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Sad incident @Ttsh

You cannot just quit. You have a daughter, think of how it will impact her life if u take the easy way out.
Everything is impermanent, even tough times. When I am feeling down, it always makes me feel better to help others, be it another human being or an animal.
You are still needed here, do not give up. Focus on the good. I know it is easier said than done.
If you need to vent, can vent here at least...

I have not found rhe courage to kill myself. It is constantly on my mind and it is clear to me there is no hope for me anymore.

I hope i will get cancer or heart attack and die of natural causes.

I have narrowed down two ways to commit suicide. One is hanging myself at home. But i think it will be too traumatic for my wife and children.

The 2nd is to jump from rhe bridge. I went to recce just now. Found the nearest car park where i can leave the car and then climb up the slope to the road and then the bridge. There is still a lot of construction going on now so it is likely someone will try to stop me as well. So timing not quite right yet.

I am so tired of living i dont have any motivation to do anything. It is pointless. Everything breaks down gets messy new problems new damage

I find sleeping like dying. Problem is cannot sleep forever. Will wake up. But sleeping is the closest to being dead.
 
Hey bro!!!
Think of your kids.
Your kids need u.
You a professional, u heal ppl , u help ppl.

My wife is sick of me already. Same with rhe kids. My negativity drags everyone down.

I am jusr being selfish by living and a coward not to give my family a better living environment.

Ideal is to tiok cancer or heart attack. I will refuse treatment and let nature take its course

I am a coward.
 
I have not found rhe courage to kill myself. It is constantly on my mind and it is clear to me there is no hope for me anymore.

I hope i will get cancer or heart attack and die of natural causes.

I have narrowed down two ways to commit suicide. One is hanging myself at home. But i think it will be too traumatic for my wife and children.

The 2nd is to jump from rhe bridge. I went to recce just now. Found the nearest car park where i can leave the car and then climb up the slope to the road and then the bridge. There is still a lot of construction going on now so it is likely someone will try to stop me as well. So timing not quite right yet.

I am so tired of living i dont have any motivation to do anything. It is pointless. Everything breaks down gets messy new problems new damage

I find sleeping like dying. Problem is cannot sleep forever. Will wake up. But sleeping is the closest to being dead.
If you commit suicide, your children and wife may feel guilty and screw up their life in their bitterness and guilt. You do not want that, right?
Your children need you to be strong. The storm will pass. Do not let tough times overwhelm you.
Many are suffering too right now, but we are persevering on.
Admittedly, I do not know you, but I do care. And many others care about you too, even in this unconventional forum.
Stay strong.
 
If you commit suicide, your children and wife may feel guilty and screw up their life in their bitterness and guilt. You do not want that, right?
Your children need you to be strong. The storm will pass. Do not let tough times overwhelm you.
Many are suffering too right now, but we are persevering on.
Admittedly, I do not know you, but I do care. And many others care about you too, even in this unconventional forum.
Stay strong.

I have completed my life already. Done what i want to do.

Looking at how others have fared the idea that those left behind fall apart is a myth. Most people move on and they do however well they can do.

For me it is all a matter of courage and determination. Call to action. It has not happened for me yet. But at least i have my plans in place.
 


Tan Tock Seng Hospital (TTSH)
52 minutes ago
We are saddened that a 27-year-old outpatient had passed on at our hospital today. She was on follow-up care at our clinic and had attended a clinic appointment this morning accompanied by her family. Witnesses had found her at the Basement 2 escalator lobby of our Medical Centre. CCTV footage shows that she had climbed over the railing and jumped off at Level 6. Our medical staff attended to her immediately. She was brought to our Emergency Department and despite our efforts, had later succumbed to her injuries. Our doctor and medical social worker are with her family to offer them our full support. Investigations are ongoing and we are working with the police on this matter.
Our heartfelt sympathies and deepest condolences to her family. We will continue to render assistance to the family during this difficult period

These stories serve as inspiration to me.

I wish there was a support group for people wanting to commit suicide. We can share ideas. Ways to do it. Also maybe encourage one another to gather the courage and call to action.
 
I have completed my life already. Done what i want to do.

Looking at how others have fared the idea that those left behind fall apart is a myth. Most people move on and they do however well they can do.

For me it is all a matter of courage and determination. Call to action. It has not happened for me yet. But at least i have my plans in place.
Life is a never ending learning experience. My gd friend just received her 1st grandchild, it is beautiful to see her cook and care for her daughter and also see how proud she and her hubby are of their lil grandchild.
Don’t you want to be there for yr kids, see them grow up and have yr grandchildren? Help them and be there for them in their personal journeys, trials and tribulations?
Sometimes in tough times, there are learning experiences too, eg. how we took food for granted when we are doing well in life, but tough times heightened the good taste of even the simplest foods.
In life, I find it more meaningful to focus on the journey instead of the destination only.
 
Life is a never ending learning experience. My gd friend just received her 1st grandchild, it is beautiful to see her cook and care for her daughter and also see how proud she and her hubby are of their lil grandchild.
Don’t you want to be there for yr kids, see them grow up and have yr grandchildren? Help them and be there for them in their personal journeys, trials and tribulations?
Sometimes in tough times, there are learning experiences too, eg. how we took food for granted when we are doing well in life, but tough times heightened the good taste of even the simplest foods.
In life, I find it more meaningful to focus on the journey instead of the destination only.

The thought of having children and grandchildren is enough to make me want to kill myself on the spot.

In this day and age when contraception is cheap and easy I honestly don't understand why children keep popping out. Surely sex can be enjoyed without having to face the consequences 9 months later.
 
These stories serve as inspiration to me.

I wish there was a support group for people wanting to commit suicide. We can share ideas. Ways to do it. Also maybe encourage one another to gather the courage and call to action.
This is not the way to solve your worries or depression. You have to keep on living n try to make the best of the situation. Seek help from your close friends n talk to them. Life is full of ups n downs, make the best out of it.
 


Tan Tock Seng Hospital (TTSH)
52 minutes ago
We are saddened that a 27-year-old outpatient had passed on at our hospital today. She was on follow-up care at our clinic and had attended a clinic appointment this morning accompanied by her family. Witnesses had found her at the Basement 2 escalator lobby of our Medical Centre. CCTV footage shows that she had climbed over the railing and jumped off at Level 6. Our medical staff attended to her immediately. She was brought to our Emergency Department and despite our efforts, had later succumbed to her injuries. Our doctor and medical social worker are with her family to offer them our full support. Investigations are ongoing and we are working with the police on this matter.
Our heartfelt sympathies and deepest condolences to her family. We will continue to render assistance to the family during this difficult period



they showed her the medical bill, i bet................
 
I have not found rhe courage to kill myself. It is constantly on my mind and it is clear to me there is no hope for me anymore.

I hope i will get cancer or heart attack and die of natural causes.

I have narrowed down two ways to commit suicide. One is hanging myself at home. But i think it will be too traumatic for my wife and children.

The 2nd is to jump from rhe bridge. I went to recce just now. Found the nearest car park where i can leave the car and then climb up the slope to the road and then the bridge. There is still a lot of construction going on now so it is likely someone will try to stop me as well. So timing not quite right yet.

I am so tired of living i dont have any motivation to do anything. It is pointless. Everything breaks down gets messy new problems new damage

I find sleeping like dying. Problem is cannot sleep forever. Will wake up. But sleeping is the closest to being dead.
Same here, I long for suicide by cancer or heart attack. But I prefer heart attack because I want to leave a good looking corpse. And that pretty much rules out hanging and jumping from heights.

It does not take courage to commit suicide, just enough motivation (or demotivation to stick around). Life is not meant to be a bed of roses for most of us, the least we could do is to tolerate and endure till the end. At least that's what most of us are doing, some even with the help of medication. And find simples joys whenever, wherever. Chin up doc!
 
My wife is sick of me already. Same with rhe kids. My negativity drags everyone down.

I am jusr being selfish by living and a coward not to give my family a better living environment.

Ideal is to tiok cancer or heart attack. I will refuse treatment and let nature take its course

I am a coward.

Life is very strange.
Last year, I was on the verge of dying.
I collapse at home and my AICD revived me.
I had very high fever 39.1C.
My BP was very low.
Rushed to ICU.
They inserted a tube into my neck to uplift my BP.
Later, learnt from nurse that they had already standby Operating Table for me.
Somehow, the chain of events took a drastic turn.
I dont even know if God was pushing away my queue number or whatever fcuks.
I was then transferred to High Independency Room.
Locked in a cage-bed , cannot go down.
Nurses dry cleaned me, cannot go bathing , brush teeth etc
So many tubes and needles going through me.
Worst than dying.
My weight dropped by 9kg.
Today, I am alive.
I told myself to enjoy life.
Eat what you like,
Drink what you like.
Life is short.
You never know when.
If it is coming, its coming now.

Btw, you should talk to your pal
@nightsafari

Take care,
Hope you recover soon.
 
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Same here, I long for suicide by cancer or heart attack. But I prefer heart attack because I want to leave a good looking corpse. And that pretty much rules out hanging and jumping from heights.

It does not take courage to commit suicide, just enough motivation (or demotivation to stick around). Life is not meant to be a bed of roses for most of us, the least we could do is to tolerate and endure till the end. At least that's what most of us are doing, some even with the help of medication. And find simples joys whenever, wherever. Chin up doc!

Quick and sudden death by heart attack is better
than suffering Chemo for cancer treatment.
 
This is what happens when social distancing, lockdowns and masks are implemented.

Wrong. Again. Call it 0 for 203 fails.

https://www.healthline.com/health-news/yes-lockdowns-do-help-slow-the-spread-of-covid-19

Yes, Lockdowns Do Help Slow the Spread of COVID-19

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Share on PinterestWhile they may not be 100 percent effective, lockdowns have helped us in the fight against COVID-19. brightstars/Getty Images
  • Countries around the world turned to lockdowns to help stop the spread of COVID-19.
  • While lockdowns may not be 100 percent effective, studies show that they do help greatly reduce the transmission of the coronavirus.
  • However, studies also show that those who are able to participate in lockdowns benefit more from them than those who have to work in high-risk environments.
While countries around the world turn to lockdowns to help stop the spread of COVID-19, some people question the method’s effectiveness and even forgo the facts to spread misinformation.
For instance, a New York Post article misrepresented data from a UCSF study, in which the senior author of the paper Dr. Kirsten Bibbins-Domingo, professor and chair of the department of epidemiology and biostatistics at UCSF, stated, “The early shutdown worked for California. Mortality rates that were rising early in the pandemic dropped substantially in a timeframe that coincides with the shutdown. But, importantly, not all Californians seemed to benefit.”
Bibbins-Domingo goes on to discuss that nearly 20,000 more Californians died in the first 6 months of the pandemic than would have been expected to die in a typical year, with a disproportionate number of those deaths occurring among older adults, Black or Latino residents, or those who had not completed high school.
The study shows that those who are able to participate in lockdowns benefit more from them than those who have to work in high-risk environments.
However, the New York Post article misinterprets this information to mean lockdowns do not work.
They do.
Dr. Bruce E. Hirsch, attending physician and assistant professor in the infectious disease division of Northwell Health in New York, says while lockdowns will never be 100 percent effective in eliminating the risk of exposure to COVID-19 because people have to grocery shop and care for people in need, that doesn’t mean they are pointless.
“The critics can point out the limitations to lockdowns and say, ‘See the lockdown isn’t perfect and the vaccine isn’t 100 percent effective.’ While they are correct, they are missing what’s important, which is that public health measures all reinforce each other and help reduce the risk of exposure to COVID-19 by a lot,” Hirsch told Healthline.
Lockdowns buy scientists time

Lockdowns have been used for centuries as a way to slow the spread of disease, all the way back to the 14th centuryTrusted Source, as a response to the Black Death plague that spread across Europe.
Dr. Scott Braunstein, medical director of Sollis Health in Los Angeles, explains that lockdowns are a temporary measure that are used to slow the spread of disease and help buy time for scientists to track the spread, learn more about the disease, and develop treatments.
“Lockdowns become imperative when our medical system is at risk of becoming overwhelmed, to prevent avoidable morbidity and mortality, as a result of lack of medical resources,” Braunstein told Healthline.
During the early stages of the COVID-19 pandemic, this was the goal of lockdowns, which was referred to as “flattening the curve.”
“Lockdowns at that time were successful in preventing millions more cases of COVID-19, and saving thousands of lives,” said Braunstein.



The virus thrives on proximity

More than 552,000 people in the United States have died from COVID-19, and about 1,000 people per day continue to lose their lives from the disease caused by the coronavirus.
“We owe it to ourselves to be as aggressive as we can to contain this virus,” said Hirsch.
Because the coronavirus spreads both by droplets and aerosol, you can contract it when you breathe air into your respiratory passages that has the virus in it.
“We know that the ways to prevent SARS-CoV-2 from being transmitted from one person to the other is to not get exposed. The idea of avoiding the virus in the environment includes distance, and it’s not just 3 feet or 6 feet. We know aerosol travels much further, so social distance as a strategy is helpful, but so are other measures, such as wearing masks and ventilation,” Hirsch said.
The longer amount of time you’re in an environment where the virus is, increases your chances of being exposed.
“So if you have a mask on that is 50 percent effective and are in an environment for 15 minutes, your chances of exposure [greatly] increases if you are in that same environment for an hour,” Hirsch added.


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Why lockdowns work in some areas and not others

Braunstein said that lockdowns were initially effective in slowing the spread of COVID-19 in many parts of the United States when the general public was in support of them and abided by them.
“However, the U.S. did not take advantage of this window to develop widespread and aggressive testing and contact tracing protocols that could have had more long-term benefit,” he said.
Braunstein also pointed out that this is in contrast to countries like Israel and Australia where there have been under 1,000 deaths from COVID-19 so far.
Those countries also continue to use targeted lockdowns to suppress local spikes of cases. They have robust systems of testing and tracing, and more widespread buy-in from their citizens too.
He added that the virus mutated quickly from its first outbreak in Wuhan, China, to the time it got to Europe.
Hirsch explained that if a virus has adapted to be more transmissible, then measures that might have been adequate for an earlier outbreak are no longer adequate.
“A lot of the people in the public health field are remarking on the fact that we are seeing more and more [of the U.K. strain] in the U.S., and the mitigation methods — wearing masks, social distancing — will have to be made more rigorous, if we’re going to have a chance of being able to contain a virus that is better adapted to be transmitted from person to person,” he said.
In addition, Braunstein added, that many other countries enacted national policies in terms of COVID-19 response, while the United States mainly left the decision to the discretion of each state.
In fact, some critics of lockdowns will compare cities or states in the United States where there were stricter quarantine measures to those that were more relaxed, and use this as evidence that the stricter measures were ineffective, Braunstein pointed out.
“There are many factors that are at play, and it is difficult to know what would have been the outcome in stricter states, had they not enacted those measures,” he said.
For instance, he said that in a state like California, where they have among the lowest number of hospital and ICU beds per capita, they were able to avoid completely overwhelming the medical system.
“Those of us on the front lines know exactly how close we were to the system failing, which would have led to a devastating outcome of thousands of unnecessary deaths,” he said.
Lack of national policy and politicization of the COVID-19 response are the main reasons lockdowns varied from state to state, according to Braunstein.
“Economic pressures led many governors to relax restrictions earlier than was advisable. People in certain parts of the country felt that acts such as wearing masks and social distancing were a symbol of political party, and willfully disregarded any precautions as a way to show loyalty to a party or leader,” he said.


Yes, there’s still room for improvement of lockdowns

While Hirsch and Braunstein believe lockdowns help curtail the spread of COVID-19, they both note that lockdowns also result in negative financial, psychological, and other health-related ramifications.
Braunstein hopes that going forward, the United States follows the lead of countries like Australia that use targeted, limited lockdowns (as short as 3 days), in areas where spikes occur, in order to prevent widespread disease.
Hirsch hopes society finds more creative and better ways to live with the virus that don’t require isolation.
“I’d be interested to see application of techniques that healthcare workers use in the hospitals more widespread throughout society, so we can be safe and interact with each other and be active and have our children and those coping with mental stress be supported during this time,” he said.
 
Have you ever wondered why Muslims never or rarely commit suicide?
Get to know a Muslim or ask one.
Just a hint: when you are at peace, nothing fazes you.

Uhmm are you kidding? Muslims do commit suicide.

Also peculiar to some Muslims when they do commit suicide is in the name of their God. And they also kill a lot of people along with themselves.

You never heard of the term suicide bomber? Suicide attack? Jihad? If there is any religion that actually encourages some its followers to commit suicide for the religion and for God it is Islam.
 
Uhmm are you kidding?

When Muslim commit suicide is in the name of their God. And they also kill a lot of people along with themselves.

You never heard of the term suicide bomber?
Those are not muslims and their deaths are futile and they go straight to hell. It is clearly mentioned in the Quran that suicide leads to hellfire directly.

You may be confused however by this statement. There are 2 elements that determines suicide. No 1 is the intent to die. No2 is the actual act carried out.

Thus you will find the vast majority of muslims not ever entertaining suicide. Again, talk to a Muslim and find out for yourself.
 
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