My Journal, My Life

[Claire]

Dont be so shallow .... older single BBFAs also can be great loving husbands too .... dont focus on the appearances and look deeper into their qualities .... life can be so much better after marriage, dont waste away your life setting difficult criterias.

She is probably gone by now. She indeed is a legendary figure in SBF.

The insignificant nobody me do agree with her criticisms. Criticisms DO help if taken in the matured & right spirit fashion. As the famous book- Men from Mars & Women from Venus had shed insights to Human behaviors, it is often good to listen to the other side - male or female - as each has different perspectives thru their traditions & upbringing over centuries.

Ultimately, her criticisms is about Personal Grooming, & is correct. Just because one is successful does not mean that what one does freely is RIGHT, more so when it comes to relationships with another.

It is best to share & discuss, & find compromises or necessary changes to appeal to each other for the long journey of precious life, regardless if one is young or old...

Age is only number. It's the care & concern for another that counts....

A good man is wise.

He's smart and he's just.

No matter how many times he falls. he rises back up.

A good man is kind. He's considerate. He's helpful. He's a giver. He isn't gullible.

Those that are left behind in their 50s now probably won’t meet these KPIs.

I guess I have become phlegmatic.

 

[Claire]

Pleasure is all mine

Thanks.

 

[Claire]

not into tinder but almost got scammed on telegram. welcum back!

Still the same or plagued by aging?