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I find many children cute - those in playgrounds, malls, etc. If they chat me up, I'll chat with them. But I wouldn't ask for a kid's number - why would I need to contact the child unless I had some ulterior motive?Is there a law that stranger man cannot befriend a minor?
IMHO the correct way to handle this, and to be fair to the pertrator, is to let the man have the number, then the father to monitor What action the man do next.
Who knows he might just be an innocent child lover?
Sometimes I just want to befriend cute little girl without any sexual thoughts, this is not wrong leh. I did not do it as I know is sensitive thing to do. But I do hope to know these cute little girl in my life.
Maybe she is too cute to resist. But you are right to, that's why I resisted myself for making friends with cute little girl to avoid misunderstandings.I find many children cute - those in playgrounds, malls, etc. If they chat me up, I'll chat with them. But I wouldn't ask for a kid's number - why would I need to contact the child unless I had some ulterior motive?
Is there a law that stranger man cannot befriend a minor?
IMHO the correct way to handle this, and to be fair to the pertrator, is to let the man have the number, then the father to monitor What action the man do next.
Who knows he might just be an innocent child lover?
Sometimes I just want to befriend cute little girl without any sexual thoughts, this is not wrong leh. I did not do it as I know is sensitive thing to do. But I do hope to know these cute little girl in my life.
I ever worked in a job in the educational industry, low pay but I accepted it as I could mingle with pre schools to lower pri minors.You can befriend all the minors you want by being a kindergarten teacher.
I have received this video circulating around of my son, John.
Let me share about him.
He is suffering from 2 conditions, Autism (on the high functioning spectrum) and ADHD and was diagnosed since young. He went through professional help since diagnosis n special school too. Because of the nature of his conditions, his rigid n Impulsive behaviour gets him into unnecessary trouble.
When he completed his education, he could not hold down a job due to his sleep difficulty n so he was not doing much the past 10 over years. He likes to have friends but could not get along with same age peers so along the way he discovered that young children are more susceptible to him. But on the other side, his communication with them is not appropriate due to internet / social media influence/exposure to implicit content, this behaviour is partly due to his difficulty in his social communication n interactions. One of his difficulty can be seen in the video, where John so easily gave out his personal details without considering the consequences of it. If this were from a neurotypical person, he would have hide or lie or even try to run away. As a parent, this is a challenging child of mine and helping him to understand the world is a journey n experience. Give us time to manage his problems.
I urge n hope that this video to be stopped circulating n preferably sent to the police to dealt with the matter appropriately. This can also help us by not complicating the matter further n thus harder for me, the professionals n the authority to manage it.
I fully understand that all parents will be concerned and anxious in that situation n the natural reaction to deal with it.
I sincerely apologise to the parent of the 9 year old girl.
Thank you for reading.
Janet (mother of John)
U touch them?I ever worked in a job in the educational industry, low pay but I accepted it as I could mingle with pre schools to lower pri minors.
Whenever I'm assigned to go pre school, I just felt very happy and doesn't treat it like a work. I go there sayang all the toddlers while they were taking the noon nap while I installing software for the lessons.
Only the cheek and forehead.U touch them?
Another autistic fuck, sinkies should stop breeding since most eat shit for 3 meals daily until their sperm and eggs all corruptedThis posted by the offenders mother?