My Friend Jocelyn

[Fook Seng]

yes, the environment helps a lot. SG gals are very achievement oriented and are determined to meet their KPIs. Hubby, never let your wife stray

That is why there is a saying that it is ok to have a beautiful mistress but not wise to have too pretty a wife.

 

[Fook Seng]

Proactive man may not always get his gal, but he has a better chance than non proactive man

You seem to hit on one of Singapore's key reasons for our low TFR, late marriage problem.

 

[Fook Seng]

You ever heard of the coolidge effect?

Very interesting. They say it is natural for a man to sow wild oats but is it also the same for a woman?

 

[TracyTan866]

Bro blur, I am sure with your rich experience, you should have several real life examples to share.

all experiences, rich, poor, good , bad, etc can be shared so that we all can learn from them

 

[TracyTan866]

bro,
chat room is for real time chat, forum wall is for asynchronous chat
ultimately an avenue for exchange of ideas :p:p:p

do you go into the chatroom?

 

[TracyTan866]

Tracy come chatroom become our Aunt Aggie?

which chatroom?

 

[TracyTan866]

Bro Zhihau, remember one turning of the thread started with fixing you up with Constance. See how far we have come.

which turn caused this thread to take on a different path? I thought we were focused on Jocelyn?

 

[TracyTan866]

-Don't disagree with TS that ladies can be more objective minded to get their prey ...feminine wiles we sorely lack hehehe:p

Come partake in teaser of thread

you agree with me that gals can be more focused and objective in heart matters?

 

[TracyTan866]

Fook Gor, no leh, my real life is pretty screwed :o

I was once asked by a fellow lady undergrad out. Yes, she dated me. She brought me to the lingerie dept at Robinson. Then she started asking for my opinion on the various pieces she picked up. I was so dumbfounded and I didn't know how to react. That is how screwed I was.

Too bad, such never happened again. :(

some gals find innocent guys loving and attractive

 

[TracyTan866]

No, it won't happen that way. When she appeared at the chatroom, all the buaya would ask her these:

- You boy or girl?
- how old are you?
- where do you stay?
- when are you free?
- do you enjoy sex? etc etc

And if my idol IHP appears, colourful expletive will come on non stop. IHP alone could up the decibel by many notches. He is the best I would say.

from what you said, chat room guys sound quite blur!!!

 

[TracyTan866]

Thanks bro zhihau, a successful person is one who can find commonalities among the differences.

wise words...Thanks for that enlightenment

 

[TracyTan866]

Bro blursotong bro,may i know how old r you?

either he is young or he is innocent

 

[TracyTan866]

Paiseh, one last post before I go for my dinner. Did not follow up on this thread. So Jocelyn deliver already or not? Where is Jocelyn now? Can still take aeloplane?

Jocelyn is in Perth now and is due to deliver her baby in Nov. She intends to stay in Australia until Jan2013. She has two months maternity leave and has to apply for two months no pay leave.

Apparently her company gives only two months maternity leave if she delivers her child overseas. Is this another way the govt tries to discourage Singaporeans from choosing to deliver their babies overseas? If so, it is a very ill-advised policy.

Instead of studying why Singaporeans choose to give birth overseas and use positive re-inforcements, the pap chooses to ignore the root cause and uses negative measures to deter Singaporeans. This wont work!

Very silly govt!

 

[TracyTan866]

no lah. sometimes that is the fun when you miss it. Makes one cherish the precious moments.

But still very sayang leh.

Added this.

Machiam kena first price but lost ticket.

hahahaha..true

 

[TracyTan866]

No wonder CSJ always hit the wall.

Things may change for CSJ now. hopefully the APs can be more united to fight the common enemy

 

[TracyTan866]

Wonder whether blur finally managed to get second prize?

getting second prize is a poor consolation

 

[TracyTan866]

That is why there is a saying that it is ok to have a beautiful mistress but not wise to have too pretty a wife.

I think having a pretty wife is a blessing. men should not choose to have an ugly wife ..otherwise it is self fulfilling...

 

[TracyTan866]

You seem to hit on one of Singapore's key reasons for our low TFR, late marriage problem.

Read my thread on "Why Have Children in SG?"..some singaporeans are choosing not to have children

 

[TracyTan866]

Very interesting. They say it is natural for a man to sow wild oats but is it also the same for a woman?

Nature's way of procreation? if men dont sow wild oats, will the human species become extinct??

 

[Fook Seng]

which turn caused this thread to take on a different path? I thought we were focused on Jocelyn?

And then you mentioned Constance who looked like Jocelyn and Zhihau wanted to find out more.