, she said.
But the real clincher, according to May, was the assistance that poured in from all corners of the globe.
“Top authorities in the world came in to help us and supply us with all the information we needed,” she said.
“For example, Gregg Troy, the men’s head coach at USA swimming then, and Bill Sweetenham, who was an advisor to the Singapore Sports Council, all wrote letters supporting Joseph.”
“They’re the ones who can see talent, and they say he will be world-class,” she added.
May, understandably proud of her son, joked that his deferment was approved because “they want to show (him) off at the 2015 SEA Games in Singapore, the year he’s supposed to be in NS.”
But she ultimately stressed that she and her husband were not looking for Joseph to escape a duty expected of all Singaporean men.
“He can come back and do (NS) when he finishes swimming,” said May. “It’s okay to get him into the pool of soldiers. Not a problem.”
May receiving the 2012 Sportsman of the Year award on Joseph's behalf. (Yahoo Photo)
May receiving the 2012 Sportsman of the Year award on Joseph's behalf. (Yahoo Photo)
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She admitted, however, to initially anticipating backlash over Joseph’s deferment.
“I was worried it would have an adverse effect, with people getting jealous, etc. But in the end a lot of support came in, and his fan base grew bigger,” she smiled.
Now arguably the de facto poster-boy for not just swimming, but all of Singapore sport, Joseph commands attention from both media and admirers on the street whenever he returns home.
“I told him, you’re a public figure, you better behave yourself,” said May. “People are ever-ready to criticise. They’ll forget you’re still a kid and will just pick on your faults.”
And that doesn’t even include the athletic expectation weighing on his young shoulders – a fact Joseph is well aware of, said his mother, and a non-issue, because “he’s already aiming higher than what they want”.
Joseph’s next excursion in the public spotlight is December's Southeast Asian Games in Myanmar, where he is set to dominate his events if all goes as planned.
The 1.84m-tall ace, who bagged two golds at the 2011 edition, is certain of winning all three of his individual events (100m and 200m butterfly, 200m individual medley), said May.
“He’s already worked out what he’s supposed to do, and at the moment, he’s swimming faster than the records.”
Joseph with his second gold medal at the 2011 SEA Games. (Getty Images)
Joseph with his second gold medal at the 2011 SEA Games. (Getty Images)
Tough love
Joseph’s rapid improvement, said May, can be put down to the high level of competition that the future University of Texas student has had to face since moving to Florida at 13.
While it’s been difficult having her only son thousands of kilometres away from the Marine Parade flat she calls home, she emphasised that the decision was always Joseph’s to make.
“He wants it. I didn’t force it on him, unlike some of the kids here whose parents are the ones pushing them,” she said. “The passion comes from Joseph.”
The boy’s resilience, then, must surely stem from his mother. Recalling Joseph’s 2012 Olympics debacle, where the distraction of a last-minute change in equipment saw him eliminated at the 200m butterfly heats, May said she was glad something like that happened early in his life.
Joseph competing at the 2012 Olympics in London. (Getty Images)
Joseph competing at the 2012 Olympics in London. (Getty Images)
“I told him: your goggles cannot (sic)? Then throw away the goggles,” she said. “They can’t stop you from swimming without goggles. There’s no rule to say you must wear goggles.”
“I didn’t make it easy for him. I didn’t pity him. I told him, you have to learn to deal with it,” May added. “He’s very competitive (now) because I always ‘give’ it to him since young (sic).”
Chasing the dream
As Joseph continues to devote the best years of his youth to the gargantuan mission that is Olympic glory, he can take heart in a pair of equally-dedicated parents supporting his every move and exuding unshakeable belief in his ability.
“In 2016, he will definitely be a finalist,” said May. “Podium… if he gets there, it’ll be good, whatever the medal.”
“But I told Joseph, you have to give them the ammunition to defer you further!” she laughed. “In fact, 2020 is a better year for him… 25, that’s when he’ll be strongest, he’ll be done with university and can go professional.”
“Actually… he’s good for two more Olympics (after 2016)… He’ll still be only 29,” May went on, as any mother dreaming for her son’s future would.
And after Joseph’s swimming pursuits run their course?
“He might go to the States and work,” said May. “But he will come back here lah. Ultimately his heart is still Singapore.”
As they say, mother knows best.

All eyes on Joseph as he pursues sporting success for an expectant nation. (Getty Images)
Joseph Schooling and the rest of Singapore's national swimmers launch their SEA Games campaign on 12 December. Catch all the action at the 2013 Games from 5 - 22 December in Myanmar, here on Yahoo Singapore.

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Like that everyone who can swim can also serve "NS"!!!!
 
https://sg.sports.yahoo.com/blogs/f...-national-joseph-schooling-mum-034630603.html

You don’t want to mess with the most important woman in Joseph Schooling’s life.
The Singapore swim star’s mother, May, is the self-professed “bad cop” and the stricter parent to Joseph compared to her husband Colin.
“If he says a foul word, I’ll slap him,” the outspoken lady said, dead serious.
May, who is in her 50s, put her tough, no-nonsense approach to good effect when she and Colin famously negotiated for their son’s long-term deferment from National Service (NS) in October this year.

We noe one wit 13 yrs deferment cos his Daddy an elite.
 
yes this woman is smart and correct,

why should we be loyal to a country that doesnt even support us when we want to achieve personal success and glory which will also rub off on singapore?
 
.....We noe one wit 13 yrs deferment cos his Daddy an elite.

I support deferment for worthwhile cases -but it must be applicable across the board with clear cut and well publicised criteria and not case by case eg all Olympic athlete qualify ,not just Joseph., all research scientist ect2.

Better still pass a law on this and not just leave it to CMPB/Mindef/MHA to decide.
 
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So, when her precious boy got drunk during the Asian Games, the mother got slap him or not?

[STORY UPDATED: 29/10/2014 AT 6:07 PM: Joseph Schooling, Teo Zhen Ren and Roanne Ho have been issued a warning by the SNOC]
The three Team Singapore swimmers who allegedly returned drunk to the Asian Games athletes village have received a warning from the Singapore National Olympic Council (SNOC), reported The Straits Times.

The Council released an e-mail statement stating that a panel had investigated the incident and concluded that Joseph Schooling, Teo Zhen Ren and Roanne Ho had "infringed the Code of Conduct for Athletes and Officials at Major Games" when they left the village without permission.
The three athletes had been named in a TODAY report, which said they left the village at the Asian Games without permission and went drinking after the swimming events had concluded the night before.

Athletes' Village officials confirmed to Yahoo Singapore that an incident occurred, and that a report has been filed over three athletes returning drunk, but did not identify the athletes’ country or sport.

The three alleged swimmers in question refrained from comment when contacted by Yahoo Singapore. Other Singapore athletes contacted also kept mum about the incident.

Conflicting reports about the state in which the three swimmers returned to the village have emerged. TODAY said sources told them the swimmers did not appear drunk upon their return but The Straits Times earlier reported at least two of them were “heavily intoxicated” and needed assistance from village security personnel to escort them back to the housing area for Singapore athletes.

Team Singapore’s chef-de-mission, Jessie Phua, said the incident will be investigated after the Games.

“It has been brought to our attention that three athletes returned to the Athletes’ Village in the early hours of 27 September. We will investigate further after the Games. We have reminded all remaining athletes and officials to be responsible for their actions and to keep the team managers updated of their movements,” said Phua.

Schooling won Singapore’s first Asian Games male swimming gold medal in 32 years in the 100m butterfly in a new Games record, and he also took home silver and bronze in the 50m and 200m butterfly. The 19-year-old from the University of Texas stands to earn S$350,000 under the MAP awards incentive scheme.

Roanne Ho competed in the 50m breaststroke final and finished seventh out of eight, while Teo Zhen Ren took part in the 1,500m freestyle and finished 12th out of 14.
 
I support deferment for worthwhile cases -but it must be applicable across the board with clear cut and well publicised criteria and not case by case eg all Olympic athlete qualify ,not just Joseph., all research scientist ect2.

Better still pass a law on this and not just leave it to CMPF/Mindef to decide.

why MINDEF? Why not make a citizenship panel to decide?
 
So, when her precious boy got drunk during the Asian Games, the mother got slap him or not?

[STORY UPDATED: 29/10/2014 AT 6:07 PM: Joseph Schooling, Teo Zhen Ren and Roanne Ho have been issued a warning by the SNOC]
The three Team Singapore swimmers who allegedly returned drunk to the Asian Games athletes village have received a warning from the Singapore National Olympic Council (SNOC), reported The Straits Times.

The Council released an e-mail statement stating that a panel had investigated the incident and concluded that Joseph Schooling, Teo Zhen Ren and Roanne Ho had "infringed the Code of Conduct for Athletes and Officials at Major Games" when they left the village without permission.
The three athletes had been named in a TODAY report, which said they left the village at the Asian Games without permission and went drinking after the swimming events had concluded the night before.

Athletes' Village officials confirmed to Yahoo Singapore that an incident occurred, and that a report has been filed over three athletes returning drunk, but did not identify the athletes’ country or sport.

The three alleged swimmers in question refrained from comment when contacted by Yahoo Singapore. Other Singapore athletes contacted also kept mum about the incident.

Conflicting reports about the state in which the three swimmers returned to the village have emerged. TODAY said sources told them the swimmers did not appear drunk upon their return but The Straits Times earlier reported at least two of them were “heavily intoxicated” and needed assistance from village security personnel to escort them back to the housing area for Singapore athletes.

Team Singapore’s chef-de-mission, Jessie Phua, said the incident will be investigated after the Games.

“It has been brought to our attention that three athletes returned to the Athletes’ Village in the early hours of 27 September. We will investigate further after the Games. We have reminded all remaining athletes and officials to be responsible for their actions and to keep the team managers updated of their movements,” said Phua.

Schooling won Singapore’s first Asian Games male swimming gold medal in 32 years in the 100m butterfly in a new Games record, and he also took home silver and bronze in the 50m and 200m butterfly. The 19-year-old from the University of Texas stands to earn S$350,000 under the MAP awards incentive scheme.

Roanne Ho competed in the 50m breaststroke final and finished seventh out of eight, while Teo Zhen Ren took part in the 1,500m freestyle and finished 12th out of 14.

The F word is worse than getting drunk in mommy's eyes.
 
At last I can feel proud for one of my countrymen who excels in sports and not those mercenary
foreign trash imported by the PAP regime who is always seeking for shortcuts.
 
At last I can feel proud for one of my countrymen who excels in sports and not those mercenary
foreign trash imported by the PAP regime who is always seeking for shortcuts.

how Singaporean is he?
 
Imo, he should be exempted from NS. Or, do the BMT then ROD from there. He's got better things to do.

All his years of training compared to bo liao NS, how to compare?

I am sure if he gets the gold in the 100m fly, Ng Eng Hen and his useless MINDEF guys and key MIW will be claiming the credit.

If only the same treatment was given to Ang Peng Siong in 1980/81.
 
Imo, he should be exempted from NS. Or, do the BMT then ROD from there. He's got better things to do.

All his years of training compared to bo liao NS, how to compare?

I am sure if he gets the gold in the 100m fly, Ng Eng Hen and his useless MINDEF guys and key MIW will be claiming the credit.

If only the same treatment was given to Ang Peng Siong in 1980/81.

Ang Peng Siong wasn't Ang Moh
 
why the fuck dont he just awol from NS?fight for glory for singapore my ass.really makes me wonder what her motives ah,u want to be patriotic to singapore and yet u want special fucking treatment,bitch dont need you to win no medals to be loyal to singapore,want to be patriotic why dont u send ur son to fight ISIS in iraq?
 
why the fuck dont he just awol from NS?fight for glory for singapore my ass.really makes me wonder what her motives ah,u want to be patriotic to singapore and yet u want special fucking treatment,bitch dont need you to win no medals to be loyal to singapore,want to be patriotic why dont u send ur son to fight ISIS in iraq?

With this kind of times in the Butterfly, many countries will offer him citizenship. I am talking first world countries like UK, France, germany, even the US. He can graduate from UOT and go straight to that country of his choice. No need to ever set foot in sinkieland again.
 
why the fuck dont he just awol from NS?fight for glory for singapore my ass.really makes me wonder what her motives ah,u want to be patriotic to singapore and yet u want special fucking treatment,bitch dont need you to win no medals to be loyal to singapore,want to be patriotic why dont u send ur son to fight ISIS in iraq?

Canon Fodder Sinkies will be sent to Iraq, Scholar Generals get the glory. Schooling? He still gets taxpayer salary what
 
With this kind of times in the Butterfly, many countries will offer him citizenship. I am talking first world countries like UK, France, germany, even the US. He can graduate from UOT and go straight to that country of his choice. No need to ever set foot in sinkieland again.

That may still happen. Who really wants to waste 2 years of their youth?

Isn't Schoolins Mother still a Malaysian citizen?
 
Why not. I remember a pap ft shitskin doctor once said he being a doctor delivering babies is equivalent to serving ns.
 
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