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no word can describe what has changed. he has to experience it himself.
good luck to him
The grass is always greener on the other side.
For most 1st world residents of developed countries, the best place to live is the country they grew up in, where their friends and family are, where they are familiar with things. Recreating a social network from scratch is an arduous task, and even if you do it well, it's not as good as putting in the same work to improve things in a place where you already have a network. You know the system, the language, the culture, and the places in your home country, all that knowledge disappears when you go abroad. If you are a native, even moving from USA to Canada, or UK to Ireland, or Australia to New Zealand, is quite a big change and significantly disadvantages you in many ways.
Just look at this forum, tons of Ex-Sinkies who have migrated abroad, crowing about their fantastic life but still want to come here and "talk cock" with other fellow sinkies.....Once a Sinkie, Always a Sinkie.
Few places are better off, and those that are, you'll be disadvantaged by not knowing the language/culture in many of them, and having no social or business network, not knowing the system, being away from friends and family etc.
Better to forget grass is greener syndrome, and work on improving your output, skills, networking, and career opportunities at home, whilst living a full life in the vicinity of the people, places, and other things you know.
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