Rules of one Malaysian Malay household : "In this house, Women must let Men eat meals first, then wash their dishes for them"

[UltimaOnline]

1. A hand washing bowl must be present at the table.
   
2. The men will eat first, women will be on standby to see what's not enough.
   
3. Women will refill a dish/drink when needed.
   
4. Men aren't allowed to take their plates away and men must not wash the dishes."

https://mothership.sg/2020/10/malaysian-uncle-sexist-house-rules/

 

[Hypocrite-The]

That is the correct way in any family. If no such benefits. That wat is the point of men getting married?

'Men must not wash the dishes': M'sian man's controversial house rules causes online uproar
It's 2020.
Syahindah Ishak |

October 09, 2020, 07:02 PM

A man who goes by the username @wanyusri16 on Twitter has angered netizens due to his controversial Twitter thread.
According to his Twitter bio, his full name, which is written in Arabic, is Wan Abdullah Yusri.
He lives in Pahang, Malaysia.
"Men will eat first, women will be on standby"
On Oct. 8, Wan tweeted this:

Here's a translation of his tweet:

"When eating at Ayah Long (eldest uncle)'s house, there are rules that men would love.

1. A hand washing bowl must be present at the table.
2. The men will eat first, women will be on standby to see what's not enough.
3. Women will refill a dish/drink when needed.
4. Men aren't allowed to take their plates away and men must not wash the dishes."

"Cooking, serving and cleaning are women's jobs"
In the subsequent tweets under Wan's Twitter thread, he wrote:

"My aunt has scolded me many times for washing the dishes after I've finished eating. She told me that men's job is to eat. Cooking, serving and cleaning are women's jobs. Looks like we are discriminating women, right? But this is the tradition in the olden days.
Before I've even finished eating and drinking, my aunt will be ready to refill my rice and drink. She watches the men carefully while they eat. When the men are done, the women can finally eat. That's what I've observed."

Misogynistic and sexist
Wan's Twitter thread has gone viral, garnering over 3,500 retweets and 26,900 comments.
Most netizens were angered by his tweets, stating that the men in his family are misogynistic and sexist.



Different eras
On the other hand, a few didn't see anything wrong with Wan's tweets, explaining that Wan's uncle came from a different era with older traditions.

Translation:

"His Ayah Long is an old man from a different era. Where men were breadwinners and women were caretakers...if you want to disagree, go ahead. But to curse and insult a man who is older than you is a tad much. Be disappointed with yourselves, you say you're modern but how can you forget our traditions?"

Translation:

"Why are some people triggered? He's just sharing his family's tradition.
When feminists proclaimed the emancipation of women, causing some of them to sell their bodies, you tell them, 'own your body'. But if someone chooses to sit at home and serve their husband and children, you call it slavery?
Keep going bro."

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[laksaboy]

At least they let the women eat.

 

[eatshitndie]

it’s worse in one traditional taiwanese kmt chink household that i know. women must dine separately in a rear dining area or kitchen away from men during meals, and they are sexpected to prepare and serve all the food too. it’s a tradition they carry from the mainland after high tailing to taiwan at the end of the civil war. they all should be dying off soon. sooner the better.

 

[syed putra]

That is the olden tradition. Men plus children eat first. Woman eat whatever is left. In those olden household, there would be female relatives living in to help with the chores.or the grandmother who also eats after the men.

 

[syed putra]

At least they let the women eat.

Those olden kampung house of more prominent Malays have a huge number of helpers. They are not maids. But they get to eat after the owner finished the meal. Mostly there to chat with the wife as they have huge big kitchens.

 

[syed putra]

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1. A hand washing bowl must be present at the table.
2. The men will eat first, women will be on standby to see what's not enough.
3. Women will refill a dish/drink when needed.
4. Men aren't allowed to take their plates away and men must not wash the dishes."

https://mothership.sg/2020/10/malaysian-uncle-sexist-house-rules/

This malay spread if missing the sambal.no malay foid us complete without the sambal. Its not the same sambal as in nasi lemak. This one is sambal belachan.plus air assam.

 

[JurongEast]

this happens in animal kingdom because lion always get to eat first before lioness.

 

[syed putra]

this happens in animal kingdom because lion always get to eat first before lioness.

Only in homes of prominent people in the olden days. Its not practised any more thank to infiltration of chinese culture.

 

[Hypocrite-The]

it’s worse in one traditional taiwanese kmt chink household that i know. women must dine separately in a rear dining area or kitchen away from men during meals, and they are sexpected to prepare and serve all the food too. it’s a tradition they carry from the mainland after high tailing to taiwan at the end of the civil war. they all should be dying off soon. sooner the better.

They should have passed on such traditions to the next generation. Look at how society has gone backwards since women got the vote.

 

[mojito]

That is the correct way in any family. If no such benefits. That wat is the point of men getting married?

'Men must not wash the dishes': M'sian man's controversial house rules causes online uproar
It's 2020.
Syahindah Ishak |

October 09, 2020, 07:02 PM

A man who goes by the username @wanyusri16 on Twitter has angered netizens due to his controversial Twitter thread.
According to his Twitter bio, his full name, which is written in Arabic, is Wan Abdullah Yusri.
He lives in Pahang, Malaysia.
"Men will eat first, women will be on standby"
On Oct. 8, Wan tweeted this:

Here's a translation of his tweet:

"Cooking, serving and cleaning are women's jobs"
In the subsequent tweets under Wan's Twitter thread, he wrote:


Misogynistic and sexist
Wan's Twitter thread has gone viral, garnering over 3,500 retweets and 26,900 comments.
Most netizens were angered by his tweets, stating that the men in his family are misogynistic and sexist.



Different eras
On the other hand, a few didn't see anything wrong with Wan's tweets, explaining that Wan's uncle came from a different era with older traditions.

Translation:


Translation:

Totally unrelated but follow and listen to our podcast here:
Top images from @wanyusri16/Twitter.

If you like what you read, follow us on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter and Telegram to get the latest updates.

No reason why modern women ought to get married either.

 

[Hypocrite-The]

this happens in animal kingdom because lion always get to eat first before lioness.

Well said. N the lioness does the hunting too. That is wat women are for. To serve men.

 

[Hypocrite-The]

No reason why modern women ought to get married either.

They are free to be Lesbians too.

 

[syed putra]

No reason why modern women ought to get married either.

And suffer a life of servitude.

 

[mojito]

They are free to be Lesbians too.

Touching your self is free. Try it.

 

[JohnTan]

"My aunt has scolded me many times for washing the dishes after I've finished eating. She told me that men's job is to eat. Cooking, serving and cleaning are women's jobs. Looks like we are discriminating women, right? But this is the tradition in the olden days.
Before I've even finished eating and drinking, my aunt will be ready to refill my rice and drink. She watches the men carefully while they eat. When the men are done, the women can finally eat. That's what I've observed."

That's the description for my maids.

 

[glockman]

This malay spread if missing the sambal.no malay foid us complete without the sambal. Its not the same sambal as in nasi lemak. This one is sambal belachan.plus air assam.

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wow, those look delicious. It needs to burn a hole in our intestines and/or colon to count as shiok.

 

[glockman]

That's the description for my maids.

Incidentally, that's the job description for my new job as a butler for a wealthy AMDK family.

 

[mojito]

it’s worse in one traditional taiwanese kmt chink household that i know. women must dine separately in a rear dining area or kitchen away from men during meals, and they are sexpected to prepare and serve all the food too. it’s a tradition they carry from the mainland after high tailing to taiwan at the end of the civil war. they all should be dying off soon. sooner the better.

Sound no different from the emirates.

 

[JohnTan]

Incidentally, that's the job description for my new job as a butler for a wealthy AMDK family.

I've been busy with work lately. There's more business now that things are getting back to normal. Perhaps I should hire a male butler. But I prefer if the butler was castrated first, just like in the good old days. You willing to undergo castration for a secure, well paying job?