An eye for an eye a tooth for a toothIf you do report to the police you become a traitor and bad friend. Please refrain.
An eye for an eye a tooth for a tooth
Loan money dont return can?
I can only say since her fren is a gambling addict, she shd not loan at all.
Call the police maybe maybe can help her fren end her gambling habit
When you loan a friend $$, please be mentally prepared to write it off. I've had my fair share of such loans to friends and I've had to write them off. Whether or not you report her for online gambling is for you alone to decide. Then again, do you evidence or is it your own conclusion?Thanks. The others answered off course.
My question is whether to report on her illegal online gambling.
I loaned a close friend a big sum of money because the loan sharks and bookies were chasing her. It was based on trust because we had been friends for more than 12 years. I never asked her to return because she was only working part-time and had a young daughter to support. Recently, due to Covid, I lost my job, retrenched. I heard she already had a full time job and is getting about $2,500. I asked her if she could return me the loan in installment of $100 monthly. I got a big shock because she denied having owed me any money. Naturally, she had blocked my calls and I could not understand how someone can be so mean, nasty and cruel.
I heard from another friend that she is still gambling Online. I intended to report her gambling activities to the Police as Online gambling is illegal.
Shall I?
I feel for u. I once helped this CB Kia some years back. 20K. Then this CB Kia only paid me 10K before he up lorry. Before that he blocked me on Facebook, WhatsApp. And this CB Kia was my neighborhood friend. Help yourself first before helping others. Nowadays I wary of helping friends. Small amount ok but more than 1K, I say no to them.
You can always try to report her but what sort of evidence do you have. You have loaned her money willingly, now she is ignoring you and you are reporting her for supposed online gambling due to hearsay. Anybody who sees this report first impression would think that you are trying to get back at her for not returning you your money. Anyway likely your money wont come back even if you file a report against her. If the amount is really big, maybe consulting a lawyer and filing a civil suit to get back your money might be a better option.
I lent a friend $25,000 in March.
He paid me back in full in June.
But he betrayed me in Nov.
Never lend money to friends.
May I know what he betrayed you in Nov?
If you feel that you have sufficient evidence then I would say nobody can stop you from filing a report. Maybe I misunderstood about hearsay part then as I saw from your 1st post that you heard from your friend she is still doing online gambling. You might want to take a look online at the remote gambling act as well before you decide to file a report. But from what I see, the gambling and money loaned are 2 separate issues that must be dealt with separately. If you lump your same emotions into both issues, then you will only confuse yourself in the end not knowing what is the end point you want to achieve.Frankly, she was very ungrateful. Which leads me to such desperate measures.
She already denied owing me, hence very obvious, from the very onstart, she will not return. This, I have to "see broken" and let it go.
If you all see me as taking revenge - YES indeed. I will go to Court to testify that she is a gambling addict and owing other friends and loan sharks too.
It is not hear say but reliable and concrete feedback. I am sure the Gambling Suppression Branch can seize her Laptop and find evidence on all the betting transactions including from bank statements.
Anyway, Thanks to all who had written in goodwill.
For the two SOBs, who taunted me - I hit you back. So, don't test me & don't blame me.
If you do report to the police you become a traitor and bad friend. Please refrain.
By the way what is “big sum” to you?
I think u must be out of your mind to suggest that he is a traitor and bad friend when he was screwed over by his friend in the first place.
To not even offer to pay back a small monthly sum monthly and outright deny the debt is just despicable.
Despicable and Shameless bitch.
Very ungrateful.
Especially denying she borrowed.
The money cannot be recovered. I am making her payback by sending her to jail for illegal online gambling.
Be careful. Sometimes you push people too far they will hurt you even more especially when they have nothing left.
Since this person was once your friend and you lent money (you should know you dont expect it back) then let it be.
Just part ways. Never talk to them again. You have done your part to help. It is over. Your conscience is clear.
Turning to revenge only makes things worse.
Honestly you will not feel good doing harm to the person. You also dont get back your money. You also might invite revenge on you from that person and cause more trouble for yourself. It will be counter productive.
Let go.
Since this person was once your friend and you lent money (you should know you dont expect it back) then let it be.