Just my thoughts.
In the past, the Chinese and Malays are more equal under the colonial master.
Then the Chinese took over and the Malays were kind of promised that they will not be left behind. But LKY betrayed the Malays and they lost their way when Singapore changed into its current unrecognised form.
Did anyone asked how do the Malays feel about all the Ah nehs and Ah Tiongs?
Back in the Campong (sic) days, there were more trust & friendships among the races. As Singapore progress economically, these human bonds retreat.
We missed the togetherness, Chinese, Indians and Malays celebrating each other festivals. Eg. During Hari Raya, Malay neighbours will give some of their kuih kuih and food over to Chinese neighbours and the Chinese in return will wash the plates, load them with fruit and return to them, at the same time, slip some angpows to show appreciation.
I remembered being surprised when Malay kids dropped by a Chinese family flat that left their main door open, went straight for the family fridge that also contain soft drinks for sale. That kind of casualness and bond? Have we lost them forever?